Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy
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DL084 – Twinergy
Bibi figures out how to feel, while Fifi relives her childhood labour. Plus our recap of hosting the 2025 Hollywood Burlesque Festival at NeueHouse Hollywood, and also #KittyHats at Etsy.com/shop/VeraDuffyOfLosFeliz !
DL083 – TwinterRude
Madness, rudeness, and Weirdness for this week’s Twinterlude! Links! Lucha VaVOOM DLLCHIRLAMind the Music (forthcoming)
DL082 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 4
The exciting conclusion to Bibi’s chat with burlesque legend Kitten DeVille! Plus! Peep these lovely ladies from Vanessa Burgundy’s Shadowbox Cabaret!
DL081 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 3
Part 3 of our follow up interview with burlesque legend Kitten DeVille!
DL080 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 2
Part two of guest Kitten DeVille’s follow up interview!
DL079 – Kitten DeVille Follow Up – part 1
Barbara follows up with Kitten DeVille, our guest reviewer from The Narcissist in Your Life episodes.
DL078 – Tong Ring
Vera gets tong-tied while Barbara rings in a whole new her!
DL077 – Hallotweens
Twinterlude time!
DL073 – Poor Devil
Everything you wanted to know about Martin Luther’s sex life/bowel movements, and more!
DL072 – Coffee Break
A twinsightful twinterlude covering heaven, hell, and coffee breaks.
DL071 – The Narcissist In Your Life – part 5 “Finale”
The fifth and final episode covering the narcissist in YOUR life with guest reviewer Kitten DeVille.
DL070 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 4 “P.T.S.D(ad)”
Kitten reveals a surefire way of knowing if your partner is really into you. Upcoming shows with us twins!5/29 Lucha VaVOOM6/1 Ron Lynch’s Tomorrow!6/23 Stars in the Backyard w/Jack Black
DL069 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 3 “Carousel of Love”
Part 3 of our review, featuring guest reviewer Kitten DeVille – plus, our time hosting the World Famous Burlesque Showcase at Viva Las Vegas 27! Also – Bibi has a news flash (tattoo) about her last relationship.
DL068 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 2 “Playing the Market”
Part 2 of our review, featuring our guest the legendary neo-burlesque queen Kitten DeVille!
DL067 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 1 “Just Kitten”
Neo-Burlesque legend KITTEN DEVILLE joins us in reviewing THE NARCISSIST IN YOUR LIFE: RECOGNIZING PATTERNS AND LEARNING TO BREAK FREE. After suddenly losing Shawn, her beloved husband of 36 years, Kitten found herself back in the dating world with unexpected results. (Spolier: this book comes in handy.) She gave us
DL066 – The Five Love Languages – part 4 “Big Happy”
The fourth and final part of our review of THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES, featuring guest reviewer Jaime Sena!
DL065 – Bar-Bara
Lucha Va VOOM De La Liz, Moldy Ball of Death, and a very special Valentine’s Day in this week’s Twinterlude!
DL064 – The Five Love Languages part 3 – “Sh*t on Noodles”
Us twins and guest Jaime Sena continue our review, featuring smooth stick, filthy baby, and Joe Manganiello
DL063 – The Five Love Languages – part 2 “Seminal Works”
We continue on, with guest Jaime Sena!
DL062 – The Five Love Languages – part 1 “Christian Gravy”
We are extremely excited to welcome long-time friend and listener Jaime Sena to help us review 1952’s 1992’s classic relationship tome by Gary Chapman!
DL061 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 6 “Sh*tshow of Love”
Behold our TRIUMPHANT RETURN with the BIG FINISH to Florence William’s HEARTBREAK book! Plus! BIBI updates us on her relationship, and YOU buy tickets to our benefit featuring Paul Feig screening his GHOSTBUSTERS movie — right here! Also ICYMI – Mike Lindell’s LUMPY PILLOW FREAKOUT:
DL060 – Martini Shot
We talk about the Good Deed Corps screening of PRETTY IN PINK, featuring stars Jon Cryer and Annie Potts! Plus, a disconcerting concert.
DL059 – Girl Talk
Dinner parties, cyber goths, and a sun-protecting Vickie.
DL058 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 5 “Flush Tattoo”
We continue with Florence Williams’ Heartbreak book, plus twinsights on naked photos and racist skulls.
DL057 – Heels Over Head
We have upcoming shows! Plus, Bibi meets an interesting fellow lady1 Tickets for the LOS SUPER SEVEN / Good Deed Corps benefit here! AND! Tickets to TIKI-VIEW here!
DL056 – It’s A Tap
We talk sharing relationship responsibilities, a revelashe ’bout patriarchy, and the fact that Barbara IS ACTUALLY DATING SOMEONE SHE MET IRL!!!!@!! Plus! Did you say you were in the market for some ancient filthy stripper shoes (or 3)?? Make Bibi an offer, before it’s too late!
DL055 – Afraidy Ladies
We work an event with Weird Al benefitting voting registrations org The Good Deed Corps, get caught in a police stand-off between the LAPD and a minivan, and drive Barbara’s date around town in Vera’s trunk. In Tip Jar news, thank you to FANG YANG! Stay tuned for a proper
DL054 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 4 “Misery Into Death”
Loneliness is bad – just ask your body. But all is not lost: there are Ministries of Loneliness, Men’s Sheds, EMDRs, and of course kayaking! And guess what, after this episode we are HALF WAY through the book! Plus, the meditative RAT : www.remote-associates-test.com
DL053 – Lit Gas
The twins talk gaslighting, edging, allergies, and their upcoming show THIS FRIDAY MARCH 3RD! Tickets here! (Also: Is it fetish? Well is it???) (Yes.)
DL052 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 3 “Don’t Be Heartbroken”
A twinsight about Vera’s cat allergies preludes the next three chapters of HEARTBREAK, covering pair-bonding prairie voles, more head-harem bullshit, and complicated grief. Speaking of, Bibi tells a sad story.
DL051 – Breast Deduction
Emergency Twinterlude! It’s nudes to Vera that one of us has gone under the knife, while Barbara breaks down the fax of May/December relationships.
DL050 – Misses Romantics
Our upcoming live performance of The Slap Booth, Vera’s hospital husb, and a Reilly great show that un-Hinges Barbara: And yes, that’s right – we are performing this Saturday, February 4th, as part of Blonde Brunette Productions’s PEEK-A-VIEW. 9pm at Hello Stranger, 320 E. 2nd Street, Los Angeles. Get tickets
DL049 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 2 “Guita-red Flag”
Bibi tells a diverting story, Vera accepts a helping knee, and Florence Williams loses her Ennis match in the next installment of HEARTBREAK.
DL048 – Rinkchronicity
Mon-knee for nothing, Bibi’s Rink Report, and a hard candy shell on this week’s Twinterlude episode!
DL047 Twinterlude – 2022 Recap
Missed out on an episode this year? We got you covered! Please enjoy this recap of the last twelve, glorious months. Plus, we rebrand!! Thank you, dear Frands, for your continued love, support, and listenage. 2023 promises much more book!
DL046 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 1
We did it! We reviewed an actual DATING-TYPE BOOK!!! Please enjoy our take on chapters 1-3 of Florence Williams’s kayaklicious-tome. And also: Krampii! Read more about the “rickety bridge experiment” (aka “misattribution of arousal”) here.
DL045 – Good Will
Rollerskating, red flags, and THIS: Which was brought to you by THIS. And THIS:
DL044 – Growments
Listener Jeremy writes in, twinspiring a convo; twins are thankful; and Bibi weighs a possible Hinge suitor.
DL043 – Skatey Ladies
Remember when Barbara was hurting over Hinge, and Vera said let’s go roller skating instead? A lot has happened since. Listen in on the update! Plus, we attempt to talk about the Five Love Languages, a book we have not read – yet (?)
DL042 Twinterlude – Shards
Barbara has a new dating strategy, but Vera rolls with other plans. Also: ‘member this hottie? Class dismissed!
DL041 Twinterlude – Otta Know Best
The twins are back from the Ottawa International Animation Festival with tales to tell! Check out Fran Krause’s Deep Dark Fears!
DL040 Twinterlude – Otta Know Better
The twins are headed back to the Ottawa International Animation festival, pumpkin carving contest and all – but first, Bibi elaborates on last episode’s tale of unfulfilling sexy time.
DL039 Twinterlude – Key Party
The twins plan a swingin’ gathering for their 47th birthday!
DL038 Twinterlude – DIY
The twins talk jerking ON, plus Bibi shares a relationship goals revelashe and Vera gets TWO new Instagram followers! Check out Bad Bitch Big Sis here!
DL037 Twinterlude – Mission Twinn
Join us at the historic Mission Inn and Spa in beautiful downtown Riverside, California, where we talk about app dating, Surrealist balls, and why our hotel room door is barricaded with a chair!
DL036 – The Snow Ball
This podcast about books and dating makes it’s long-awaited return to books and dating! Vera shares her insight into Brigid Brophy’s 1964 masterpiece of fiction about Mozart, sex, and death. It’s got everything: a lavish 18th century-themed New Years Eve gala, a mysterious masked man make-out, a kick in the
DL035 Twinterlude – Twincels
Incels, autoerotic asphyxiation, and thriving in chaos, plus Bibi examines some recent dates!
DL034 Twinterlude – Snow Ballin’
An episode that ranges from Victorian morality to “snowballs.” Yeah, you’ve been warned.
DL033 Office Hours – Ask Prix About Poly
We twins and our resident expert on alternative relationships, Prix de Beaute, take a newly-single listener’s question about keeping her relationship status “open” in this audio edit from our Instagram Live chat. Plus a brief guide to reaching your US government representative!
DL032 Twinterlude – Make It Rain
Barbara fondly recounts a pants-on lady-time, and the twins get all Emo.