20 Years in the Military — And I Didn’t Know My Nervous System Was Broken (Ft Patrick Nardulli)
Behind The Human with Marc Champagne · Marc Champagne
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Show Notes
Why is it that we train people to survive under pressure… but never teach them how to come home to themselves?
After 20 years serving as a Navy Hospital Corpsman alongside Marines in some of the most demanding environments imaginable, Patrick Nardulli realized something profound: toughness wasn’t the same as resilience.
In this episode, Patrick shares his journey from combat medicine to nervous system regulation — including the moment a heart rate variability monitor revealed he was “thriving” on the outside but dysregulated beneath the surface.
We explore:
- The difference between heart rate and heart rate variability
- Why high performers often live in chronic sympathetic overdrive
- How breath becomes the bridge between mind and body
- The role of coherence in leadership and relationships
- Practical tools to regulate your nervous system in real time
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Timestamps:
02:00 — A guided coherence exercise to settle the nervous system
05:00 — Growing up in Chicago and the call to serve
07:00 — Combat deployments and the culture of toughness
11:00 — The moment he saw resilience breaking in others
14:00 — The HRV wake-up call: “I thought the device was broken”
18:00 — Why experiential learning beats PowerPoints
22:00 — Breath as the bridge between mind and body
29:00 — Heart rate vs. heart rate variability explained
31:00 — What coherence actually means
34:00 — Why most people never intentionally exhale
37:00 — Preparation, performance, recovery framework
40:00 — When his wife felt his nervous system shift
42:00 — Walking into the moonlight: a realignment moment
45:00 — Simple practices anyone can start today
46:00 — Final message: self-care is not selfish
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Special props 👇
Music: Clouds - Joakim Karud
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