Ep. 3 - Rewards and Consquences and the PDA Child
At Peace Parents Podcast · Casey
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Show Notes
This episode answers a question I often get from parents:
If I can't use rewards and consequences with my Pathologically Demand Avoidant or demand avoidant child, how will they learn right from wrong?
We talk about the long-game strategy for getting your child into their thinking brain (rather than the "survival brain" or Limbic System) so that they can learn, process information rationally and connect with you.
I hope it serves you!
Further Reading:
For more on your child's "thinking" (or "upstairs" brain) vs. "survival" (or "downstairs") brain, see Chapter 3 of Dan Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson's "The Whole Brain Child"
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Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.
xoxo,
Casey