Behavior Gap Radio

In this episode, Carl shares a small but revealing moment of failure. After spending most of the day resisting the urge to do the “checky check,” he slipped late at night and lost nearly an hour wandering the internet. Instead of turning that mistake into a story about personal failure, Carl explores a different response: treating the moment as information. By noticing the pattern, getting curious about the behavior, and simply beginning again the next day, he reflects on a gentler and more productive way to relate to mistakes.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

In this episode, Carl reflects on what he calls the “checky check,” the familiar habit of reaching for quick dopamine hits by checking news, social media, or email whenever work gets hard or energy drops. Lately, he’s been interrupting that impulse with a simple reminder: “There’s nothing for you there.” The idea isn’t about discipline for its own sake, but recognizing that the relief we’re looking for in those moments usually isn’t found in another quick scroll. Sometimes the most helpful move is simply noticing the impulse and choosing something better instead.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

In this episode, Carl shares a simple “conversation toolbox” for moments when someone asks for advice. Often, people don’t actually need answers as much as they need space to think through their next step. Carl explores a few practical ways to stay present in those conversations—acknowledging that something is hard, asking whether the person wants advice or simply to be heard, and using thoughtful questions to help them uncover their own answer. The goal isn’t to rush to solutions, but to create the conditions where clarity can emerge.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

In this episode, Carl explores the idea of “red flag behavior,” the personal patterns that show up when we’re under pressure and facing uncertainty. Borrowing a lesson from backcountry skiing, Carl explains how knowing your own weak spots—your “kryptonite”—can help you put guardrails in place before a risky decision happens. Whether it’s impulsivity, rushing to closure, or offering quick advice just to escape ambiguity, recognizing these patterns is the first step toward making better decisions when the stakes are high and the future is unclear.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/