
Crimes of the Heart: a love and dating podcast
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Ep 64Confessions of a Cheater
Rory and a listener we are calling Megan discuss what she's learned as both the cheater and the cheatee in this weeks episode of Crimes of the Heart. Shout out to "Megan" you know who you are :)To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 63Marriage and Kids with Colton Underwood
Colton Underwood joins Rory Uphold to discuss his time on the bachelor and how it helped his love life, being a mental health advocate for others, especially LGTBQ youth, and all things Daddyhood. Colton gets real about his fertility journey in the hopes that it will help others who might not know what their options are... plus so much more!! To listen to Daddyhood click HERE to follow Colton click HERE and to follow the Daddyhood podcast click HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 62The Power of Intimacy with Alexandra Roxo
This week Rory is joined by the illuminating Alexandra Roxo to talk about the power of intimacy and daring to feel. They discuss how to walk up to people and meet them in person, how to deal with your own baggage and trauma, and how to resolve conflicts so that they dont end up in blow out fights + so much more. If you are interested in learning more, get DARE TO FEEL by clicking HERE OR Learn more about Alexandra at her website here: https://www.alexandraroxo.com/(disclaimer: I might be eligible for commissions on certain purchases)To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 61Dating Marco DelVecchio
Marco DelVecchio joins the podcast as the second straight man on the show -- and it doesn't disappoint. He has no idea where he is or what this show is about but they do cover everything from favorite sex positions to what its like dating in LA and why Marco isn't such a fuckboy despite playing one on F boy Island. To slide into Marco's DM's click HERE or to listen to his podcast click HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 60The Worst First Date feat. Jenna Jean
Rory Uphold is joined by Tiktok star, Jenna Jean to weigh in on a very shitty "crime"... Plus! They discuss dating with IBS, being catfished, and bouncing back better from a breakup. Follow Jenna Jean on Tiktok HERE or IG HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 59Getting the Love you Deserve with MJ Harris
Rory Uphold is joined by MJ Harris (influencer, coach, spiritual champion & the author of GET THE F*CK OUT YOUR OWN WAY) to talk about how to find the love that you want. Sometimes, in order to find what you want you need to let go of other things... In this episode Rory adn MJ discuss building self love, better boundaries and ultimately how to attract the love you deserve with actionable steps. You can buy MJ's book HERE!! You can follow MJ on Instagram HERE or Tiktok HERE(Amazon links may be affiliate links and if so I might be eligible for commission)To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Video vodcast credit: Fatih AndiSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 58Dating with MRKH Syndrome feat. Molly McGylnn
Rory Uphold is joined by writer/director Molly McGylnn to discuss her new movie Fitting In and the incredibly personal story it's based on -- Molly's own trials and tribulations living with MRKH syndrome. What's it like to date knowing you cannot carry a child? What's it like to be told you have a blind Vagina at 16 years old? What does it even mean to be a women?!?... Rory and Molly dive into all of these questions and so much more. This episode is for anyone who's ever felt like they are different and/or don't fit in.FITTING IN is out NOW! For more info follow Molly HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 57The Ultimate Rejection with KALES
Today, Rory is joined by KALES - who shares a romantic rejection story that changed the course of her life. PLUS! She shares how she ultimately bounced back better. A true, rejection is redirection story <3To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Video vodcast credit: Fatih AndiSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 56Dating in your 30's with Julia Mazur
Julia Mazur from Pretty Much Done Podcast drops by to talk confidence, dating your 30's and living outside of societal norms. Having grown up overweight and under a lot family pressures, Julia had to navigate a self-love journey in order to find happiness on her own terms. She dated a lot of Mr. Good On Papers only to realize that what was missing was inside her. She's joined the podcast to talk to us about confidence and self love and how to cultivate both in our own lives. To follow Julia click HERE.To watch the show, make sure to sign up for the mailing list (and confirm via email!) HERE!For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry Foster Video vodcast credit: Fatih AndiSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 55What is masculinity?!? feat. Jack Garratt
The conventional notion of masculinity hurts all of us, not just men. Today Rory Uphold sits down with cult favorite Jack Garratt to talk about therapy, failed erections, self-love, dating app etiquette and so so soooo much more. Plus! They listen to a story from HALE about virginity and "manhood" and discuss. To follow Jack click HERE. To listen to his music click HERE. To sign up for the MAILING LIST: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 54Hack Your Love Life with Damona Hoffman
What's standing in the way between you and the romantic life you've always wanted?!?! Damona Hoffman is here to help answer that question. Her new book F The Fairy Tale takes a deep dive into some of the topics we covered on todays' show and if you'd like to follow Damon on IG you can do that HERE or on Tiktok HERE.For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 53Dating Lessons & Valentine's History
Welcome back!! Season 3 baybeeeee! I'm updating you guys on my life, dropping some Valentine's Day facts and sharing my top 4 takeaways since hosting this show...For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 52Busting Popular Myths about Desire with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy & Dr. Jennifer Vencill
Everything you never knew about libido and desire... This week Rory sits down with the authors of "Desire" to bust popular myths about bedroom dynamics and how to help you fix your love life. Plus! Tips for navigating sensitive conversations around desire and pleasure and making sure all parties feel fulfilled. She's joined by Dr. Jennifer Vencill and Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy, sex therapists and the authors of DesireYou can purchase DESIRE here. Or, Follow Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy HERE or Dr. Jennifer Vencill HERE.We discuss Comes as you Are and The Gottman Method, both linked!(I may be eligible for commission on select products)Thanks to HARU for sponsoring this episode. Visit https://harunmore.com/ and use RORY10 for ten percent off at check out!!Try their Thrill drops (my fave!) here: https://letsharu.cc/Wl3Cy Or, their Insatiate oil here: https://letsharu.cc/GEhSMTo win free Haru, sign up for the mailing list (and confirm) HERE: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 51Do you have an anti-fragile relationship? feat. Candice Horbacz
This week Rory Uphold is joined by Candice Horbacz (AKA Eva Lovia) a former Porn Star turned entrepreneur slash wife and mom. They discuss the truth about the adult entertainment industry and how Candice's time in porn actually helped her strengthen not only her relationship with her husband but her relationship with herself. Plus! She gives us tips and tricks from hot date night ideas to how to have uncomfortable conversations and so much more...You can follow Candice on IG: Here. Or her podcast "Chatting with Candice" Here.ANON SURVEY: CLICK HERE (if you're interested in having input on the future of this show!)For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdSummaryCandice Horback, a successful adult entertainment performer, shares her journey into the industry and the challenges she faced. She discusses the perception and stigma surrounding the industry and the reality of porn versus real-life sex plus pros and cons of incorporating it into a relationship. Candice and Rory discuss the concept of anti-fragile relationships and how being in the porn industry has impacted Candice's marriage. They share advice on approaching difficult conversations in relationships and creating a safe space for communication.TakeawaysPornography should not be seen as a reflection of real-life sex.The perception of cheating in relation to porn is often based on societal biases and double standards.The porn industry can amplify insecurities and trigger negative reactions in individuals who are not comfortable with their own sexuality.Anti-fragile relationships are built on open communication, honesty, and the ability to navigate challenges together.Approaching difficult conversations in relationships requires creating a safe space, being patient, and allowing each partner to express themselves fully.Relationships go through ups and downs, and it's important to recognize and navigate these changes together.The S*xual Buffet exercise can bring playfulness and creativity into a relationship by exploring new sexual experiences and desires.To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 50How to Meet people IRL with Lane Moore
ANON SURVEY: CLICK HEREThis week Rory Uphold is joined by multi-talent Lane Moore to discuss the power of friend love, how to meet people IRL (and off apps!), what to do when you're a people pleaser... and SOO much more. Link's to Lane's books: How To Be Alone and You Will Find Your People. You can learn more about Lane at her website: https://www.lanemoore.org or follow her on IG HERE. (May be eligible for commission)For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdThanks to OseaMalibu.com for sponsoring this episode - don't forget to use code: CRIMES for 10% off your first order site wideIn this conversation, Lane Moore discusses the similarities between making friends and dating. She challenges the notion that friendships should be superficial and explores the importance of treating friendships with the same depth and care as romantic relationships. Lane also shares her insights on the lack of significant changes in dating apps over the years and the toxic behaviors that persist. She emphasizes the need to be open and vulnerable in everyday life to form meaningful connections. Additionally, Lane addresses the desire for love and connection and the importance of setting boundaries in friendships. In this conversation, Lane Moore discusses the challenges of ending unhealthy relationships and provides tips for navigating friend breakups. She challenges the myth of lifelong friendships and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries in friendships. Moore also encourages listeners to choose themselves in relationships and offers advice for those who feel like the only single friend. She highlights the power of reaching out to friends when feeling low and changing self-talk in self-love practices. Ultimately, Moore emphasizes the importance of prioritizing peace and joy in all relationships.TakeawaysFriendships should be treated with the same depth and care as romantic relationships.Dating apps have not significantly changed over the years, and toxic behaviors persist.Meaningful connections can be formed by being open and vulnerable in everyday life.It is important to set boundaries in friendships and accept disappointment when necessary.To send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 49Dating with Herpes feat. Sophie Miller
Rory Uphold is joined by 21 year old Sophie Miller to talk about her recent diagnosis with Herpes and how it's affected her romantic and sexual life since. I first saw Sophie when she went viral on tiktok and was moved by her honesty -- I hope this episode chips away at the stigma and shame surrounding STI's. If you'd like to learn more about Sophie, you can follow her on Tiktok HERE or IG HERE. *Not sponsored* Here are links to JEMS: https://jemsforall.com/ and to LOLA: https://mylola.com/products/condomsFor future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 48The Gift of Starting Over with Amanda Thomas (Luv AJ)
In order to win the 300$ Luv AJ gift certificate, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/This week, Rory sits down with Jewelry maven, CEO and all around inspiration, Amanda Thomas to discus a harrowing story from Madeleine. (Follow Madeleine's travel journey on Tiktok HERE or her IG HERE) Amanda and Rory also discuss divorce at 36 and why it's a blessing, the ultimate first date trick, how to get over being burned and so so so much more. If you loved this episode drop us a comment on Spotify or Apple podcasts and share the love <3Don't forget to check out Luv AJ HERE! Or on IG HERE. (Just in time for the holidays!) And You can follow Amanda Thomas HERE.Here's a link to Come As You Are, the book referenced in this podcast.(As an affiliate I may earn from qualifying purchases!)For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 47Dry Humping with Tawny Lara
This week Rory Uphold is joined by Tawny Lara, a sober expert and the author of DRY HUMPING! Join them for a boisterous conversation about confidence and self-love with some practical advice for those looking to explore sobriety as well as those who feel safe/settled in their relationship with booze. To win a copy of DRY HUMPING (and be entered to win future giveaways) sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/You can follow Tawny HERE or buy her book HERE(As an affiliate I may earn from qualifying purchases!)For future giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 46Drunk Date Disasters with Bran Flakezz
Philly's influencer of the year, Bran Flakezz joins Rory Uphold to discuss a drunken disaster of a second date -- plus, they discuss coming out, situationships, bad dates, anxious attachment styles and soooo much more!Follow Bran Flakezz on IG HERE or Tiktok HERE.For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdThanks to OSEA for sponsoring this episode -- Don't forget to use CRIMES for 10% of your first purchase site wide at: www.Oseamalibu.comTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 45Why People Ghost with Nancy Jo Sales
Iconic culture writer, Nancy Jo Sales joins Rory for a frank and informative conversation about dating apps, ghosting and origins of the dating apocalypse -- Plus! They discuss porn, the American Plan, and how to resist the app addiction. To check out Nancy's book click HERE. To read her Dating Apocalypse article click HERE. ((This is an amazon link and I might be eligible for commission).For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 44Avoiding Breakups with Jared Freid
Jared Freid joins Rory and they listen to an unconventional 'ghost' story from Carly... the two discuss 'hurt people, hurt people', being afraid of breaking up, icks, the problem with 'if he wanted to he would" and so much more.To follow Jared on IG click HERE or to listen to The JTrain Podcast click HERE. His special "37 & Single" is out on Netflix now!!To follow Carly on IG click HERE or Tiktok click HERE.For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 43Are you Dateable?!?
In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING and today Rory sits down with OG love and dating podcasters Julie and Yue from DATEABLE. Together, they swap wild ghost stories, advice on dealing with rejection, thoughts on falling in love with yourself and so much more! You can listen to Datable HERE. To follow Dateable on IG click HERE.For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 42Ghosted in Person with Nick Norcia
In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING and today Chino shares a wild *in person* ghost story & guest Nick Norcia weighs in. Plus! Nick and Rory discuss bad dates, learning to release shame, Nick's three date rule, avoidant attachments and soooo much more.To follow Nick on IG click HERE or Tiktok click HERE. To follow Chino click HERE.If you're interested in reading the books mentioned you can click on either: The Velvet Rage or The Ethical Slut.For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 41Ghosting Victim or Villain with Bree Essrig
In honor of Spooky Season, October's theme is GHOSTING & we are kicking things off with an absolutely wild story from Ashleigh... and epic ghosting turned revenge story. And Bree Essrig joins to help discuss whether Ashleigh is the victim or the villain and so much more. The girls discuss dating siblings, cheating, bouncing back and how to be a professional sugar baby. To follow Bree on IG click HERE or Tiktok click HERE or check out her website here: https://linktr.ee/lilsummerhoeFor more insane stories from Ashleigh follow her on IG HERE or Tiktok HERE.For Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 40FBI-ing a Ghost with Alisha Wainwright!
In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with actress Alisha Wainwright about how to win the breakup in the most bizarre way possible. And let’s just say Step #1 is to stop checking your ex's account at 5:10 in the morning. Special thanks to TikTok’s @bellafoofellah for sharing her chaotic breakup saga! To listen to Alisha's new podcast click HERE. To follow her on IG click HERE. And to learn more about Bella follow her on IG or TIKTOK.To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 39True Love & Ultimate Revenge with Betty Who
Baby daddies? Epic revenge? Coming out as queer? Marrying the love of your life? This weeks episode of Crimes of the Heart has it all! Plus, pop singer Betty Who stops by to give us tips on monogamy and her take on a WILD Australian "crime".To follow Betty Who click HERETo sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 38Getting Kinky with Jedidiah Jenkins
In this episode, Rory Uphold tells quite possibly the craziest Grindr hookup story in the history of Grindr hookups. Let’s just say it involves TikTok’s @n0tjeffrey and more than your average whips and chains…Plus, New York Times best-selling author Jedidiah Jenkins drops by to give his take on kinks, fetishes, kidnapping and more!To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 37One Night Stands with Akilah Hughes
Rory Uphold tells the most insane story about a girl's quest for the perfect one night stand that turned into what could quite possibly be described as anyone’s worst nightmare. Plus, comedian Akilah Hughes drops by to give her take on this jaw-dropping tale and even gives some BJ advice for those of you who also have penis phobia.To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 36Ask a Matchmaker!
Rory is joined by lifelong/second generation matchmaker Tammi Pickle from Elite Connections Intl. to talk about dating trends, do's & don'ts and the 411 on using a matchmaker. If you're interested in learning more about Tammi or Elite Connections feel free to reach out to here here: https://www.eliteconnections.com/To sign up for our mailing list & be entered to win our giveaways click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 35Closing the Pleasure Gap with DAME
Rory Uphold is joined by Alexandra "Al" Fine, the CEO and Co-Founder of Dame Products to talk about the TABOO topic of female pleasure and how she has made it her mission to help close the pleasure gap. DAME is giving away four toys to Crimes of the Heart listeners. To be included in this giveaway sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/To check out DAME and their A+ products click here: https://dame.com/To follow them on IG click HERE or to Follow Al Fine click HERE.For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 34Cheating & The Song My Ex Ruined
Rory Uphold joins Songs My Ex Ruined to discuss heartbreak, cheating and the Adele song she can't hear without crying... This week Rory finds herself in the hot seat as she swaps episodes with Songs My Ex Ruined, available here: https://pod.link/1654983254. A Big thank you to Melissa and Courtney <3For Crimes of the Heart giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 33Zakir's Date From Hell with Atsuko!!
Atsuko Okatsuka joins Crimes of the Heart to dish on Zakir's date from hell, staying present, and accidentally getting married twice.To follow Atsuko click HERE or HERE and watch her special "The Intruder" on HBO or Max.To follow Zakir click HERE or HEREFor Giveaways, sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 32Cheaters with Gabrielle Stone
Rory has covid so we are revisiting one of her favorite episodes with Gabrielle Stone! The topic is CHEATING, something that inspired Gabrielle's hit book!! They also talk about potential warning signs, getting back in the dating pool after a breakup or divorce, and how you can turn the worst thing that happened to you into a best-selling book that helps other women struggling along the way!To follow Gabrielle on IG click HERE, on Tiktok click HERE and to buy her book EAT PRAY FML click HERE.(FYI: I'm an amazon affiliate!)To sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 31Asexuality, in the city of Love with Aline
This week Rory is joined by award winning journalist, author and podcaster Aline Laurent-Maynard to talk about their journey with sexuality -- specifically, realizing they were not only asexual but also aromantic and what that's meant for Aline's love life.To listen to Free From Desire: Asexual in the City of Love click HERE & to follow Aline on Instagram HERETo sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo send a story or leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 30Protecting against Toxicity with JEMS
To win a 12 pack of JEMS sign up for the mailing list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/This week, Rory Uphold is joined by Whitney Geller and Yasemin Emory, the co-founders of JEMS, a female run, non-toxic condom company. They dive in on all things toxic - from ingredients, to marketing and messaging, to the lack of information about the STAGGERING rise in STI's... and thankfully, these ladies break down how we can better protect ourselves both inside and out! For sexual eduction tips or to buy JEMS visit: https://jemsforall.com/To follow JEMS on Instagram click HERE or Tiktok click HEREFor video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo join the mailing list or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 29"Nice" Guys with Liza Treyger
The hilarious Liza Treyger (Survival of the Thickest; The Degenerates) joins Rory Uphold to talk catfish, toxic ex's and their mutual love of the Hitachi...For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdYou can listen to Liza's podcast HEREYou can follow Liza on IG HERE or on Tiktok HEREFor tour dates and more about Liza, check her website: http://www.glittercheese.com/To join the mailing list or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 28Independence in Relationships
Happy Independence day -- in keeping with the theme on July 4th, here is a mini episode where I speak to some of my happily married friends (and some of the minds behind your favorite romantic stories) to ask them about what independence means in a romantic relationship.Thank you to Alana Levinson, Jenny Smart, Ben York Jones, Laura Moses, Shannon Bower, Anita Gatto, Meredith Goldstein, and Todd Strauss-Schulson (I love you all xx)For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo check out the show's new website or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 27How to be Your Own Sugar Daddy with Tori Dunlap
Click to subscribe to the email list here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/This week Rory Uphold is joined by Tori Dunlap, an internationally-recognized money and career expert, seven-figure entrepreneur, bestselling author, and top podcast host, to talk all things money, finance and feminism. This episode outlines the parallels between money and dating and how listeners can hopefully improve both. Tori Dunlap provides a wealth of knowledge (pun intended) with actionable steps you can implement TODAY.To learn more about Tori visit her website: https://herfirst100k.com/Listen to her podcast Financial Feminist HERE or buy her incredible book HERE!(As an Amazon Associate I may earn from qualifying purchases)For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo check out the show's new website or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 26Crazy Love Lessons with Rachel Bloom
Click to subscribe to my email list & for a chance to win a Higher Love "Dream Wand Kit" here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/This week Rory Uphold is joined by award winning actress, writer, singer, comedian and author RACHEL BLOOM. Together, they listen to a looney "crime" about money from a finance expert named Maddy. Plus, Rory and Rachel discuss virginity, pregnancy, finding the one and so much more. You can follow Rachel Bloom on Instagram HERE & order her book "I Want To Be Where The Normal People Are" HERE(As an Amazon Associate I may earn from qualifying purchases)Follow Maddy on Tiktok HEREFor video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdThank you to HIGHER LOVE for sponsoring this episode!!Higher Love is a female-founded sexual wellness brand based in Los Angeles, built on the belief that every human deserves to feel good in their own skin. They make pleasure products designed to help you connect your mind with your body. Their Dream Wand kit contains an incredible 2-in-1 vibrating wand which offers the option for internal or external stimulation. It also comes with a Heart-shaped compact mirror to encourage you to see your own body, a cute sticker pack and connection cards designed to help you reflect inwards. Because Self-Love is a superpower! Check out @higherlovevibes on Instagram!To check out the show's new website or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 25Having Better Sex with Renowned Sex Therapist Ian Kerner
Click to subscribe to my email list & for a chance to win one of Ian's books here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Today I am joined by Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT. He's a licensed psychotherapist, a nationally recognized sex therapist and a New York Times Best Selling Author. As a fan of his work I am thrilled to be able to share our conversation about the pleasure gap and how both men and women can work together to bring more sexuality equality into the bedroom.To learn more about Ian, visit his website here: https://www.iankerner.com/If you're interested in buying his books:So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had SexShe Comes FirstPassionista(As an Amazon Associate I may earn from qualifying purchases)To check out the show's new website or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokSHOW NOTES:Welcome to Crimes of the Heart, the podcast that delves into the taboo complexities of human relationships. In our latest episode, we sit down with sex therapist Ian Kerner to discuss how his work can help save relationships and sex lives. He emphasizes the importance of healthy communication and open discussion about sexual desires and fantasies in relationships. Our conversation touches on the growing popularity of non-monogamy among couples, the challenges women face in achieving orgasm during partnered sex, and the importance of prioritizing sexual attraction when choosing a partner. We also discuss the significance of foreplay and the misconception that intercourse is the only form of sex. Join us as we explore the complexities of female orgasm and the importance of mental and emotional factors. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking and informative episode of Crimes of the Heart. Subscribe now and enter for a chance to win a copy of Ian Kerner's book!TOPICS INCLUDE:- Talking about sexual fantasies- Prioritizing sexual attraction- The significance of foreplay- Shifting to outer course- The importance of sensual kissing- Relational vs. recreational sex- Compatibility in relationships- Complexity of female orgasm- Building a "sex script"- Communicating from a vulnerable spaceSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 24Dating Pro Athletes & PTSD with Becca Moore
Rory Uphold is joined by hilarious Tiktok star Becca Moore to weigh in on a cringe-worth crime involving a professional Hockey player and one verrrrrrry bad make-out.To learn more about Becca you can follow her on Tiktok HERE and IG HERE and you can listen to the song we reference HERE!To check out the show's new website or to leave a voice message go here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokSHOW NOTES:Welcome to "Crimes of the Heart," the podcast that explores the complexities of dating, relationships, and self-love. In this episode, host Rory Uphold delves into the topic of compromising self-worth and boundaries in the pursuit of love. Drawing from personal experiences, she emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-respect and self-work before seeking validation from others. Rory and her guest Becca Moore also explore the strange attraction of dating athletes, the impact of toxic relationships, and the cycle of abuse passed down from generation to generation. Join the ongoing conversation on the topic, and be sure to check the show's new website for to leave voice messages for Rory. This weeks special guest is Becca Moore, a content creator and TikToker, who regularly offers hilarious advice "for the girls".Topics include:- Compromising self-worth in relationships- Uncomfortable sexual experiences- Dating athletes- Poverty's influence on attraction- Toxic relationships- Abusive relationship cycles- Bad dates involving The Bachelor franchise- Relationships and being single- And so much moreNotable Quotes"The only reason you chase people that don't already recognize what you bring to the table is because you yourself don't fully believe it" - Rory UpholdKeywords1. love experts 2. betrayal 3. self-worth 4. manifestation 5. avoidant behavior 6. validation 7. podcast 8. TikTok 9. professional athletes 10. dating anxietyOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 23Polyamory 101 with Broadway's Paloma Garcia-Lee
With alternative relationship models on the rise why do so many people keep cheating when they could just be non monogamous?? Rory Uphold is joined by Paloma Garcia-Lee to talk all things ethical non-monogamy, what is was like to be with three people at once and who pays for what in a "closed V" relationship. Today we are looking at monogamy, but from another perspective.To learn more about Paloma Garcia-Lee click HERE for her InstagramFor video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokhttps://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Opening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 22Is This Normal?! with Dr. Jolene Brighten
Dr. Jolene Brighten joins Rory Uphold to answer the question "Is This Normal" in a conversation that covers everything from what to do when he throws off your PH balance to how to improve sex on SSRI's. They cover topics like when to avoid doggy style, how to eat for your period, why your underwear might have bleach spots and hormones hormones hormones... Plus! Dr. Brighten answers listeners questions about endometriosis and getting pregnant on Plan B.To purchase IS THIS NORMAL click HERETo learn more about Dr. Jolene Brighten check out her website HERE or follow her on Instagram HERE.To read more about spontaneous vs responsive desire click HERE.(As an Amazon Associate I may earn from qualifying purchases)For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 21Dabs and Dates with Rachel Wolfson
Rachel Wolfson and Rory Uphold listen to Jaden's dab date gone wrong AKA Rory's nightmare. Plus! They discuss the new rules of consent, walk-of-shame essentials, the Jackass Universe, and so more....For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdFor Rachel Wolfson tour dates & comedy click HERE or follow her on Instagram HERE or Tiktok HERETo learn more about Jaden click HEREGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokhttps://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/Opening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 20The Art of Giving with Hillary Kerr (part 2)
Part 2!! Hillary Kerr continues her conversation with Rory Uphold - they talk love bombers, PDA, nontraditional marriages, love languages and so much more!If you missed part one, click HERE to listen to that first!For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdFollow Hillary Kerr on Instagram! Listen to Second Life! Subscribe to her incredible Newsletter!Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 19The Art of Giving with Hillary Kerr (part 1)
Hillary Kerr joins Rory Uphold to discuss Suzy's insane gift related break-up story in this weeks "crime" of the heart. Plus! They talk cheaters, the perks of being single, how to "have it all" and SO much more. This is part one of two part interview!!For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdFollow Hillary Kerr on Instagram! Listen to Second Life! Subscribe to her incredible Newsletter!To watch Suzy's video about "Roy" click HERE or to follow her on Instagram click HEREGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 18Healing From A Love "Crime"
In this weeks solocast, Rory reveals one of her own "crimes of the heart"... It's a personal story about betrayal, self-protection and having the courage to change.For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 17Love Advice with Meredith Goldstein from Love Letters
This week Rory Uphold is joined by The Boston Globe's Love Letters relationship advice columnist, Meredith Goldstein. They talk about dating trends Meredith has seen over the years, dating fatigue, snooping, their shortest dates and why you should be wary of the funny guy. Plus!! Meredith talks about her transition from chronically single to coupled.To listen to the Love Letters Podcast click HEREFor Meredith's Instagram & for the Love Letters InstagramFor video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 16My First Threesome with 2Girls1Blunt
Emily and Jaime from 2Girls1Blunt stop by to discuss a 'criminally' bad one night stand with Rory. Plus! The girls dish on Only Fans, going celibate, tickle fetishes, and why you should never hook up with a Gregory.For video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdTo check out 2Girls1Blunt click HERE or follow their IG HEREFor Emily's Instagram & her Only FansFor Jaime's Instagram & her TiktokGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ep 15Breaking up with Body Shame feat. Molly Tarlov
Molly Tarlov joins Rory to discuss a true horror story involving a body shame & a break-up. Plus! Molly Tarlov dishes on marriage, motherhood and her 24 hours on J-date.For Molly's IG click HEREFor video clips from this episode follow Rory on INSTAGRAM at @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryupholdGot a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at [email protected] or DM on Instagram & TikTokOpening Jingle credit: Harry FosterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.