Big Lash Energy - Self-Help, Confidence & Real Talk for Women!

Continuing the Ultimate heartbreak story, with layers of scandal and betrayal across the continent. Are you still shaking your head at Jayna from last week's episode? If you're like me, you may be screaming to get that boy some fibre- cause he's *clearly* full of shit. As dramatic as it was, Jayna was just setting the scene for today's episode and things are about to get even wilder. If you thought last week's episode was scandalous, stay tuned, she was just getting warmed up! If you like to binge on murder documentaries, this episode has all the makings, the only difference is, the victim was Jaynas heart. When we last left Jayna and her man, they had reconciled in Las Vegas and decided to give having a family another shot. Jayna is out with her heart on her sleeve, ready to dive in head first, but are her eyes open as wide as her heart? Will this vacationship have Jayna living life on the beach, or drowning in quicksand? Trigger warning: This episode deals with pregnancy loss, gaslighting and extreme heartbreak Have you ever been so distracted by the prospect of love that you couldn't see the signs?! Has a stupid man ever driven you crazy?! If you have a story you think we need to hear, don't be shy! Connect with us: [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie! Signup here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! Share this podcast with your friends, so we can grow this tribe together!

Why is Jayna two glasses deep in a bottle of chardonnay this evening? She's building up the courage to relive her ultimate heartbreak. After alluding to this story in episode one, her inbox was flooded asking for more details- how?!? why and WTF?! Wasn't she too smart to get screwed over so badly? If Netflix had you gasping at the Tinder Swindler or Dirty John, then get cozy and listen up- this love story has all the scandal you're looking for! The stage is set in Mexico, where Jayna is dressed to impress and out for a much-needed night on a dance floor. Since she was travelling for business, romance was the furthest from her mind- but he changed everything. He had all the right lines, he was honest about what he wanted, and the conversation was easy- cue the fireworks! All too soon it's time to say goodbye and return home. Will there be more flights and credit card swipes? Can this long-distance relationship stand the test of time, or will it crash and burn? Trigger warning: This episode deals with pregnancy loss, gaslighting and extreme heartbreak Have you ever been so distracted by the prospect of love that you couldn't see the signs?! Have you ever used red flags as blindfolds?! If you have a story you think we need to hear, don't be shy! Connect with us: [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie! Signup here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! Share this podcast with your friends, so we can grow this tribe together!

Everything You Want Him to Know, but Are Too Shy to Say Yourself Shy people are said to have the loudest minds, so what are you screaming from the inside? In this episode, Jayna Marie goes full savage -not average- and throws modesty out the window to open the dialogue on all of the things that we women may be too embarrassed to mention in the bedroom. If you haven't shared your pleasure playbook with your lover maybe today's the day to tune in and turn it up together. As a follow up to her episode on "Faking the OH Face", Jayna's taking a stand to ensure her BLE Besties ride the quiver river to orgasm town. She polled her Instagram followers to ask them "What do you wish you could say to your man in bed but never will?" Women responded with all of the ways their needs were being overlooked- with hundreds of responses, she is keeping it real and sharing what she's learnt, such as what we like clean (no stinky dinkies) and when we may want things dirty. The goal of this episode is to learn together and as a result, spice up your love life! Just like grandma and grandpa aren't ageing out of enjoying an ice cream cone or their favourite song, if we get to a place where sex is a two-way treat we can look forward to riding our man like we stole him well into our twilight years. Let's open up this conversation and have sex so good we celebrate by doing it again. If you want to connect with us or have some bedroom advice you think we need to hear, don't be shy! Connect with us at [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie! Signup here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! Share this podcast with your friends, so we can grow this tribe together!

A series of unbelievable events that led to the creation of Big Lash Energy Albert Einstein once said, "Coincidence is God's way of staying anonymous." If he knew Jayna, he might have been talking about her and her Podcast. In this Episode, Jayna recounts her nail-biting journey and the pieces that have fallen into place to bring this podcast to life. In true Jayna fashion, nothing reduces the odds against her like ignoring them. Practically born wanting to hype women up, giving teenage speeches about overcoming abuse and adversity. (There's a reason why she was called "Little Oprah") Celebrating her friends and family every chance she got. It has been her lifelong mission to build up the women around her. When the stage was set for her to take the giant leap and broaden her audience from her makeup chair to the world, she may be too determined to be defeated by something as futile as a customs officer, a few too many drinks or a lack of any ID in a foreign country. Tune in as Jayna shares the tiny wins and hilarious nerve-wracking adventures that have opened the stage for her to tell you you are fabulous, beautiful and worthy of love. If you believe in Instagram Karma or have your own story just too coincidental to be a coincidence that we need to hear, don't be shy! Connect with us at [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie! Sign Up here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! If you could (pretty please!) share this podcast with your friends, we can grow this tribe together!

What do you get when you mix Jayna, the Coaches and a bottle of champagne in a recording studio?… tune in to find out! After hearing Coach P and Gurveen discuss their upbringing and how things are handled in their homes on the much-loved Coaches Don't Play Podcast, Jayna couldn't help but draw comparisons to her own family. She invited the coaches to join her for an episode of BLE to enjoy some champagne, kick back, and discuss the hilarious cultural differences between being raised in a Desi vs White household. Coach P spills the tea on the scandalous event that led to her father giving her the silent treatment for three months. Discover what their mothers told them about men. Hear why Bollywood movies may have ruined their love lives and what their parents told them about shaking up the sheets! Listen in to see how different their normals really are. Can you guess who suggested high sex for their parents to spice up their sexy time?! With the first BLE collaboration now in the books, if you have a special guest suggestion we can't pass up or if you have a wild upbringing story you think we need to hear, don't be shy! Connect with us at [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie! Sign Up here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! If you could (pretty please!) share this podcast with your friends, we can grow this tribe together!

Have you ever eaten an oatmeal raisin cookie, but then realized it was chocolate chip, and then two hours later realized it was an edible? This dating story may remind you of that feeling. Jayna shares the conclusion to the coincidental dating escapade in this follow-up episode of Dating Pro Athletes on Tinder: The episode where Jayna reveals she accidentally found herself in California hosting back-to-back dates with blue check mark verified next-door neighbours, on the same day. After the second episode aired, our BLE besties needed to know "What happened to Tony"? Whether you are #TeamTony or not, you're going to want to catch this episode to find out if things worked out with the professional athlete, or if there are more surprises in store for Jayna. Will she reveal the infamous football player? Did things work out with the sexy Snack Tony and his handsome pup? Finally, Jayna also discovers there may be an awkward downside to sharing your personal sex experiences with the world - who knew?!? Always ready to "Do it for the Story" Jayna finds herself in coincidental situations all too often. If you have a wild and crazy story you think we need to hear, don't be shy! Connect with us at [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie! Signup here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! If you could (pretty please!) share this podcast with your friends, we can grow this tribe together!

As a bridal Makeup artist for the past 18 years, Jayna Marie has had the unique privilege of being the first to step into the newlyweds hotel room after their wedding night. After hearing countless brides explain why they went to sleep without sexy snuggles, Jayna is taking a stand. You might be surprised to learn why she is so passionate about the importance of wedding night sex. Is sex on your wedding night that important? According to a recent survey, 52% of newlyweds reported not having sex on their wedding night, despite the fact that over 90% of women admitted to buying special lingerie for the occasion. With the divorce rate hovering around the same percentage, is this a coincidence? The excuses are endless, if you wanted to find one, you easily could. When there is finally a chance to get horizontal the new couple may be mentally and physically exhausted, intoxicated, overwhelmed with responsibilities, family to visit, and no time alone BUT excuses aside, although there are millions of reasons why sex doesn't fit in the schedule, there is one major reason that outweighs any excuse: Taking the time to be intimate on your wedding night sets the precedent for the rest of your marriage that no matter what else is happening in your life, you will take the time to prioritize one another. No more excuses, it's time to get down in the gown. Shake up the sheets, have some fun, play hide the sausage, Jam the clam, wet the willy, do the no-pants dance, test out the mattress, mash pissers, whatever you call it, please make sure your wedding night ends with a little bow chick a wow wow, after all, isn't your connection the entire point of the day? Did your wedding night go as planned? Do you have a story you want to share? If so, please share it with [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our email list to be a #BLEBestie! Signup here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! If you could (pretty please!) share this podcast with your friends, we can grow this tribe together!

You never know what could happen when you swipe right on Tinder! Jayna Marie is back in LA looking for love and having a fun time searching. Tune in for another crazy dating story from her favourite city to a Tinder match that ends with one of the most awkward celebrity meetings of all time. After Jayna gets sweaty with a romantic, well-put-together, successful man (at the gym!) she's thrilled to hit the town for their next date when invited to a swanky invite-only club in West Hollywood. While she considers herself a "ride or die", she's conflicted when her date has an encounter with a celebrity. What's a girl to do? Be loyal to this second date gentleman, or stand up for a comedian she has admired for years. She's thrown for a loop, will her evening end up with her backstage enjoying the show, or will she end up on the next episode of TMZ? There's just something about dating in Los Angeles. Anything can happen at any given time, and in Jayna's world, it usually does. Not every Tinder connection ends in love, but it will always come with a story! In this brand new episode of Big Lash Energy Jayna is spilling the tea on her dating escapades. If you enjoyed this podcast or have any of your own hilarious dating stories you'd like us to share on a future episode, we'd love to hear all the juicy details! Please reach out to us at [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our tribe! Signup here! Our not-so-secret goal is to create a tribe of badass women who find beauty in the messiest parts of life. We're learning and laughing as we go! Come join us! If you could (pretty please!) share this podcast with your friends, we can grow this tribe together!

To some men, the clitoris is simply a doorbell. They touch it once and hope someone comes. In case you haven't guessed, today, Jayna Marie is getting deep into Faking Orgasms! Are you coming? According to The American Psychological Association says a whopping 67% of women are faking orgasms on a regular basis. So why are we doing this? Why are we pretending that our bodies are responding in a way they aren't? What is going on? In this episode, Jayna Marie shines a light on this topic that most women are too shy to talk about so we can make sure that we are able to speak up and get our satisfaction too! Why is the woman's pleasure so often overlooked, why are men so uneducated about what it actually takes to make women orgasm and why are women so willing to fake it? We all know there's a lot more to sex than just penetration and each woman is unique so what's a girl to do? Jayna shares a few of her own famous fakes from a few partners that may have missed the memo on showing up for her tiny pencil eraser of love. You don't want to miss what people on the street had to say about this! So embrace your Big Lash Energy, be vocal about your own desire for pleasure, proud of your body and all of the things that make YOU feel good. If something makes your bits burst and you want to share, email [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our tribe! Sign Up Here! Our not-so-secret goal is to help everyone become their best selves and support each other along the way. Let's do it! Please share this podcast and spread the word with your Big Lash Besties!

How do I win at Tinder? (4:03) Have you ever heard the quote "Dating is like pushing your tray along in a cafeteria. Nothing looks good, but you have to pick something by the time you reach the cashier"? This is exactly the situation Jayna was trying to avoid! Jayna spends her time surrounded by women- which is fabulous, unless you're trying to find love. The only drawback to her success in the beauty industry is the lack of eligible men she encounters in her daily life. Always the self-starter, she decided to take her romantic future into her own hands. Setting herself up for love (or very least a good story), Jayna hacks Tinder with a plan to find her ideal man. Some people call Tinder the "human clearance rack", which is why Jayna stacked the odds in her favour with a Premium Tinder account in Los Angeles and curated a shortlist of potential matches. Swiping her way to victory, (did you know there were professional athletes on Tinder??) Jayna compiled a shortlist of candidates, maybe even a few blue check marks before taking the plunge to fly herself to LA for her own Bachelorette experience. With the plan in motion, and the execution in progress she learns what she thought *could be* her fairy tale, soon developed into a romantic comedy. Join Jayna from Venice Beach as she recounts one of her funniest dating stories yet and inspiration for the Big Lash Energy Podcast. If you have a wild and crazy dating story you can't wait to share, connect with us at [email protected] Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our tribe! Sign Up Here! Our not-so-secret goal is to help everyone become their best selves and support each other along the way. Let's do it! Please share this podcast and spread the word with your Big Lash Besties!

Do you think you know Jayna? Prepare to be surprised! She's lived a wild and crazy life- in fact, you might say she's lived 7 lives. In her world, not only have things not gone as planned, more often than not, they've gone horribly wrong. Listen in as she gives you access to the messiest parts of her life- her fuck ups, falls and failures in what she calls her lowlight reel. Jayna's journey to become a successful makeup artist and hype woman hasn't been easy. With those struggles finally in her rear view mirror, it's clear that everything she's been through was all just a dress rehearsal for this moment. Now that she's healed, she's using her struggles as a platform to open conversation about dating, sex, heartbreak and healing. Nothing is off the table as she throws caution to the wind discussing crucial topics that matter to women. If you follow Jayna on Instagram, you know she's always herself. In this episode, we are going past the highlight reel to see what happened behind the scenes to bring her to the place she is today. They say challenges are what make life interesting, and her journey has been everything but boring. What's in a name? To Jayna, not much. In fact, she doesn't even know her last name! Her life has been messy, so this definitely isn't the place to come to if you're looking for perfection. If you want help finding beauty in the messiest of times, then you've come to the right place. Jayna's healed from a lot, learned a lot and now it's her mission is to help as many women as possible to heal, recover from heartbreak, love themselves more deeply, live boldly and love the skin they're in. If you're struggling, you can hear her stories and know you are not alone! In this episode, Jayna's opening up to share her secrets and introducing you to the woman underneath the makeup. She's touching on many of the topics she will be opening up further about in later episodes. If something in this episode resonated with you please connect with us at [email protected]. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram, Check out our website, Join our tribe! Signup here! Our not-so-secret goal is to help everyone become their best selves and support each other along the way. Let's do it! Please share this podcast and spread the word with your Big Lash Besties!

Big lash energy isn't just a podcast- it's a mindset, a lifestyle, a vibe! Your host, Jayna Marie has been a makeup artist, glamming brides and celebrities all over the world for the past 18 years. Now, her real expertise is girl talk! She's lived by the motto "do it for the story" and boy does she have stories! She's lived through the highest highs and the lowest lows and has learned how to laugh at and learn from it all. Join her as she spills the tea on sex, dating, healing and heartbreak. You'll learn tips on how to find beauty in the messiest of moments and how to love yourself more deeply through it all. Please be sure to follow, subscribe and tell a friend. It's a podcast you're not going to want to miss! Let's build this tribe together! Hey, gorgeous! Don't be shy! If there's a subject you'd like us to discuss or a story you want to share, please reach out - we'd love to hear from you! Online: www.hellojayna.com Instagram: @biglashpodcast or @jaynamariemakeup