Narcissism in a Family Dynamic. Ep. 155
What’s up fam! I am sooo excited to share some news with you guys. I am going to be hosting a mastermind with my good friend Jamie Ruiz this Friday, August 2nd at 12pm EST. Jamie is a manifestation and life coach and is now helping thousands of women achieve their life goals and dreams.https://www.alchemic-acquisition.com/nikkispo881844Now for today's episode of The Know, we have Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri and I diving deep into narcissism and its effects within a family dynamic. Tune in to find out more!In this episode… Family roles The Golden Child Narcissism legacies The Scapegoat Child IFS & EMDR The Peacekeeper Child The Personal Assistant Child The Invisible Child The Truth Seer & Truth Teller Children The Adherent Child Quotes“You can not have an identity for yourself if you want to be a part of a family that is narcissistic.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri “I feel that narcissists would like to believe they are immortal. Cognitively they know they are going to die so they need somebody who can continue their legacy which falls onto a child.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri “The scapegoat children are most likely to wind up as victims in relationships and are prime to be a partner of a narcissist because of their upbringing.” - Nikki Spo “Let’s not keep revisiting the trauma. Let's really heal from the emotions that the trauma left behind.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri“The peacekeeper child becomes a people pleaser and learns to put themselves last and never take care of themselves.” - Nikki Spo“We should not be placing adult responsibilities, emotional or physical, on children.” - Nikki Spo Timestamps:0:00 - 2:45 | Mastermind2:45 - 4:35 | Intro4:35 - 9:00 | Family roles9:00 - 13:25 | The Golden Child13:25 - 20:15 | The Scapegoat Child20:15 - 25:30 | Trauma from family origin & IFS25:30 - 29:15 | The Peacekeeper Child29:15 - 32:10 | The Personal Assistant Child32:10 - 35:05 | The Invisible Child35:05 - 41:25 | The Truth Seer & Truth Teller Children41:25 - 43:00 | The Adherent Child43:00 - 46:35 | Moving away from making choices out of habit46:35 - 49:07 | Outro– https://ifs-institute.com/ https://ifs-institute.com/nobadparts – SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW. Connect with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri https://buxanicare.com/rachna-buxani-mirpuri/ @bruxanicare Connect with Nikki www.nikkispo.com @nikkisappspo / @theknowwithnikkispo Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Show Notes
What’s up fam! I am sooo excited to share some news with you guys. I am going to be hosting a mastermind with my good friend Jamie Ruiz this Friday, August 2nd at 12pm EST. Jamie is a manifestation and life coach and is now helping thousands of women achieve their life goals and dreams.
https://www.alchemic-acquisition.com/nikkispo881844
Now for today's episode of The Know, we have Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri and I diving deep into narcissism and its effects within a family dynamic. Tune in to find out more!
In this episode…
- Family roles
- The Golden Child
- Narcissism legacies
- The Scapegoat Child
- IFS & EMDR
- The Peacekeeper Child
- The Personal Assistant Child
- The Invisible Child
- The Truth Seer & Truth Teller Children
- The Adherent Child
Quotes
“You can not have an identity for yourself if you want to be a part of a family that is narcissistic.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri
“I feel that narcissists would like to believe they are immortal. Cognitively they know they are going to die so they need somebody who can continue their legacy which falls onto a child.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri
“The scapegoat children are most likely to wind up as victims in relationships and are prime to be a partner of a narcissist because of their upbringing.” - Nikki Spo
“Let’s not keep revisiting the trauma. Let's really heal from the emotions that the trauma left behind.” - Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri
“The peacekeeper child becomes a people pleaser and learns to put themselves last and never take care of themselves.” - Nikki Spo
“We should not be placing adult responsibilities, emotional or physical, on children.” - Nikki Spo
Timestamps:
0:00 - 2:45 | Mastermind
2:45 - 4:35 | Intro
4:35 - 9:00 | Family roles
9:00 - 13:25 | The Golden Child
13:25 - 20:15 | The Scapegoat Child
20:15 - 25:30 | Trauma from family origin & IFS
25:30 - 29:15 | The Peacekeeper Child
29:15 - 32:10 | The Personal Assistant Child
32:10 - 35:05 | The Invisible Child
35:05 - 41:25 | The Truth Seer & Truth Teller Children
41:25 - 43:00 | The Adherent Child
43:00 - 46:35 | Moving away from making choices out of habit
46:35 - 49:07 | Outro
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https://ifs-institute.com/nobadparts
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SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code THEKNOWGLOW.
Connect with Dr. Rachna Buxani-Mirpuri
https://buxanicare.com/rachna-buxani-mirpuri/
Connect with Nikki
@nikkisappspo / @theknowwithnikkispo
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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