Five Phrases I’m Trying to Retire (and What I’m Saying Now)
aParently! A Podcast for Parents · Shawn Hopkins
June 2, 202516m 27s
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Show Notes
Parenting is hard. Parenting a young adult who's still figuring it out—while you’re juggling bills, burnout, and a messy kitchen—is next-level hard.
In this honest episode, I share a story about my son, Miguel, and what I’ve learned (the hard way) about how the words we choose can build trust—or break it down. I talk through five common phrases I’m working to replace, why they don’t help, and what I’m saying instead. If you’ve ever yelled something you instantly regretted, or wished for a script when your kid shuts down, this one’s for you.
Because sometimes it’s not about saying the perfect thing—it’s about saying the better thing.