Beyond The Chaos
Mum of 3 talks about juggling it all, from spirited children, to sex, friendships, marriage and with a witty sense of humour you will be left smiling (if not laughing hysterically) ear to ear.
Amy Gerard & Gen Muir · DM Podcasts
Show overview
Beyond The Chaos has been publishing since 2021, and across the 5 years since has built a catalogue of 229 episodes, alongside 3 trailers or bonus episodes. That works out to roughly 120 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a weekly cadence, with the show now in its 4th season.
Episodes typically run twenty to thirty-five minutes — most land between 24 min and 36 min — though episode length varies meaningfully from one episode to the next. It is catalogued as a EN-US-language Kids & Family show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 2 days ago, with 19 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2024, with 56 episodes published. Published by DM Podcasts.
From the publisher
Join parent educator and obstetric social worker - Gen Muir - and mum of three - Amy Gerard - as they tackle the challenges of parenthood and answer your questions on Beyond The Chaos. Listening to this podcast is guaranteed to reduce parent guilt, help with practical tips and show you that you're not alone - because parenting is by far the hardest and weirdest thing you'll ever do.
Latest Episodes
View all 229 episodesWhy Your Child 'Pushing Your Buttons' Is Not What You Think
Why Your Child's Eye Health Is So Important
You Need To Be Having The Sex Conversation Earlier Than You Think
Kids and Screens: Is It A Losing Battle?
Managing Kids Who Use Harsh Words
S3 Ep 14The Manosphere And Raising Boys (And Girls)
In this special A-GEN episode, Gen dives into some of the fears both parents of boys and girls have right now; The Manosphere and raising good boys. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at [email protected] Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 13Holidaying With Kids- It's Possible!
Amy has just gotten back from a family holiday to Bali and she not only survived, she thrived! Plus, Gen recounts the family holiday from hell where she almost died (apparently). Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 12The Heartbreak Of Having A Misunderstood Child
Today on the show, we hear a heartbreaking but all too common dilemma from a dad whose child is struggling to be understood at their school. Gen and Amy offer some advice for this parent on how to support their child at home. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 11Parenting In Your 40's: The Exhaustion Is Real!
It's a fun and loose AMEN episode today, and since Amy just turned 40, her and Gen break down the unique exhaustion that comes with parenting in your fourth decade (and just existing as woman, full stop!) Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 10"Help! My Daughter's Dancing Making Me Uncomfortable!"
While we know that kids often just copy things they see on tv or in the media, sometimes that means that they can do things that are a little too...mature for their age. That's what a mum is struggling with this week, with her daughter's dancing, and wants to know the best way to handle it. Plus a fail that ended up with a hole in Amy's wall. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 9"My Daughter Is Rude To Me In Front Of Her Friends, And I'm Sick Of It"
This week, it's Amy who has the parenting dilemma, and needs Gen's help! What do you do when your tween starts acting like a different person in front of their friends? And what happens when the FOMO moves into meltdown territory? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 8"Help! My Child Is Jealous Of My New Baby"
While we all like to imagine our kids are going to be best friends, sibling jealousy is very normal and can be especially prevalent when a new baby enters the family. Today we hear from a mum whose eldest gets jealousy especially during feeding, and Gen and Amy have some sound advice. This episode is proudly brought to you by Haakaa — the award-winning maternity and baby brand trusted by families worldwide. Known for their iconic silicone breast pump, Haakaa has just launched the NEW Gen. 2 Plus — featuring a ComfortCARE™ flange to reduce friction and tugging on sensitive breast tissue, plus a SpillGUARD™ insert to help protect every precious drop from accidental spills. Visit haakaa.co.nz and use the code BTC10 for 10% off sitewide. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 7Parenting Imposter Syndrome Is A Real Thing
We talk a lot on Beyond The Chaos about how hard it is when it looks like everyone else has it together, while you feel like you're falling apart (even when we all know no one is perfect). On this episode we hear from a mum who is feeling imposter syndrome as a mum and health professional, and Gen and Amy break down this complicated and relatable feeling. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 6The Number 1 Rule For Getting Your Child To Sleep
So many kids have a complicated relationship with sleep; everything from not wanting to sleep in their own bed, to not being tired at bedtime. We hear from a listener going through this problem with her 8 year old, and Gen has one rule to tackle it. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 5Thank F*** School Holidays Are Over
Gen and Amy are back in the studio for 2026! They reflect on the highs and lows of school holidays; which as we know can range from beautiful moments of bonding to breaking up screaming matches between siblings and counting down the days 'til they're back at school. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 4What Is The Right Age To Talk To Your Teen About Dating?
Talking about dating can feel like a loaded topic; but there comes a time that every parent needs to broach that topic with their teen. But the question is, what is the right age? And how do you have that conversation without both of you cringing? This week, Amy and Gen answer a listener question about exactly this. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 3Are Your Kids Old Enough to Go Out Unsupervised?
When is the right age to let your kid and their friends roam unsupervised? And what happens if you find out another parent has let your child do exactly that without asking you? On this week's episode Amy and Gen tackle this dilemma for a listener. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 2Our Top 5 Tips For Getting Through Starting School
As we creep closer to school starting for 2026, your child might naturally be anxious. And we're guessing you are too! Gen has your back with 5 practical tips for kids starting school for the first time. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S3 Ep 1"My Child's Grandparent Calls Her Fat"
Grandparents....we love them, but sometimes they can say problematic things to our kids, often without even realising it. In this mini holiday episode, Amy and Gen discuss how to tackle this tricky problem. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
S2 Ep 36Amy's Foolproof Guide To Surviving NYE With Kids
New Year's Eve used to mean dressing up, parties, cocktails, and midnight kisses. But these days, if you're anything like us, we're lucky to see 10pm without a headache from fighting kids and sugar crashes. So Amy has created a survival guide to get you through this 'magical' night. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produced by DM PodcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.