Lucas and Kashyap Discuss the Man Box
Lucas and Kashyap take on the Man Box activity as a competition, brainstorming stereotypes about how guys are supposed to look, feel, compete, and date. The conversation spills into first dates, first jobs, and why you shouldn't lie to kids selling cookies on the street corner.
Breaking the Boy Code · Jonathon Reed, Lucas, Kashyap
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Show Notes
This episode started with a very specific backstory: a student symposium in northern Alberta wanted a session on gender stereotypes with boys, and not a single teacher volunteered to facilitate it. So we recorded one instead—an accessible version of the Man Box activity that any educator listening could see themselves leading.
Lucas and Kashyap take on the brainstorm as a competition, rattling off stereotypes about how guys are supposed to look, spend their time, express emotion, compete, and navigate dating and relationships. Along the way, the conversation takes its own turns—into looksmaxxing and skincare, the pressure on guys to make the first move, the nuance between being gay and acting gay, and whether it matters that no one ever sat us down and taught us the rules of manhood. The episode closes with Lucas reflecting on the nerves and surprises of his first job, and a shared observation about how adults show up—or don’t—for young people’s entrepreneurial spirit.
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