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BHE 168 - THE SHAME
Episode 171

BHE 168 - THE SHAME

Big Hormone Enneagram

October 17, 20231h 15mExplicit

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Show Notes

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— (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame
— (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to feel special
— (12:57) Heart types needing to reinforcing pictures to feel a felt sense of specialness
— (15:17) Confusing heart type shame with feeling ashamed / shame is the emotion of being out of alignment with value
— (25:30) 4 and 4-fix shame
— (34:37) Denigration and disgust is the 4 fix reaction to shame
— (42:41) 3 and 3-fix shame / being a 3 is like climbing up a downward escalator 
— (46:10) 3 vs 4 fix compliments and value recognition
— (58:32) 2 and 2 fix shame
— (1:02:14) 2s supply their own validation
— (1:09:07) 2 reaction to shame is to go straight to moral rage and indignation

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