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Why So Many Men Are Secretly Controlled by Shame (Especially Around Sex)
Episode 329

Why So Many Men Are Secretly Controlled by Shame (Especially Around Sex)

Dad Starting Over · Dad Starting Over

August 29, 20257m 53s

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Show Notes

Most men carry shame. But they don’t talk about it—especially when it comes to sex.

They were raised to be "good boys," "nice guys," and "respectful partners"... but underneath that, many are dealing with something toxic: sexual shame. It wrecks their confidence. It kills their desire. And it silently poisons their relationships.

In this video, I break down how sexual shame develops in men, how it fuels codependency and dead bedrooms, and what it takes to finally own who you are as a man—without guilt, without apology.

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📚 Recommended books mentioned:

  • No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover
  • Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody
  • Healing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw

Topics

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