Counselling Tutor podcast

In episode 104 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss residentials that form part of counselling courses. In 'Practice Matters', Rory then talks about the differences between professional (or ethical) bodies and awarding bodies. The podcast ends on a discussion about whether or not you should break confidentiality if a client with HIV or AIDS discloses to you that they are having unprotected sex.

In episode 103 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about the future of counselling qualifications. Next – in 'Practice Matters' – Rory describes attachment styles. Last, the presenters discuss why we focus on feelings (as opposed to narrative/story) in counselling.

In episode 102 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about whether and how to explain your modality to clients. In 'Practice Matters', Rory looks at how to end a counselling session. Last, the presenters discuss ways of responding when clients ask for advice.

In episode 101 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss the challenges of balancing your studies with all the other demands of life. In 'Practice Matters', Rory looks at what we can do when counselling seems not to work. Finally, the presenters discuss the challenges of your own personal development as a student counsellor.

Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes are very proud and excited to present the 100th episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast! There have been over 600,000 downloads of the podcast since it began – that's about the population of Glasgow – with a total running time of over 20 years (day and night)! To mark this special episode, Ken and Rory focus on the theme of celebration, looking first at owning your success. In 'Practice Matters', Rory then explores his experience of celebrating with clients. Finally, the presenters talk about reaching 100 client hours, and how to mark this huge achievement.

In episode 99 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss the thorny issue of whether it's possible to become friends with a former client. In 'Practice Matters', Rory explores his experience of appropriate attire as a counsellor, and – without telling listeners how to dress – asks listeners to consider how what you wear might affect the therapeutic relationship. Last, the presenters talk about possible progression routes after level 3.

During the UK academic breaks, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly produce occasional special editions of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, in which they provide a 'deep dive' into a specific topic important to counselling and psychotherapy. In this episode, Rory talks with Angela Maughan about her experiences with autism as both a counselling client and student counsellor.

During the UK academic breaks, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly produce occasional special editions of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, in which they provide a 'deep dive' into a specific topic important to counselling and psychotherapy. In this episode, Rory talks with Yvonne Lomas about her experiences with dyslexia as both a student and a teacher. They also give tips for studying with dyslexia.

In episode 98 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss whether it's possible for a counsellor to be too nice. In 'Practice Matters', Rory then talks about the appropriate use of questions in counselling. Finally, the presenters explore attachment styles, and how these can affect the therapeutic relationship.

In episode 97 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about the natural anxiety that students often experience when having their counselling skills observed and/or assessed. In 'Practice Matters', Rory explores the thinking behind the requirement of many counselling courses that participants access their own personal therapy. Finally, the presenters explore culture, and how cultural differences can affect the therapeutic relationship.

In episode 96 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes clarify the difference between counselling and psychotherapy. In 'Practice Matters', Rory looks at how to develop your own internal supervisor. Last, the presenters discuss the skill of reflection in counselling.

In episode 95 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes clarify the study type and level required to become qualified as a counsellor. In 'Practice Matters', Rory looks at how to work with clients who have received a formal mental health diagnosis. Last, the presenters discuss working with sex offenders.

In episode 94 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes debate whether we can ever be truly non-biased. In 'Practice Matters', Rory covers the new General Data Protection Regulation for Europe. Finally, the presenters talk about what you could do if you're feeling judged by your personal counsellor.

In episode 93 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about what it means to be dyslexic as a counselling student. In 'Practice Matters', Rory talks about immediacy as a skill. Last, the presenters discuss personal development (PD) and its connection to theory.

In episode 92 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about whether and – if so – when it is advisable to add to your original modality. In 'Practice Matters', Rory discusses the issue of free speech in the therapy room. Finally, the presenters look again at working with diverse client groups.

In episode 91 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on what to do if you feel you clash with another student in your group. In 'Practice Matters', Rory looks at the more sinister aspect of mobile phones in the therapy room. Last, the presenters discuss when, how and with whom you might choose to share your accomplishments and qualifications.

In episode 90 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes describe the importance of joining an ethical body as a student member. In 'Practice Matters', Rory provides an overview on how to work with issues of a sexually intimate nature in the therapy room, Last, the presenters discuss the difference between reflection and reflexivity.

In episode 89 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about how to respond when a client asks you a direct question. In 'Practice Matters', Rory describes the importance of research for counselling. Finally, the presenters discuss the importance of understanding agency policies and procedures.

In episode 88 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on writing a reflective journal (a common requirement of counselling training courses). In 'Practice Matters', Rory talks about what you need to know when working with clients who are going through a court case. The episode closes with a discussion on disclosing personal problems to the group as a counselling student.

In episode 87 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes look at the complex issue of self-harm. In 'Practice Matters', Rory describes how to 'shrink' people. Last, the presenters provide guidance on looking for a counselling placement.

In episode 86 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes look at the difficult issue of touch in counselling. In 'Practice Matters', Rory describes strategies from his experience of working with suicidal clients. The presenters end the episode by talking about the anxiety that can naturally hit us when working in a group setting – and how we can help assuage this.

In episode 85 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes look at the 'here and now' in counselling. In 'Practice Matters', Rory talks about the risk of client dependency and how to spot this. Finally, the presenters discuss common motivations for studying counselling.

In episode 84 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast – the first of season 4 ­– Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on setting goals for the academic year ahead, and describe the support they can offer with your studies. 'Practice Matters' goes 'back to basics, covering the fundamentals of counselling. Last, the presenters discuss reading lists, and how best to tackle the academic reading you need to do for your course.

In the final episode of season 3 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes interviews Professor Tim Bond, who serves as consultant to the BACP on its Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions. Tim is also the author of Standards and Ethics for Counselling in Action (4th edition) (Sage, 2015).

In episode 82 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on how to study effectively. 'Practice Matters' addresses the difficult issue of taking risks in therapy. Last, the presenters discuss faith and religion, and whether these stem from an external or internal locus of evaluation.

In episode 81 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer guidance for disappointed students who haven't got a place on the course they wanted. 'Practice Matters' goes on to describe the use of timelines in therapy. Finally, the presenters discuss possible challenges to learning.

In episode 80 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about counselling clients who are affected by domestic abuse. 'Practice Matters' discusses trauma-informed practice. Last, the presenters explain cognitive dissonance.

In episode 79 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on the common issue of having feelings of incompetence as a student counsellor. 'Practice Matters' discussed working with a third person in the room. Finally, the presenters talk about completing your placement hours.

In episode 78 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on using quotations in assignments. 'Practice Matters' looks at reasons why clients may 'disappear'. Last, the presenters discuss what it means to have an assignment referred.

In episode 77 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss whether age is a barrier to starting counselling training. 'Practice Matters' then looks at working within your competence as a counsellor. Finally, the presenters talk about getting signed off as fit to practise.

In episode 76 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss how to spot and work with clients' defences. 'Practice Matters' then investigates the limits to confidentiality in counselling. Finally, the presenters discuss the key principles of the person-centred approach.

In episode 75 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about psychodynamic theory. 'Practice Matters' then delves into transference, before the presenters discuss Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs.

In episode 74 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about self-concept, as written about by Carl Rogers. 'Practice Matters' examines attending. Last, the presenters discuss unconditional positive regard (UPR).

In episode 73 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss the skill of active listening. 'Practice Matters' follows, in which Rory explains the Caldicott principles and how these can support ethical multidisciplinary working. Finally, the presenters discuss the use of simile and metaphor in counselling.

In episode 72 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss empathy in counselling. Continuing to 'Practice Matters', Rory explains the main stages of counselling. Last, the presenters discuss immediacy.

In episode 71 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about the dual-process model of bereavement. 'Practice Matters' focuses on hard-to-help clients. Finally, the presenters discuss working with clients with dementia, including using validation therapy.

In episode 70 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on recording and transcribing counselling sessions. 'Practice Matters' discusses the important contents of a counselling contract. Last, the presenters discuss the philosophy that underlies cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT).

In episode 69 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about whether you should tell clients that you are a student counsellor. 'Practice Matters' then looks at how to make the most of your counselling placement. Finally, the presenters discuss the dilemma of counsellors with clinical depression.

In episode 68 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about the strengths and hazards of expressive therapy, before 'Practice Matters' examines reviews in counselling. Then, the presenters discuss goal-setting with clients.

In episode 67 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes talk about difference and diversity in counselling. 'Practice Matters' focuses on how you, as counsellor, can recognise when you are experiencing transference relating to a client. Finally, the presenters discuss writing a reflective journal when this needs to be submitted to your tutor.

In episode 66 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes ask whether all counselling modalities are based on the person-centred approach. 'Practice Matters' then looks at boundaries in counselling. Last, the presenters discuss possible reasons for clients changing the topic in the counselling room.

In episode 65 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes explain how to decode the academic language of criteria. Following on – in 'Practice Matters' – Rory advises on making referrals. Finally, the presenters discuss how to use timelines in counselling.

In episode 64 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss what to do when a client uses language that you might be uncomfortable with or not understand. Next, in a brand-new slot – 'Practice Matters' – Rory offers guidance on assessing clients. Last but not least, the presenters discuss person-centred interventions.

In episode 63 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer guidance on the meaning of the term 'patterns of relating'. 'Theory with Rory' looks at the new area of cyber trauma. Finally, the presenters discuss the life-changing nature of counselling training, which often brings about large shifts in students' moral compasses.

In episode 62 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on how to make the first contact with a new client. 'Theory with Rory' summarises Martin Buber's concept of 'I–Thou' versus 'I-It'. Last, the presenters discuss the difficulties of seeing our own areas of prejudice.

In episode 61 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes explain the difference between ethical dilemmas and ethical conflicts, and how you can deal with these. 'Theory with Rory' looks at rackets and stamps, part of transactional analysis (TA) theory. Finally, the presenters illustrate the id, ego and superego (part of psychodynamic theory).

In episode 60 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes discuss how to look after yourself as a counsellor, especially when you are experiencing difficult events in your own life. 'Theory with Rory' presents the work of Jean Piaget. Last, the presenters explain how to compare and contrast humanistic models of counselling.

In episode 59 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken and Rory discuss how to offer unconditional positive regard (UPR) when your client has very different personal beliefs from your own. 'Theory with Rory' looks at the work of Eugene Gendlin, who developed the approach of focusing. Finally, the presenters offer encouragement on meeting the criteria of awarding bodies for counselling qualifications.

In episode 58 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken and Rory explain the law on counselling adopted people on adoption issues. 'Theory with Rory' looks at the cutting-edge field of brain plasticity. To finish this episode, the presenters discuss whether and how the gender of the therapist affects counselling.

In episode 57 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken and Rory talk about the difference between 'explicit' and 'implicit'. 'Theory with Rory' discusses existentialism. Last, the presenters explain the science behind person-centred counselling.