
Ask Pastor John
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Can I Leave and Cleave If We Live with My Parents?
In many cultures, married couples live with the husband’s family. But does “leaving and cleaving” mean they should move out and get their own place?

How to Live Wisely in the End Times
George Ladd has done more to shape our view of the end times than almost any other theologian. Pastor John explains the man and his influence.

We Are Accountable for What We Know
“Everyone to whom much was given, of him much will be required.” Did Jesus intend this warning for believers or nonbelievers?

When Do Christians Resist a Government That Kills Its Citizens?
By default, Christians should submit to public officials. But how should Christians respond to rampant injustice in government?

To Whom Did Jesus Pay Our Ransom?
If Christ died to pay our debt, whom did he pay? Did he pay Satan in order to free us from captivity, or did he pay God to free us from our penalty?

Did Public Controversy over the Nashville Statement Hurt the Cause?
The Bible’s view of human sexuality is a beautiful truth that we should set on a pedestal — even if that means others hate us for it.

Does Hebrews Tell Us to “Grow Up” Beyond the Gospel?
We don’t ever outgrow the gospel. So why does Hebrews call us to “leave behind the elementary doctrine of Christ and go on to maturity”?

How Do You Structure Your Prayer Life?
On any given day, innumerable needs surround us that all call for prayer. So how do we navigate these endless needs and decide what to pray for?

Does God Decree Events He Doesn’t Want to Happen?
If nothing happens outside of God’s control, then why is this world filled with events that clearly oppose God’s revealed will?

How Do I Glorify God in My Job?
Most of us spend at least forty hours a week at work. So how do we leverage our time there to bring honor and praise to God?

How Do I Process Personal Criticism?
Aim to be humble rather than defensive when it comes to criticism. Only then will we be able to listen to their words and change if we’re wrong.

Why Does Gossip Feel So Good?
Spreading damaging reports about others feels so good and comes so naturally. But why is this impulse so natural? And how do we fight it?

Am I Wrong to Prepare for a Nuclear Doomsday?
Under the threat of nuclear war, we could easily start preparing for the worst by stocking up on food and building a bomb shelter. But should we?

Why Does God’s Sovereignty Make Some Ambitious and Others Apathetic?
Why do some hear of God’s sovereignty and run into the mission field with confidence, while others passively say, “What will be will be”?

How Do I Love God More Than My Entertainment?
What should we do if the thrills of TV, movies, video games, and sports feel more interesting than spending time with God?

The Dignity of Those with Dementia
Dementia may turn God’s people into frail shadows of their former self, but these saints are sitting on the brink of a glory and power we can’t imagine.

Six Common Ways Preachers Dishonor God’s Word
The stakes are high when pastors do not root their points plainly from the text in front of them. Here are six consequences.

How Do I Know If I’m Loving My Wife Well?
The Bible calls husbands to lead their wives. But where should you go for help if you’ve never seen anyone model Christlike leadership in the home?

Church Membership Has Left Me Relationally Jaded
Even the best churches and friendships can leave us feeling relationally jaded. So how can we persevere in love when others disappoint us so much?

Is God a Megalomaniac?
God seeks our worship, not because it meets his need, but because it meets ours. God is the only one beautiful enough to satisfy us forever.

How Much of My Happiness Is Settled by Factors Outside My Immediate Control?
Someone recently claimed that 88% of our happiness is outside of our control. How should a Christian hedonist evaluate this theory?

How Martin Luther Built a Brand That Changed the World
The Reformation spread when an unknown monk leveraged a rudimentary piece of technology developed by a devout Roman Catholic.

What Are the Best Reformation Biographies?
Good biographies expose us to times, people, and thinking outside of our own day. Here are some of the best biographies of Reformation figures.

Why the Reformation Remains Relevant After 500 Years
Choosing which of the five ‘solas’ is most important is like choosing which wing of an airplane matters most. All the ‘solas’ stand or fall together.

Is Anyone Born a Racist? Or Is It Learned?
Racism, hate, and anger have all erupted in fresh ways this last year. Are we born with these ethnic prejudices, or do we learn them?

Is Knowing God’s Sovereignty Important to My Daily Life?
The Bible not only recognizes that God controls everything. It also demands that we build our lives around that truth.

God Is Holy and Righteous — Are Those the Same?
What is the difference between God’s holiness and his righteousness? And what does that mean for us?

Ephesians 1:18: Who Will Receive the Riches of Heaven?
Is Ephesians 1:18 about God inheriting believers, or is it about believers inheriting God’s glory? Pastor John offers a few defenses for his view.

Confronting Emotional and Verbal Abuse in the Home
God did not design marriage for outbursts, verbal putdowns, or raised voices. If this describes your marriage, here’s some advice from Pastor John.

Is It Harmful to Date in High School?
Falling in love is a wonderful gift, but for most the maturity to handle a relationship of that depth doesn’t come in high school.

The Great Marriage Killer
Anger destroys relationships, but the Bible has a category for righteous anger. So what’s the difference between the good version and the deadly one?

Reading Is Agonizing for Me — How Can I Study the Bible in Small Bits?
Hearing the word of God is not a mere discipline — it is a matter of life and death. But how can we take in God’s word when reading feels like a chore?

The Lord’s Supper — Somber or Cheerful?
Communion calls to mind the most tragic event in the history of the world and the greatest hope ever offered. Only mature believers can set that tone.

What Does It Mean to ‘Abide in Christ’?
Jesus is clear that abiding in him is not optional. But what does it actually mean to daily remain attached to him?

What’s the Origin of Desiring God’s Slogan?
This slogan became the heartbeat of Pastor John's life and the hallmark of Desiring God’s ministry. So where did it come from?

Did Adam and Eve Sin Before the Bite?
The ultimate sin in the garden was not eating the fruit. Adam and Eve lost their taste for God’s beauty before they reached for the tree.

Does God Control All Things All the Time?
We know that God has the ability to control everything, but does he always choose to exercise his full sovereignty?

Popular Author Stumbles — What Should We Do With His Books?
All authors are flawed, but what should we do with an author’s work when a public failure discredits them as a sound teacher?

Are We Called to Thank God for Our Severest Suffering?
We don’t have to pretend we don’t feel pain from our losses. Grieving with hope means something far greater than moving on from the pain.

John Piper’s Prayer in the Path of Hurricanes
God doesn’t mean for us to forget him or minimize him when hurricanes devastate human life. Pastor Piper turns Godward and prays in the path of hurricanes.

What Is the Kingdom of God?
Jesus focused a lot on the kingdom of God. But what is the kingdom? And why does the rest of the New Testament hardly mention the theme?

Are Small Churches Less Fruitful?
A pastor’s job is not to count how many people come on Sunday, but to make faith-filled, self-denying, fruit-bearing disciples.

How Did I Fail My Unbelieving Children?
Parents will fail hundreds of times as they strive to raise their kids biblically. So how can we find hope in the midst of these many shortcomings?

Has Marriage Become My Idol?
God never designed marriage to be our ultimate treasure. Here are some signs that we have made our marriage into something God never intended it to be.

Did God Choose Me Because He Loved Me or Love Me Because He Chose Me?
God’s love and election work hand and hand. There’s no election that is not loving, and there’s no initiating love that is not electing.

Six Questions to Ask Before You Binge on Netflix
When thinking about TV, music, or movies, don't ask, “What’s wrong with this?” but, instead, “Will it maximize my holiness?”

Is Wartime Living the Same as Minimalism?
Wartime lifestyle seeks to glorify God — not to live with the least amount of stuff. It simply admits that life must be different during a battle.

If Someone Doesn’t Like Me, Have I Ruined My Christian Witness?
When is it right to please people? When is it wrong to please people? Motive matters.

Am I Single Because I’m Defective?
God has designed marriage to bring about a kind of cherishing that emerges nowhere else. But that doesn’t mean you are uncherishable if your single.

Local Atheist or Modern Pharisee — Who Is the Greater Threat?
Jesus faced more opposition from the Pharisees than the Romans. Are religious formalists a greater threat to the church today than our secular neighbors?