Come On You Know Podcast

Send a textCelebrating two years of podcasting that began as a workplace bet and evolved into a consistent creative outlet. What started as a challenge has become a journey of finding my voice and building confidence behind the microphone.• Started the podcast when colleagues bet I couldn't do it• Learned that consistency is the key to podcasting success, despite adult responsibilities• Found my authentic voice over time through repetition and practice• The microphone exposes authenticity – if you're fake, listeners will know• Planning to expand in year three with guests, video format, and possibly AI elements• Shoutout to KMDA Studios and ND Life Adventures YouTube channel for inspirationCheck out ND Life Adventures on YouTube for great advice and adventures – I've learned a lot from her show and think you will too.

Send a textEver found yourself trapped behind a family meeting in the cereal aisle? Or cursed with a shopping cart that sounds like it's on its last wheel? You're not alone.This episode dives headfirst into the chaotic world of grocery store navigation and the myriad ways our fellow shoppers test our patience. From the unexplainable curse of always selecting the cart with "scoliosis" to the special frustration of being blocked from reaching the bread by someone who clearly doesn't understand the concept of shopping flow.We explore the perplexing phenomenon of shoppers who seem genuinely surprised when it's their turn at checkout, the passive-aggressive placement of divider bars, and the special irritation of being trapped behind someone with expired coupons. There's a special callout to those who FaceTime their way through stores, creating a "grocery committee" that slows everyone down.The layout of certain stores (looking at you, Wegmans) comes under fire for lacking any sensible traffic pattern, transforming a simple shopping trip into an obstacle course of frustration. These observations hit at the heart of a universal experience - one that showcases humanity at both its most oblivious and its most judgmental.Whether you're a strategic shopper who plans your trips during off-hours or someone who's been guilty of blocking an entire frozen food section while deciding between ice cream flavors, this episode will have you nodding in agreement and perhaps reconsidering your own supermarket behaviors.Share your own grocery store horror stories with us and let's compare notes on this mundane yet mysteriously complex social activity that brings out the worst in otherwise reasonable people!

Send a textTrust—it's a small word with enormous implications that we all use daily, but have we stripped it of its true meaning?After returning from a hiatus (and nursing a ruptured Achilles tendon that gave me newfound empathy for Aaron Rodgers), I'm tackling this fundamental concept that underpins our personal relationships, business partnerships, and daily interactions. As the first episode under the KMDA Studios banner, I wanted to dig into something substantial—something we all think we understand but rarely examine critically.What if trust isn't about emotional loyalty or fidelity at all? What if it's simply recognizing patterns and having confidence in their continuation? Throughout this episode, I explore how trust functions as predictability over time rather than an emotional safety net. When someone says, "You broke my trust," they're often really saying, "You violated my expectations"—two fundamentally different concepts that we've merged together in modern conversation.We've diluted the power of trust through misuse, particularly in the age of social media where authenticity competes with curated presentation. Companies throw around "trust me" slogans while individuals use trust as a weapon in relationships without truly understanding what they're asking for. By reclaiming the true meaning of trust as pattern recognition—like trusting a train will arrive on schedule because it always has—we can develop healthier expectations of others and ourselves.Whether you agree with my perspective or think I'm completely off-base, I invite you to listen, reflect, and challenge your assumptions about this cornerstone concept. Subscribe to the podcast as we continue pulling back the curtain on words and ideas we take for granted but might not fully comprehend. Come on, you know you want to hear more.

Send a textEver had your mom invite you over for Thanksgiving, only to hand you a spatula and an apron? That's just one of the hilarious stories I’m sharing in this episode of Come On You Know. As I return from a brief hiatus, I’m diving headfirst into the art of Thanksgiving hosting, peppered with my personal misadventures and newfound insights from my rise to fame. With the holiday just around the corner, I’ll give you the inside scoop on avoiding chaotic last-minute grocery runs and making sure everyone leaves with a full belly and a happy heart. But that's not all—let's face it, Thanksgiving is as much about navigating social dynamics as it is about turkey and stuffing. This episode also unpacks the delicate dance of maintaining friendship balance during the holidays and steering clear of those cringe-worthy family conversations. From mismatched table settings to dodging unsolicited remarks, I’m here to guide you through these festive challenges with humor and practical tips. Join me for a rollercoaster of anecdotes and advice that promises to leave you both informed and entertained, so your Thanksgiving is a joyous celebration of friendship, family, and food.

Send us Fan MailStrap yourself in for an epic brain-feast of survival tips and chuckles as we tackle the mother of all hypotheticals: a zombie apocalypse. If you've ever wondered how to transform your local supercenter into a zombie-proof fortress while keeping a semblance of sanity, this is the episode you can't afford to miss. I'll regale you with laugh-out-loud tales from the lighter side of life, like my brother's kitchen catastrophe, before we hunker down to business. We're talking slow zombies, fast zombies, and the kind that might just outrun Usain Bolt post-transformation. I'm dishing out actionable strategies to ensure you're the leader of the pack when society's fabric unravels.This apocalyptic rollercoaster doesn't stop at zombie evasion; we're covering all disaster bases. Imagine the end of the world as we know it – now picture yourself thriving, not just surviving, with a little help from your friends. I'm not just serving up my top-shelf survival plan; I'm throwing down the gauntlet, challenging you to bring your best post-apocalyptic game plans to the table. Whether it's an extraterrestrial showdown or bracing for a natural disaster, tune in for insights on building community, mental toughness, and yes – even where to set up the most crucial stronghold gym. So gather your crew and let's ensure we're prepped for anything but boredom!

Send a textThere's a certain chill in the air and a warmth in our hearts that can only mean one thing: it's time to crank up those Christmas classics that have us rockin' around the Christmas tree! On this festive ride, I'm sharing the secret playlist that's like my personal Santa's sack of holiday joy. From the velvet vocals of Nat King Cole serenading us with "O Come, All Ye Faithful" to the timeless charm of Frank Sinatra's "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas," these tunes are the ones you'll catch me humming while I deck the halls. And if you're thinking it's all about the old school classics, think again—I've got the Temptations giving us the feels with "Silent Night," and Stevie Wonder's "This Christmas" lighting up the top of my tree. It's a merry mix that's sure to have you reaching for the eggnog and cranking the volume.But wait, there's more tinsel for your tree as I dub "Christmas in Hollis" by Run DMC the ultimate Christmas anthem that keeps on giving all year long. It's a track that wraps up my festive feels with a big, shiny bow. And because it's the season of giving, I'm sending out a sleigh-full of shout-outs to the people who sprinkle that extra sparkle on my yuletide: Naps Mango, Lataytay, Mrs. Wilson, and the rest of the crew, you're the reason my bells jingle. So pull up a chair, pour yourself some hot cocoa, and join me in celebrating the songs and souls that make this the most wonderful time of the year. Happy holidays, and let's make this season one for the record books!

Send a textEver wished you could travel back in time? Well, buckle up because we're about to take a hilarious detour down memory lane, reliving the joys and struggles of an era that's been left behind by technology. We'll be chuckling over the dialing woes of rotary phones and the lost art of memorizing phone numbers. You'll also get a kick out of our day-to-day battles with daytime minutes and the saga of transitioning to cell phone plans. And who could forget the epic skill required to record a song perfectly on a cassette tape? We'll also be exploring the evolution of our televisions, the internet, and credit cards, reminding ourselves of simpler times when technology wasn't as advanced.But we aren't stopping there! The second part of our nostalgic journey takes us back to the classic days of communication. Remember leaving voicemails with those cheesy musical backdrops, or communicating through cryptic pager messages? We sure do! We'll also be sharing our experiences with the now-extinct erasable CDs, and the revolution Napster and LimeWire brought to downloading music. And yes, we'll be getting misty-eyed over those good old days of waiting in anticipation for the newest releases on cassette tapes. So, prepare to laugh, reminisce, and maybe even shed a sentimental tear or two as we take this trip together, marveling at how far we've come.

Send a textEver wondered why your best friend suddenly stops talking after a squabble? Or why your buddy seems unfazed by your harsh banter? We're cracking open the mystery of friendships, navigating the intriguing contrasts between how men and women relate, resolve disputes and manage these precious bonds. Be prepared to learn the art of balancing preservation of feelings while fostering honesty, and discover the impact of pettiness on bonds, and when it's crucial to bridge gaps.Brace yourself for a deep dive into the core of friendships in the second part of our discussion. We're not just talking about the differences; we're picking apart similarities too. Get set to appreciate that respect and understanding supersede disparities in food choices, fitness preferences, sex, race, and even gender. Tune in for a roller coaster ride of personal anecdotes, sprinkled with humor, and packed with life-altering lessons. Let's walk together on this enlightening journey exploring the realm of friendships.

Send a textAre you ready for the roller-coaster ride of emotions that come with being a die-hard Jets fan? I've experienced it all; from the sky-high thrill of trading for Aaron Rodgers to the crushing disappointment of his unforeseen injury. This journey hasn't been easy, but it's provided some unforgettable moments, ones I look forward to sharing with you. Amidst the tumult, I've found solace in an unexpected hobby — gardening. From battling foxes to nurturing sunflowers, my green-thumb exploits have become a source of joy, and I hope, an inspiration for you.Now, imagine that you've just planted your first vegetable garden. You've got corn, squash, tomatoes and so much more growing out there. Then, you face the inevitable - pests. I've been there, trust me. From birds to foxes to squash bugs, I've encountered them all and managed to ward them off using natural methods. I've got stories to tell, tips to share, and I'm eager to hear your own gardening experiences and learn from them too. So, join me as we navigate the highs and lows of fandom and the rewarding journey of gardening.

Send a textEver got stuck in traffic with the driver ahead stubbornly maintaining the same speed, and wondered if you're the only one irked by this? Or maybe you're the kind who gets a tad bit frustrated inside a one-floor elevator ride filled with unnecessary small talk? I've been there, and on this episode, I am spilling my personal list of pet peeves and annoyances, from the highway to the elevator. And yes, I confess, I can be that person who obsessively presses the elevator button hoping it would make a difference. Feel free to chime in with your personal pet peeves; let's have a fun, relatable, slightly rant-filled chat.But there's more. How many of us realize that everyday life is riddled with situations that are surprisingly annoying? Picture this, you're in a grocery store, minding your business when someone decides to comment on your items or worse, blocks the aisle. We've all been there, right? We'll touch base on these frustrations, and share a laugh or two as we discuss how to handle such situations without losing our cool. Ready for an episode filled with laughs, rants, and maybe a wee bit of self-reflection? Buckle up!

Send a textAre the infinite choices on dating apps more of a curse than a blessing? We're tackling that provocative question, and more, in a lively discussion with a good friend of mine. We venture into the heart of the dating apps landscape, analyzing the impact of seemingly endless options on our attitudes and expectations. We'll also shed light on the disparities between male and female dating experiences, and the role societal norms play in shaping our approach to dating.Let's face it, when it comes to dating apps, attractiveness matters. But it’s not just about how you look - how you articulate your thoughts is equally significant. We explore this, and more, as we head into the murky waters of dating expectations versus realizations. With a multitude of options, we often find ourselves making shallow investments and feeling ultimately dissatisfied. We encourage a sense of realism and honesty in navigating these platforms, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating each other as individuals, not just potential matches. Buckle up, and let's challenge the status quo together.

Send a textPeeling back the layers of heartbreak, we navigate a journey that's been etched in my personal history. It was a time of emotional chaos, a testament to resilience, and a profound lesson in self-discovery. As we unravel the complexities of heartbreak, we can't ignore the gravity of its impact and the far-reaching consequences. This episode is an honest account of my personal encounter with heartbreak and offers a fresh perspective on managing such emotional hardships.The scars of heartbreak aren't just badges of a love lost but rather markers of lessons learned. They shape our character, enhance our resilience, and teach us to value quality over quantity in relationships. Hear about a heartfelt story of a relationship that didn't work out and the emotional and mental adjustments that were necessary to get past it. This episode will leave you with the understanding that the true essence of heartbreak is not about succumbing to someone else's control but about learning to rise against adversity. It's a sincere story of the humanizing event of heartbreak, its implications, and the respect it deserves.

Send a textA friend's surprise birthday party was the highlight of my week. It illuminated for me the power of friendship and the joy it injects into our lives. I was moved by the gratitude and happiness my friend expressed, reinforcing the significance of appreciating our friends and actively being a part of their lives. Discover how our friends not only make our lives more fulfilling but also act as mirrors, reflecting aspects of ourselves we might not even be aware of. They open doors to self-expression and self-discovery, providing us with invaluable insights into our own personalities.Now, let's take a more profound look at the dimension of nurturing friendships. Have you ever thought about how friendships, much like flowers, need tending to bloom? My little brother, a loyal listener to my shows, embodies this for me. His constant presence and support are priceless, reminding me of the importance of being there for our friends, of listening, and nurturing these beautiful bonds. In the aftermath of the trials and tribulations of recent years, our relationships with our friends have proven to be a lifeline. Join me as we delve into the richness that friendships can bring to our lives and the profound impact we can have by being present and engaged in these relationships.

Send a textEver wondered how your hobbies could potentially impact your love life or social interactions? Find out how two contrasting pastimes - gun collecting and gardening - can shape perceptions and discussions, especially in dating scenarios. We'll be unraveling the complexities of how sharing our interests, no matter how unconventional, can define our interactions while maintaining our unique individuality. It could be a debate on guns, or swapping gardening tips, your hobbies can be a surprising ice-breaker or a deal-breaker!Additionally, we'll be revealing how gardening is more than just a green thumb game. With a little help from our friends and their seasoned advice, anyone can bloom into a gardening enthusiast. And it's not all serious talk - we'll spice things up with a fun, light-hearted debate on pizza toppings! After all, who knew hobbies could be so all-encompassing? So, brace yourselves for an episode brimming with humor, passion, and some unconventional wisdom on navigating social landscapes. Let's dive into the fascinating world of hobbies!

Send a textWould you believe that the spark you're looking for in dating is not found, but built? Let's burst the myth of instant connections together. This episode is a candid exploration of the misunderstood concept of 'connection' in dating. We discuss how true connection is not just mutual attraction, but an emotional resonance that requires mutual understanding and effort. We’ll challenge the common misuse of the term 'connection' in dating, where it's often confused with attraction, and provide you with strategies to discern who you should invest in building a connection with. As we continue our journey, we'll share personal anecdotes and practical advice on what it truly means to search for connections in relationships. We highlight the difference between seeking a genuine connection and merely looking for a good time. Remember, a connection is a feeling, and if it's your feeling, you can trust it. However, building a true connection requires time and effort to understand the other person's perspective. We promise you an enlightening journey through the complex landscape of connections in relationships, providing fresh perspectives and actionable advice. So, are you ready to unravel the mystery of connection in dating?

Send a textDo you have a clear vision of where you want to go, but the journey to get there seems daunting? Don't fret! We've got you covered in this episode. We believe that the key to realizing your goals is persistence, and we are here to show you exactly how to harness this power. It's not about expecting immediate results, rather, it's about understanding the necessary steps to reach your end state and being prepared to face and navigate the inevitable complexities of human reactions. Trust us, the art of persistence can be learned and we're here to guide you through it.Do you often find yourself in situations that seem overwhelmingly negative? There's a silver lining to it and we'll help you find it in this episode. It's all about maintaining a positive perspective, even when things don't go as planned. We discuss how to remain steadfast and keep moving forward, focusing on the good in every situation. We also discuss the importance of relying on yourself, drawing strength from your loved ones, and drawing wisdom from your experiences. This episode is sure to leave you inspired, motivated, and ready to apply the power of persistence to your own life, whether it's personal, professional, or social. Tune in and let's conquer the world together!

Send a textEver found yourself entangled in the gnarly web of relationship rejection? Well, you're not alone. Walk with me, Dez, as we explore this unchartered terrain, and realize how similar relationships can be to a job interview. We'll grapple with the harsh reality of not always getting what we want, and how it's crucial to tackle these situations with grace and maturity. I'll also share my personal insights on this challenging subject and how it can be a bitter pill for the soul yet a sweet tonic for character growth.But the journey doesn't stop there. We'll also get our hands dirty and dig deeper into understanding our desires and why we covet certain things. Ever wondered if having everything you desire can actually be a bane rather than a boon? We'll philosophize on this thought and explore how rejection can be a powerful catalyst for personal growth. By the end of our journey, we aim to provide a fresh perspective and hopefully infuse a new sense of understanding of rejection in relationships. So, buckle up and join the ride as we peel back the layers of desires, wants, and the complex world of rejection.

Send a textCan you imagine being trapped in an elevator with zero power and a broken intercom system? Well, that's exactly what happened to me! In this hilarious episode, I share my own tales of having the 'best bad luck'. Get ready to listen to amusing chronicles of how I navigate through life's inconveniences and unexpected twists, always with a pinch of humor. From the aforementioned elevator ordeal to dealing with daily traffic, my life is full of these strange, and sometimes irritating, occurrences.With a promise to keep you entertained, I walk you through my recent elevator adventure and my attempts to channel my inner John Wick to escape. Join me as we laugh at life's many quirks and find humor even in the midst of inconvenience. Moreover, this episode also paves the way for future segments dedicated to sharing my 'best bad luck' stories. So, sit back, tune in, and get ready for tales of everyday adventures and misadventures that are sure to leave you in splits.

Send a textRemember those moments where you just couldn't seem to find the right word to express your feelings, and yet somehow managed to get your point across? Those are the Gen X moments we'll be exploring today. We'll be navigating through our unique and sometimes bizarre ways of dealing with life's curveballs- be it disciplining our not-so-kid-anymore kids, dating in the digital era or the perennial struggle of getting to work on time. Also, we'll be chuckling over our challenges with the world wide web and our adorable faith in pro-wrestling.Ever washed your sneakers as a ritualistic rite of passage? That’s just one among the many quirky tales from our youth we'll be reminiscing over. To top it off, we'll also be discussing the art of embracing our perfectly imperfect bodies. Yes, that 30% body fat is a badge of honor! Being sandwiched between Millennials and Boomers makes us the overlooked ones, but you know what? We're here, we're unique, and we're proud. So buckle up and join me, Dez, on this amazing journey of rediscovering Gen X, one podcast episode at a time.

Send a textBuckle up and brace yourself for a wild ride on the "Come On, You Know" podcast! Join our host, Dez, as he takes you on an exhilarating rollercoaster of a lifetime. Get ready for tales of Dez's crazy life exploits that defy all odds and make the improbable seem possible.So, prepare for a journey like no other. It's not just a podcast; it's an invitation to experience Dez's life's hilarity and chaos! From near misses to accidental triumphs, Dez will keep you laughing, gasping, and saying, "Come on, you know!" because you won't believe what he's been through.Get ready to join Dez on this wild, unpredictable, and utterly entertaining podcast. There's only one question: Are you ready to embark on this adventure? Come on, you know you want to!