Belonging While Black + Queer

In this episode, Dr. Mona discusses creating her inclusive therapy practice and meeting Sherri, a Black, queer-identifying therapist. Sherri emphasizes the importance of authentic inclusion beyond tokenism. Intersectionality: Sherri explores how her various identities interact, highlighting how even diverse spaces can feel unwelcoming. Feeling Belonging: Sherri describes finding true belonging with Dr. Mona, contrasting it with past experiences of microaggressions and performative inclusion. Impact on Identity: Sherri shares how her identity as a queer woman, on top of being Black, further limited her sense of belonging due to societal expectations and ageism. Creating Safety: Sherri emphasizes the need for self-advocacy but acknowledges its emotional toll, advocating for creating safety instead of solely seeking it. Coming Out as Queer: Sherri discusses the challenges of coming out in a community with limited understanding and facing potential rejection, emphasizing self-acceptance and finding chosen family. Cutting Ties: Sherri acknowledges the difficulty but importance of severing ties with unsupportive family members to prioritize self-care and build a supportive chosen family. 1:23 - Dr. Mona introduces today’s guest, Sherri Ford-Jacobs. 1:53 - Dr. Mona shares how they met. 7:17 - Sherri shares her research on the concept of intersectionality. 8:58 - What was different for you in this new space? 10:06- How is that different for you than what you experienced before? 17:22 - How do these experiences impact your queer identity? 20:28 - How have you identified spaces that feel secure for you? 24:56 - What is that identity construction process like? 27:04 - The stereotype of queer. 29:05 - How do you connect with the people in your family that you love, that are perpetuating the pain? Learn more about the Belonging Reimagined Podcast: www.drmonanour.com/podcast Connect with Dr. Mona Nour: www.drmonanour.com Connect with Sherri Ford-Jacobs: www.nourcounseling.com/sherri-ford-jacobs