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Have you ever wondered how much your favorite pornstars are actually making? Although pay varies wildly in the industry, many are surprised when they find out how much the big names really pull in!In this episode, I break down average annual earnings, as well as the typical amount of money earned for different types of scenes.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Long distance relationships have a reputation for being harder than traditional, local relationships. But that doesn't mean they're doomed the start.There ARE some common reasons that long distance relationships don't work out, and in this episode I'll be covering what these reasons are.I'll also be sharing some tips to make long distance and online relationships work out!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Just about every man out there wants a larger cumshot than the one he's getting now. But could getting pornstar level cumshots REALLY be just as easy as popping a few pills?Unfortunately, no. However, there are some supplements proven to increase semen volume that are worth trying out if you want to increase your cumshot size.In this episode, I'll be sharing what these supplements are, and what else you can do to increase your loads!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Have you seen the 'fuck a fan' contests that many popular adult performers are promoting?The idea of these is that you pay an entry fee, and one lucky person wins a chance to have sex with them.But are these contests actually real - or are they designed to scam people out of their money? In this episode, I look behind the raw reality of 'fuck a fan' contests.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Many men don't know this, but there is an ENTIRE WORLD of pleasure to unlock, and the key to it lies with your butt.The ass and the anus are full of nerve endings, and that's before you get to the prostate - otherwise known as the 'male g-spot.'But can anal play impact your sexuality at all? This is a legitimate concern for some people, and in this episode I debunk myths, and answer common questions about this somewhat taboo topic!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Did you know that there are literally hundreds of different sex positions? I'm not joking! Of course, most of us will be satisfied with just a few good ones.Whether you're having sex for the first time or you simply want to mix it up, this episode will cover some of the top sex positions I recommend trying out!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Admit it - you look when you see a nice butt in front of you. That's nothing to feel bad about - we all do!But how receptive are girls to it, really? Do they KNOW when you're looking at their butt, and does it make them uncomfortable? How much can us ladies really pick up on? In this episode, I'll be answering all of these questions and more!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Spend much time on cam sites like Chaturbate, and you'll notice that A LOT of girls are from Colombia. But why? What about Colombia in particular makes it such a popular country for camming?It turns out, Colombia's adult industry is set up in a unique way that makes camming quite easy - and quite lucrative for girls willing to give it a try. So, let's take a look into what makes Colombia unique, and why so many girls from Colombia turn to cam work!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Anal sex is a lot of fun - but let's keep it real. It's a butt. And when you play around in the mud, there's a chance you might get dirty.In this episode, I'll share everything you can do to minimize the chances of this happening, to the point where it no longer becomes a concern. Don't let fear stop you from enjoying all the fun anal sex has to offer, because the risks can be avoided!---KYO Shower Link (US)KYO Shower Link (Europe)Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Having done over 5,000 calls, I've gained a lot of insight into the phone sex industry. In fact, more than an actress or a podcaster, I am a phone sex operator above all else!In this episode, I break down some of the most common myths and misconceptions surrounding phone sex. A lot of people have the wrong idea about it, so I'm happy to have this opportunity to set things straight!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Casual sex can be a lot of fun - but we're biologically hardwired to form bonds with those that we have sex with. Thankfully, our natural programming can be overwritten if we know what to look out for!In this episode, I share many helpful tips that help you separate the sex and the intimacy, so you can enjoy sex with others without getting attached to them.Note: This was a listener submitted question!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

If you haven't tried a Japanese onahole, you're missing out. After all, many of them feel better than a real vagina!However, with so many options, the world of onaholes can be daunting to a beginner. In this episode, I break down everything you need to know - from the different types, where to buy them, my personal recommendations, and more! This episode can be lifechanging if you've never tried one before, so enjoy!---===Links Mentioned===Onahole.comMotsutoys.comToyDemon.comOtonaJP.comSlut Angel DX (US)Slut Angel DX (Europe)ZXY Onahole (US)ZXY Onahole (Europe)KYO Drying Stick (US)KYO Drying Stick (Europe)KYO Shower (US)KYO Shower (Europe)KYO Steri Warmer (US)KYO Steri Warmer (Europe)Recommended LubeLinks to reviews mentioned: https://lewdlexi.com/category/male-sex-toys/---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Erections are a natural part of your body. And when getting a massage where somebody is running their hands all over your body, they happen more often than we'd like to admit.So, how do massage therapists react when they see an erection - and what should you do if you happen to get one? I share real experiences and insights from massage therapists in this episode!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Most of us like a nice, round ass. But have you ever stopped to wonder why exactly we're attracted to butts in the first place? What, psychologically, draws us to them so much?It turns out, there are a lot of reasons why butts scream out to our brain so much. So although this episode might be a bit scientific, it's actually quite interesting as well!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Signing up to porn sites used to be risky business - with shady companies selling your data or even worse - stealing your credit card information! Thankfully, the modern porn industry is much safer than it used to be.However, in this episode I'll take steps to ensure that no matter what, your transactions will be safe - while also sharing a lot of tips on how to save money in the process! So if you enjoy signing up for paid porn sites, you'll want to check this one out!Privacy.com Link (Virtual Credit Cards) - https://privacy.com/---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

There is a popular belief that vaginas go through dramatic changes as soon as they've had a penis inside of them for the first time. In fact, a woman's virginity is treated as something sacred - as if sex will never be the same after that first time.In this episode I address and discuss myths regarding virgin vaginas, and what changes happen after sex for the first time.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Go outside anywhere, and you'll find girls wearing leggings. These exploded in popularity over the last decade... but why?Although showing off our curves is one reason women wear leggings, there is actually A LOT more to them than meets the eye. In this episode, you'll learn why they're so awesome - and some of the more private reasons women choose to wear them out.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBuy me leggings (or other gifts): https://throne.com/lewdlexiBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Although anal sex is a lot of fun, it comes with risks that vaginal or oral sex don't offer. And although anal is exciting for many, it does require a bit more preparation and knowledge than other forms of sex do.In this episode, we cover what these risks are - but more importantly, how they can be mitigated. If you intend to have anal sex with someone, you'll want to check this one out!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Did you know that there are primarily five things you can do to make someone feel loved - and each person has a dominant 'love language?'If you discover what this love language is, you essentially unlock the key to their heart.In this episode, I give a brief over of the 5 different love languages, and how you can identify the dominant love language in each person!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudioGrab the full book: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X

It seems like 'bad boys' get all of the women - but why? We all know someone that is with someone who you know isn't right for them - he doesn't treat her right, he doesn't care, yet women still seem to be lining up to have sex with him.The truth is, bad boys exhibit traits that women often find attractive. The good news? You can adopt some of these same traits, without having to turn into a jerk yourself!In this episode, we break down the psychology behind what makes bad boys attractive, and shed some light on how you can become more attractive yourself!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

The COVID pandemic brought about one of the most monumental changes to the porn industry, since the introduction of online streaming.Not only did people's porn habits change drastically, but so did the way that studios run their businesses!In this episode, let's look over both the short and long-term pacts that COVID had on the porn industry!---Link to friend's video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZylfAKnGB0Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Losing your virginity can feel like one of the most significant events in your life so far. The reality is however, it might be as big of a deal as it seems right now.In order to make sure everything goes smoothly, there are a few things you'll want to be aware of, and have prepared for in advance.So if you want to be fully prepared for when that day comes, be sure to listen to this episode! You never know when the opportunity will pop up, after all...And if you've already lost your virginity? These tips can still help when having sex with a new partner for the first time!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

If you haven't tried male sex toys - especially onaholes, you're missing out. Seriously, they're THAT good.The big downside however? They're a bit more work. Between cleaning, drying and lube, they aren't quite as convenient as using your hand.You may be wondering - instead of buying lube for your toy, can you just use saliva? This is REALLY important to know if you use these toys, so be sure to tune in to this episode!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Porn can cause a lot of problems in relationships, especially if both partners aren't on the same page about it.While studies have shown that watching porn together can improve intimacy between partners, some people have much worse opinions about it.But can porn actually be considered cheating - and under what circumstances? It turns out, with the way porn has changed in the last 20 years, the answer is a lot more complicated than you might think!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Have you ever looked at a thong and wondered, 'what is even the point?'They're so small that they hardly hide anything, they don't provide warmth, and they just kind of ride up your butt crack anyway.It turns out however, that there are a lot of benefits to thongs that traditional underwear can't provide - and neither can just going commando!So, in this episode, I break these reasons down one-by-one!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Gooning has become an incredibly popular way to consume porn over the last few years - and some people have said it is the most recent "new" fetish that we've seen at such a large scale!But what actually is it, anyway? How do you goon, and is it safe to do so? What are the benefits, and what are the risks?Welcome to Gooning 101!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

Porn "plots" - if you can even call them that at this point, haven't just gotten worse - they've gotten downright ridiculous in some cases!But did you know that this may actually be intentional?In this episode, we break down why the plot isn't usually done that well, the interesting reasons why they've gotten so ridiculous, and where you can find porn that actually has some meaning and story behind it.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

They say as a man ages, he gets more attractive. But this increase in attractiveness isn't just due to physical qualities.In fact, most of what draws women to older men has nothing to do with looks or money, but from the natural character traits men tend to adopt as they get older.So, what makes older men appealing, and how can you use this knowledge to give you an advantage now - without having to wait 10, 20 years or longer?Listen to this episode to find out!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

One of the most common issues I see working with couples is that their sex drives are out of sync, and one person wants sex more than the other one.This is natural. What becomes a problem is when one partner begins deliberately withholding sex from the other person.So, when does this cross over into 'abuse' territory, and what can be done to resolve things? In this episode, we break these topics down, and more!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio

If you've been to a nudist resort, nudist camp, or nudist beach before, it's natural to wonder - with all of those naked people around, what happens if you end up getting an erection?On one-hand, erections can make guests uncomfortable. However, they're also naturally occurring, and that is part of what nudism is about!It turns out, the answer is relatively simple. So if you're planning on practicing naturism or you're simply curious, you may find this episode useful!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

TikTok grew so popular because it shows you exactly what you want to see, exactly when you want to see it. And although hardcore porn / nudity isn't allowed on the platform, it is FULL of sexual content that basically amounts to softcore pornography.In fact, once you train the algorithm the right way, you basically get an unlimited feed of porn tailored to your exact kinks and fetishes.In this episode, I break down step-by-step how you can get TikTok to show you the adult content you're looking for, so you have an infinite feed of new videos to enjoy!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

We've all heard the stereotype that black men have larger penises - so this may lead you to wonder - is there any notable difference in vaginas? Do different races have pussies that tend to be tighter, or shaped in a way that makes them feel better?In this episode, we break down the reality of this question and other stereotypes when it comes to genitalia.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

As the man, you probably have an idea on where you like to spray your cum, as your orgasm approaches. But does your partner feel the same way?A survey was ran to over 700 people talking about their preferences when it comes to where they like to shoot or receive the cumshot. It turns out, the preferences of men and women vary quite a bit - so in this episode, I'll break down this data for you (and share my own personal preferences as well!)---Link to the study: https://badgirlsbible.com/come-here-oftenWebsite: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

Ever wondered how porn stars seem to go all night, without so much as a break? Turns out, it's not just good genetics, or a magically blessed penis - there are a few tricks they use that let's them make it all the way through a scene.In this episode, we pull back the curtain on some of the secrets behind the magic, but be warned - the porn industry isn't as pretty as it seems!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

Although we live in a world where we can see thousands of hot girls at any given time, there is something special about masturbating to people that we actually know in real life.But is this socially acceptable? Should you feel weird by masturbating to a friend's pictures, or fantasizing about them in this way?In this episode, I break down what's okay, vs. what isn't. I'll also share some important tips to ensure you're never caught - because let's be honest, that'd be pretty awkward!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

In a world where we have more hardcore porn available than we could ever consume in our lifetimes, it leads you to wonder why softcore porn is still being produced.It turns out, softcore porn is still as popular as ever, and there are specific reasons why people - particularly women, enjoy it. Understanding these reasons may not only open your eyes as to what makes it so great - but can actually make you a better lover as well!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

To many guys, the idea of having a threesome is the sexual holy grail - after all, who wouldn't want two girls at one time?Of course, bringing this idea up to your wife isn't always easy - especially if you are in a monogamous relationship.So, how can you get your wife onboard with the idea of a threesome - and what rules, guidelines and boundaries should you set up in advance? In this episode, I go over not only how to get her to agree to the idea, but how to choose a good partner for the threesome, and how to ensure it's not just a one-time event!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

Butt plugs are one of those toys you see a lot online, but not a lot of people actually have in their toy box.This can lead you to wonder - what even is the point of butt plugs anyway, and why might you want to use one? It turns out, there are a LOT of benefits to them, regardless of whether you enjoy vaginal or anal sex - or even if you're single.In this episode, we cover all of these benefits and more!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

We go to strip clubs to get horny and have fun. But as the night goes on, it's normal to crave release!Lap dances are a lot of fun, but they're even more fun when the dancer is using her body not only to give you a show, but to make you feel good as well.This may give you an idea... can you let yourself cum during the dance? This is a good question!In this episode, we'll go over how you can know when it's alright, how to do it tastefully without getting in trouble, and more!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

There's not a single person on this planet that doesn't want to have a desirable ass. However, it seems like women are typically the ones that are blessed with beautiful booties!This can lead you to wonder - can guys develop bubble butts too? Is there something you can do to transform your butt into a work of art, or does it purely come down to genetics and luck? And if you DO have the power to change it, how is it done?In this episode, we'll cover how to make your butt look as shapely as possible - to the point where it DOES turn heads!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

Let's be honest - most of us have probably fantasized about what it'd be like to spend a day with your favorite pornstar. And in the right circumstances, this may actually be possible!Whether you're a small studio looking to hire them for a video shoot or you simply want your own day of private fun, in this episode we look over what's possible, what isn't, and what you might expect to pay!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

A girl's butthole is one of the most special - and private places of her body. So, it's normal for girls to be shy about it!But do girls generally like having their buttholes touched? If so, in what ways? And if your girl doesn't seem to be open to it, what can you do to get her to feel more comfortable with anal play?In this episode, we answer all of these questions and more!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/This episode was inspired by one of my patrons! Sign up for my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

It's commonly believed that the younger a woman is, the tighter her pussy is likely to be.But is there really that much difference between an 18-year-old pussy and a 40-year-old pussy? If so, what causes the difference? And if not, how can you ensure that it feels as good as possible to fuck?In this episode, we answer all of these questions and more!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

Have you ever noticed while watching porn, that the scene almost always ends with the woman receiving a facial?This is especially true with major studios!So, why are facials so popular, and why don't companies allow the man to ejaculate elsewhere instead? It turns out, there are actually some pretty good reasons behind it!---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

Fetishes can be a lot of fun, and allow plenty of new ways to enjoy sex. But when they start to control your thoughts or make sex without the fetish less pleasurable, it's natural to want to get rid of them.Thankfully, most fetishes can be gotten rid of, as long as you know what to do! In this episode, we discuss fetishes, what to do when they become problematic, and how you can get rid of them for good.Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudio

Welcome to the podcast! In this episode, I give a brief introduction for my plans with this show.Sign up to my email newsletter for updates: https://lewdlexi.com/email/