Episode 209: The Masculine Crisis No One is Talking About with Nick Clune

Men today are searching for identity, purpose, and real freedom—but so many feel stuck, especially when it comes to breaking free from pornography. In this episode, Dr. Greg sits down with Nick Clune, a CPMAP graduate, to talk about his journey, what men really need, and how true masculinity leads to lasting freedom.

Discussed in this episode:

• The deep need for fatherly guidance in developing true masculinity;
• The struggles men face in finding affirmation and purpose;
• How Nick's relationship with his dad shaped his mission to help men;
• The importance of intentional mentorship and guidance for young men;
• Why many men feel lost after high school and struggle to define their purpose;
• The illusion of success through career, sports, or external validation;
• How pornography is an attempt to fill a void men don't even realize they have;
• The role of self-awareness in breaking free from addiction;
• The shame cycle that keeps men stuck in unhealthy habits;
• How compassion—not just discipline—helps men find freedom;
• Why many men resist the idea that their struggles are understandable;
• How Nick's new podcast "Hey Brother" is helping men foster real connection;
• Nick Clune's journey from CPMAP graduate to launching a ministry for men.

Resources mentioned or relevant:

• Listen to Nick's free podcast for men: Hey Brother Podcast;
• Connect with Nick's ministry for resources and support: Crafted for More;
• Schedule a free consultation with Nick Clune;
• Learn more about Theology of the Body:
  • Man and Woman He Created Them (original text by JP2)
  • Theology of the Body Explained by Christopher West
  • TOB Books and Resources by Jason Evert
  • Theology of the Body Institute
• Previous Being Human episodes on addiction:
  • Episode 51: Are We Getting Addictions Right?
  • Episode 113: Surprising Sources of Pornography Problems
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