Dad Tired

In March 2020, Dad Tired community member Brandon Janous lost his wife to cancer after a two year battle. She was 38 and a mother 3. Today's episode will no doubt shift your perspective and priorities as you hear Brandon share with Jerrad what he has learned as a new widower, and what he wishes he would have done differently.

Is it possible to be an absent father, even when you're present? Many adults talk about how even felt like their father wasn't present, even though he was physically around. In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he discusses what it looks like to be Christian dads who are present while being present.

What does it look like for a Christian dad to be the spiritual leader of his home during major world events? How does he continue to point his family to Jesus when the world seems a little chaotic. Is there opportunity to grow closer to God, and help your family do the same during trying times? In this week's episode, host Jerrad Lopes will discuss what it looks like to be a dad who loves and leads his family well during major world events.

One of the biggest fears that we should have as Christian fathers is that we succeed at everything in life, but fail to love and lead our family well. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by CEO Daniel Harkavy to discuss where the best leaders put their time and energy. The pair spend a good chunk of their time discussing specifically how important a morning routine is, what it looks like, and how that directly impacts you as the leader of your home.

Maybe you feel stuck in your old habits, and don't know how to change. Or maybe you've experience serious emotional trauma and you've never had the courage to face it. In today's powerful interview, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Dr. Joe Martin, who shares vulnerably about his past of sexual abuse, adultery, and divorce. Dr. Martin unpacks how someone who has experienced deep emotional hurt, and has made mistakes bigger than they feel like God can handle, can begin to find healing and freedom. As Christian fathers, we must be well to lead well. Today's episode can be a step forward toward that healing.

When most Christian dads think through how to lead their family well, one of the first questions that comes to mind is, "What devotional should I read?" or "What should family Bible time look like in my home?" In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Pastor John McGee from Watermark church to talk about the surprising quality every dad should have, and how it changes the way you disciple your children.

Are you leading your family like a disgruntled employee, or a successful CEO? In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes covers 5 ways a Christian father can lead his wife and kids in the same way a successful CEO leads an organization.

Most dads want to be the spiritual leader of their home, yet very few fathers were ever taught how to be that kind of Christian husband and father. In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award-winning film-maker Alex Kendrick (War Room, Facing The Giants, Courageous) to give 5 practical ways for young dads to step up as the spiritual leader of their home.

Have you ever had a moment as a dad where you did something well and surprised yourself? Almost like the wisdom came from beyond yourself? In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by award winning music artist Cody Carnes (The Blessing, Nothing Else, Run to the Father) to talk about how God gives us wisdom beyond ourselves as fathers. Cody shares openly about his childhood, parenting struggles, and his role as a husband. You'll walk away encouraged as a Christian dad who wants to lead his family well.

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by best-selling authors Ruth & Troy Simons, and founders of gracelaced.com. As the parents of 6 boys, Troy and Ruth spend their time equipping young parents to know and love the Gospel, and helping their children do the same. If you need some friends to sit down and point you to Jesus, this episode is for you.

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by his wife Leila to discuss the different roles that both the husband and wife play to contribute to a thriving family.

In one of his most down-to-earth interviews to date, host Jerrad Lopes sits down with Christian recording artist Micah Tyler to talk about everything under the sun. The pair cover topics like being the spiritual leader of your home, being on the same page with your wife, depression, faithfulness in what God calls you to, and how Micah came to know Christ. Grab a cup a coffee and enjoy this fun, yet deep, conversation between two friends that will point you closer to Jesus.

How much screen time is too much? Are video games ok for your kids? How does that Gospel change the way we look at all of these things. Whether you and your kids are addicted to tech, or you don't know how to work a smart phone, this episode will point you and your family toward Jesus.

In this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Grammy award winning artist Matthew West to talk about the heart behind his hit song "The God Who Stays". Matthew reminds Christian husbands and fathers that the reason they stick around and stay faithful to their family is motivated by God sticking around and remaining faithful to us.

This week's news of the Coronavirus Pandemic has caused a lot of chaos and confusion. If you have a spouse who is already prone to anxiety, these events might add to the problem. In this week's episode, Jerrad is joined by his wife Leila, who admittedly struggles with anxiety. She shares three ways that a spouse can support their anxious partner.

I know a lot of you guys are struggling with what you are doing with your life. Many of you have shared that you feel like you're going through a mid-life crisis as a man, or that you still haven't figured out what you want to do when you grow up. If you can relate to any of that, this episode is for you.

In today's episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Grammy award winning hip-hop artist, Lecrae. The world-famous rapper shares parts his story about his father that he's never shared with anyone else. He also talks about his own journey as a father, how we as men can find our identity in what we do (not who we are), and chasing after what you want most versus what you want in the moment. You won't want to miss this powerful interview.

Money is often listed as one of the top contributors of stress for most couples. But what happens when you and your spouse don't see eye to eye when it comes to finances? Or maybe neither of you were ever taught how to manage money well? In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Talaat McNeely, founder of His and Her Money, to discuss his personal journey of becoming debt free and how couples can do the same.

Grant Baldwin of The Speaker Lab joins host Jerrad Lopes to discuss whether dads should quit their job to pursue their dreams. Grant shares his personal experience of leaving a stable job in ministry to pursue entrepreneur endeavors, and how that can effect a marriage.

As parents it can feel like we are always telling our kids what not to do. In this episode Jerrad Lopes gives practical ways to not just discipline your kids, but to remind them of who God created them to be. The episode offers both theological and practical tips for dads who want to raise kids who are secure in their identity in Christ.

If you feel like sitting down and having a family meal is more like a chore, and less like a time to lead your family toward Jesus, this episode is for you. As young dads, it can often seem as though a family meal is something to simply power through and survive. In today's episode, Jerrad talks about why meals are so important throughout the scriptures, and how they can be used to point your family toward Jesus.

There is a saying that goes, "99% of men admit to dealing with pornography at some level, and 1% lie". The statistic may not be accurate, but the principle remains the same; pornography has affected almost all of us men in some way. In today's episode, Jerrad Lopes is joined by Pastor Sathiya Sam to talk about his personal journey of pornography addiction, and how he is now helping others break free. If you have felt a sense of hopelessness in this area, may today's episode be a beacon of hope.

It's hard to be intentional about leading your family, when you don't know where you're trying to go. In this episode, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Jeremy Pryor to talk about why and how to create a family mission statement that your whole family can get behind.

It's hard to lead your family toward Jesus when you personally feel far from Him. In this episode, Jerrad shares very honestly about what to do when you are in seasons of life that are "spiritually dry" and four helpful questions any dad can ask themself.

In this week's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Dr. Gary Chapman to discuss the importance of learning the love languages of both your wife and children.

In this episode, Jerrad takes live questions from the guys of the Dad Tired community. Topics include technology boundaries for kids, playing favorites with your kids, balancing work and business, Bethel Church, and how to handle parents/in-laws.

Do your kids know why we celebrate Christmas? Do they understand the gravity of Jesus being born? In this episode, join Jerrad Lopes as he talks about the meaning of Christmas in the midst of the busy chaos, and how it has radical implications for our lives today.

Pastor and Author, David Platt joins Jerrad Lopes to talk about his new book, Something Needs To Change, while also talking about his own journey as a husband and father who is trying to lead his family well.

In today's episode, former Sanctus Real frontman, Matt Hammitt talks about his journey of stumbling through what it means to be the spiritual leader of his family.

When our marriage and family isn't operating the way we'd want it to, our first response is typically to blame. But, what if something deeper is going on? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares why most families are leaning toward death without even knowing.

The majority of men walk around with a "dad wound"; some kind of hurt that was creating by their father. Most of these wounds originate from the words, actions, or absence of their father. Is it possible to heal from these wounds? And, how to we not create them in our own children as Christian dads?

Kristen Jenson, best selling author of "Good Pictures, Bad Pictures" joins host Jerrad Lopes to talk about how we as parents can protect our children from pornography, and what to do if they have been exposed.

How do you know if you're growing as a mature believer in Christ? How do you know if your kids are? Do you have a game-plan for helping your kids grow in discipleship? In this episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks about what it looks like to know where you and your kids are in your discipleship journey, and how to continue to mature in Christ.

John Mark Comer says that some of his worst moments as a husband and father are when he is in a hurry. Can you relate? When you are living a life that is busy and rushed, are you loving those around you like Jesus would, or are you short-tempered, frustrated, and annoyed? In this episode you'll hear the real reason most of us live such hurried lives, how we got here, and if there is any hope of slowing down.

In today's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks with pastor, husband, and father Chris Cipollone about living a life with depression, anxiety. If you, or someone you love is struggling in this area, today's episode is for you.

In today's episode of the Dad Tired podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Anthony ONeal of the Dave Ramsey Team. The pair talk about the student loan crisis, while Anthony offers a path to sending your children through college without taking on any debt.

This past week Jerrad and Leila got into a fight that ended with Leila in tears. It was the first fight they had had in years. Listen as they process where they went wrong and what you can do to fight for unity in your marriage.

Seasons of change and transitions are inevitable. Whether it be change at work, change in career, or moving to a new home or state, change is bound to come. But, what does it look like to lead your family well in these seasons of change? Join host Jerrad Lopes as he unpacks the difference between spiritual maturity and being an immature man, during seasons of transition.

In today's episode, Jerrad is joined by Ryan and Selena Frederick, founders of Fierce Marriage, to talk about what it looks like for couples to relentlessly chase after both Jesus and each other.

Many of us guys are longing to find adventure in our lives. We turn to things like hobbies, sports, work, or even sinful things like pornography, alcohol and affairs. In this episode, Jerrad talks about what it looks like to practically find adventure in Jesus and how to bring your family along.

In this week's episode, David Cotrone joins host Jerrad Lopes to talk about what it looks like to live on mission as a father, husband and small business owner. If you're stuck on what it looks like to live radically for Jesus in your day-to-day life as a dad, this episode is for you.

Some of us have convinced ourselves that our thought life is free reign to mediate on whatever we'd like. Jesus seemed to have a different idea of what thought life should look like for his followers.

In today's episode, former NHL star, and husband to Carrie Underwood, Mike Fisher joins Jerrad to talk about the goal of being a Jesus-centered dad.

In today's podcast, host Jerrad Lopes is joined by Joshua Straub, co-founder of Famous At Home to discuss the 7 ways to become famous at home. Jerrad and Josh discuss at length what it looks like for a guy to become better at processing and expressing his emotion, along with learning how to deal with the emotion of your spouse and kids.

Do you feel like you're a good listener? How would your wife and kids answer that question about you? In today's episode, join host Jerrad Lopes and his wife Leila as they have an honest conversation about how to listen to your spouse well.

Are you struggling with doubt? Do you have a child who is already doubting their faith? In the episode of the Dad Tired podcast, join host Jerrad Lopes as he talks with Pastor Dominic Done about his book "When Faith Fails".

In today's episode, NFL Hall-of-Fame coach Tony Dungy talks about his upbringing, his biggest moments in the NFL, raising 10 kids, and what our kids will remember most about their childhood with their dad.

Are you feeling stuck on whether or not you should have more kids? Maybe you're content with how things are, but your wife is starting to get baby-fever. If you're not sure whether you should have more kids, or feeling guilty about your reasons for not wanting to, this episode is for you.

Are you having a hard time finding a church? Maybe you're not totally convinced that you really even need church. If we're honest, we can find great messages and worship online and be spiritually fed outside of the local church. We're also not convinced that the way we do church now is ever how Jesus intended things to be. Whether you've been hurt by the church, or you're just confused on what to teach your kids about the subject, this episode will hopefully add some clarity.

This week, Jerrad interviews author, pastor, and friend, Chris Nye about his new book Less of More, and what it means for us as men. Description of Less of More: For most Americans, the pursuit of happiness really means the pursuit of more--more money, more prestige, more stuff. We've made idols out of innovation, growth, power, and wealth. Far from offering us happiness and satisfaction, this has only left us exhausted, isolated, miserable, and wondering if there is a better way.There is. Less of More exposes our pursuit of more for what it truly is: an attempt to satisfy our souls with the temporary instead of the eternal. Pastor and writer Chris Nye invites us to consider what a full and abundant life looks like apart from money, status, and power. He exposes the lies inherent in our obsession with growth, fame, and wealth and calls us to a countercultural life marked by connection, obscurity, vulnerability, and generosity.If you have gained the world but lost your soul, Less of More offers a compelling path toward a life of true, deep, lasting satisfaction with Jesus--not us--at the center of it.