American Sex

On Episode 120 of American Sex Podcast, adult performer Chris Cock talks with us about race in porn--namely the ethics and relevance of the interracial porn genre. Learn what inequities unfold behind the scenes in the making of IR content: what types of scenes qualify as interracial and which surprisingly don't, race-based pay differentials, unequal adult industry POC media coverage, and more. Chris created the hashtag #IRRELEVANCE to not only call attention to this issue but find solutions. One involves performers redefining the IR genre making interracial content as we know it now irrelevant. Chris also gives advice for newcomers in the industry and important tips for new performers of color. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 120 Links Twitter https://twitter.com/chriscock_ & http://twitter.com/CoopersNCuties AVN Stars https://avn.com/porn-stars/chris-cock-518191.html Instagram http://instagram.com/chriscock_ & http://instagram.com/CoopersNCuties Coopers And Cuties Youtube Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdSwq4TUZl80RQouRUEGhwA Marica Hase Official Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQSzY8YvL-OAWx-S9hqxt6g A Class Divided: About Jane Elliot's brown-eyed/blue-eyed experiment https://www.pbs.org/video/frontline-class-divided/ Petition to have domestic violence Laws updated in memory of Dr. Amie Harwick http://justice4amie.com The Life and Death of Dr. Amie Harwick CBS News https://www.cbsnews.com/video/the-life-and-death-of-amie-harwick/?fbclid=IwAR2-oGIcjnjdJLlXpqI2RCTjlmyysCCe7rCJDvElg5y9hMCF5Ll9AGWE_Xo American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Wednesday night free American Sex podcast live stream, 2/26 8pm PST Dealing with Erectile Dysfunction http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl Episode 120 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On episode 119 of American Sex Podcast, we learn about using BDSM as a healing tool with Andrea Glik, LMSW. She explains the impact trauma has on our nervous system, how depression can be a survival response, the stress response cycle, and the difference between glimmers and triggers. We dive into how BDSM can be used to heal trauma and how she integrates BDSM into her therapy sessions. Discover how BDSM can be therapeutic for both submissives and dominants plus how healing can manifest through consensual nonconsent, little space, subspace, aftercare, and more. Even if you don't consider yourself a BDSM practitioner, this episode will help you figure out how trauma and shame affect your sexual identity. This is also a highly recommended listen for mental health providers and those struggling to get their therapists to understand the importance of kink in their lives. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 119 Links Andrea Glik Instagram https://www.instagram.com/somaticwitch/ Andrea Glik YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVUm2ZAxWeu7DrcMRpP1JPw? Andrea Glik website https://www.andreaglik.com/ Healing through BDSM class & https://www.andreaglik.com/post/healing-through-bdsm Other workshops andreaglik.com/shop Inside Eyes Podcast, Healing Sexual Trauma with Psychedelics & Entheogens https://www.lauramaenorthrup.com/inside-eyes-podcast Burnout, The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Response Cycle by Emily Nagoski https://www.amazon.com/Burnout-Secret-Unlocking-Stress-Cycle/dp/198481706X Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter Levine https://www.amazon.com/Waking-Tiger-Healing-Peter-Levine/dp/155643233X American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 119 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny 10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On ep 118 of American Sex Podcast, Allison Moon lends us a hand with fisting. She's a true afistingonado! Our fister from another mister! Whether you're interested in vaginal or anal fisting, or simply want to up your handsex/fingering game, this episode has fistfuls of valuable info (and puns. LOTS of puns!). We start out busting fisting myths, conquering shame many people have about this act, plus address hangups that straight cis men have about fisting. We also cover footjobs (footing?), prepping the vagina and anus for a hand, technique tips, anatomy, considerations for trans bodies, safer sex, and a whole lot more. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 118 Links Allison Moon Twitter https://twitter.com/HeyAllieMoon Allison Moon Instagram https://www.instagram.com/allison_moon/ Girl Sex 101 book https://girlsex101.com/ Artgasm Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/artgasm/id1359502497 American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 118 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 5% discount at We-Vibe.com with code SUNNY Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY

On episode 117 of American Sex Podcast, we talk religion, sex, and politics with "the UK's first Muslim porn star," Sahara Knite. We learn how her strict Muslim family reacted when they found out she was working in porn and how it's changed the trajectory of her life. Sahara is often compared to Mia Khalifa and we discuss why that isn't necessarily accurate. She tells us how handles the vitriol & threats she receives from those claiming she brings shame upon the Muslim religion, plus we discuss her role on Game of Thrones, her new role as chairperson of the UKAP, why she cannot legally enter the US, and Sahara tells us what she thinks is really behind Meghan and Harry's split from the Royal Family. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 117 Links Sahara Knite Twitter https://twitter.com/saharaknite Sahara Knite Instagram https://www.instagram.com/itsmesaharaknite/ Sahara Knite Website https://saharaknite.exposed/ UKAP http://ukadultproducers.org Free 30-day trial of Audible (to listen to the Butterfly Effect by Jon Ronson recommended in this episode) http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 117 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 1 free stock for opening up a free Robinhood account join.robinhood.com/kenb79 10% off + free shipping from Überlube with code SUNNY at UberLube.com 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom

On Episode 116 of American Sex Podcast, Kevin Patterson & Alana Phelan, authors of the For Hire series, talk about the queer superhero universe they created. We also discuss why centering marginalized voices is important in fiction, how Harry Potter fans are handling the JK Rowling TERF situation, why books like Fifty Shades of Grey and Anne Rice's Beauty Series positively changed our culture while still perpetuating harmful stereotypes, and how positive representation in media can change the world. The pair also tell us about being awarded and Effing Foundation Grant and their upcoming non-fiction book about cautionary polyamory. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 116 Links Kevin Patterson Twitter http://twitter.com/PolyRoleModels Kevin Patterson Instagram http://instagram.com/PolyRoleModels Poly Role Models Facebook http://facebook.com/PolyRoleModels For Hire Facebook http://facebook.com/ForHireMag For Hire Book 1 http://tinyurl.com/ForHireMag1 For Hire Book 2 http://tinyurl.com/ForHireMag2 Alana Phelan Twitter http://twitter.com/hellolibrarian Alana Phelan Instagram http://instagram.com/polyamorouslibrarian Alana Phelan Facebook http://facebook.com/polyamorouslibrarian Alana Phelan Website https://polyamorouslibrarian.wordpress.com/ American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 116 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off Giddy ED Device & Educational Guide at https://buygiddy.com/savewithsunny with code SUNNY Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom

Have you ever heard of ABDL fetish? That stands for Adult Baby Diaper Lover. On episode 115 of American Sex Podcast, we talk to an anonymous diaper fetishist known as Diaper Boy. Diaper boy is a handsome, fit, African American man who enjoys opening minds by breaking the stereotypes of ABDL players and black submissive men. He teaches us how masculinity and tenderness can coexist and inspires others to take comfort in pursuing fantasies that seem "weird." Diaper boy answers your burning ABDL questions too-- how did his diaper fetish start? Is it hard to find partners to play with? Does he use things like pacifiers, bottles and sippy cups too? Are his diapers just for aesthetic role play purposes or does he do his business in them? This conversation is eye-opening! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 115 Links Diaper Boy Instagram http://instagram.com/handsome_black_diaperlover Diaper Boy Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/10910416 Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/10910416 GetVolk Sex Ed Live Streams Wednesday nights 8pm PST http://bit.ly/sunnygetvokl American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 115 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off Giddy ED Device & Educational Guide at https://buygiddy.com/savewithsunny with code SUNNY Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Silixa.com https://www.slixa.com/ Making Escort Searching Better. Way Better. Slixa is proud to announce their two newest cities, Slixa Melbourne https://slixa.com/au/melbourne and Slixa Sydney https://slixa.com/au/sydney YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom

Have you ever wished you could put a lover under your spell? Miss Mackenzee, Erotic Hypnotist, joins us on episode 114 of American Sex Podcast. She tells us how a brain surgeon not only convinced her hypnotism was real but inspired her to become a Certified Erotic Hypnotist. Find out what types of people can and can't be put under plus the things you can do with erotic hypnosis like swapping pain for pleasure, giving instant orgasms, exploring gender, or helping couples who aren't into the same kinks play together. Miss Mackenzee discusses how consent works with hypnosis and gives tips on how to spot players that use it unethically. She also walks us through the steps of an erotic hypnosis session and gives tips for incorporating hypnotic elements into your own play sessions. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 114 Links Miss Mackenzee website http://MissMackenzee.com Miss Mackenzee Twitter http://Twitter.com/MissMackenzee Miss Mackenzee Only Fans http://Onlyfans.com/MissMackenzee Miss Mackenzee Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/4326868 New England Hypnosis Group https://fetlife.com/groups/11261?sp=8 BEHIVE Hypnosis Group https://fetlife.com/groups/176820 Charmed Hypnosis Convention https://charmedhypno.org/ American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 114 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off Giddy ED Device & Educational Guide at https://buygiddy.com/savewithsunny with code SUNNY Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny Silixa.com https://www.slixa.com/ Making Escort Searching Better. Way Better. Slixa is proud to announce their two newest cities, Slixa Melbourne https://slixa.com/au/melbourne and Slixa Sydney https://slixa.com/au/sydney YNOT Mail - The only sexual health & adult industry friendly email service http://bit.ly/sunnyynot 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most tiems from Stockroom bit/ly/sunnystockroom

Hi, all! We're still on hiatus until 1/13/2020, however, we have free stuff for you and it's time-sensitive! The first of 5 massive sex toy giveaways with a total value of $2,300 is live on Sunny's site right now and runs only until Tuesday 1/14/2020. You can enter here: http://sunnymegatron.com/getvokl-giveaway. At that link, you can also find out how to enter the other 4 giveaways happening this month and about our brand new free live stream sex-ed show premiering on 1/15/2020. January is off to a great start and we've got A LOT more awesome (free) stuff coming your way! Happy New year!

If you're a client unsure about how to approach providers or are a companion yourself, Ep 113 of American Sex Podcast will answer a lot of your questions. Kate Layne tells us about how she broke into the business and why she found it so empowering. Balancing escorting with her high profile white-collar career is tricky and she discusses how advertising without showing her face has affected her business. Kate also gives helpful insight for first time clients-- what acronyms like GFE really mean, why most providers don't want to negotiate services like they are menu items, how to approach a companion online, what the client screening process is like and why it's important, etiquette including grooming and tipping, how to negotiate with a provider if you're on a tight budget, how Las Vegas is different than other cities for escorting & more. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 113 Links Kate Layne website http://www.DateLasVegasKate.com Kate Layne Twitter http://twitter.com/vipKateLayne Kate layne Instagram http://instagram.com/KateLaynevip Kate Layne email [email protected] 2019 Black Friday & Cyber Monday Sex toy deals on now: https://mailchi.mp/679cf19f0186/black-friday-2019-deals American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 113 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Silixa.com https://www.slixa.com/ Making Escort Searching Better. Way Better. Slixa is proud to announce their two newest cities, Slixa Melbourne https://slixa.com/au/melbourne and Slixa Sydney https://slixa.com/au/sydney Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ (Sunny is teaching Podcasting for audience growth and revenue on 12/8/19) 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 (This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Episode 112 contains everything you need to know about buying and gifting sex toys this holiday season. Sunny & Ken walk you through the sexytime gift-giving process from start to finish-- the do's and don'ts of gifting vibrators, how to solicit toy feedback from your partner without ruining the surprise, the things you need to know about preferences before selecting the right pleasure device, and how to make sure you're giving a 'we' gift instead of just a 'me' gift. Find out which are the best sex toys of 2019--the top Bluetooth app toys, the best penis toys, budget picks, the most cost-effective fucking machines, kinky gift ideas, and more. They also share Black Friday and unlimited year-round discounts from the top online retailers. This episode is your ultimate 2109 sex toy gift guide. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 112 Links Most toys we talked about in this episode are available at Lovehoney. If you navigate to the product you're interested in using my special link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 you get 15% off your entire purchase. The discount will be deducted in cart. My discount stacks with the 50% off Best Seller Black Friday sale. Alternate retailers are listed below. TENGA Egg http://shrsl.com/1yxd5 We Vibe Melt http://shrsl.com/1yxd8 We-Vibe Moxie http://shrsl.com/1yxdf We-Vibe Vector http://shrsl.com/1yxdj We-Vibe Sync http://shrsl.com/1yxdl We-Vibe Tango http://shrsl.com/1yxdr Fun Factory Manta http://shrsl.com/1yxdv Fun Factory Volta http://shrsl.com/1yxdw Fun Factory Volta Battery Operated http://shrsl.com/1yxdx Fun Factory Miss Bi http://shrsl.com/1yxdz Fun Factory Stronic Drei http://shrsl.com/1yxe1 Fun Factory Tiger Vibrator (Currently 30% off which stacks with my 15% discount) http://shrsl.com/1yxe4 Buch Dich Paddle 10% off with code SUNNY https://us.funfactory.com/en/dildos/bueck-dich/#a_aid=Sunny_Megatron All Above fun factory items can also be found here https://us.funfactory.com/en/#a_aid=Sunny_Megatron with 10% off using code SUNNY at checkout Aneros Products http://shrsl.com/1yxek nJoy Pure Wand http://shrsl.com/1yxem Sunny's nJoy Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJSF18Yxwvg *Vidoe content note-- I want to acknowledge not all people with prostates are men nor people with g-spots women. My language has evolved from what is was years ago when this was recorded to be more inclusive of all genders. TENGA Zero Flip Hole http://shrsl.com/1yxeo Neon Wand http://bit.ly/sunnyneonwand Sunny's Basic Wand Play article https://www.kinkly.com/2/1353/passion-play/sex-toys/shock-your-sex-life-electrosex-for-couples Sunny's Advanced Wand Play article https://www.kinkly.com/2/9230/sex-toys/amp-up-advanced-electric-wand-play Fuck Saw http://bit.ly/sunnyfucksaw Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo http://shrsl.com/1yxf3 Additional discount links below Ep 70 - How to Choose The Perfect Sex Toy, Vulva Edition http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 112 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ (Sunny is teaching Podcasting for audience growth and revenue on 12/8/19) 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On Ep 111 we speak with ageplay expert, Paul Ruloff. Paul breaks down the different types of ageplay and the misconceptions about them. We explore the psychological motivation behind being a little-- which is surprisingly less about emulating a juvenile and more about creating a reality free from adult pressures and responsibilities. He highlights the differences between non-sexual and sexual ageplayers plus addresses the judgment they face in the BDSM community. Learn about the phenomenon of the 'shrinking childhood' and how it contributes to the surging popularity of age roleplay, why the role of a 'big' (like a Mommy Domme or Daddy) is appealing, what 'forced age regression' entails, how to play publicly without involving others in your kink non-consensually, why age play can be therapeutic, and more. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 111 Links Paul Ruloff/RuleOfThree Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/16544 Ageplay: From Diapers to Diplomas book by Paul Rulof https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1610981901/ Big Little Podcast https://www.biglittlepodcast.com/ DDLG Article on suunymegatron.com http://sunnymegatron.com/7-fundamental-characteristics-of-a-daddy-dominant/ Age Play Acronyms & Glossary https://aboutabdl.weebly.com/glossary-of-terms.html Little Space Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/littlespace/ Paul Rulof Patreon Bonus Story https://www.patreon.com/posts/paul-rulof-bonus-31604440 Bawdy Storytelling Podcast bonus Audio https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-audio-from-31573667 American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 111 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ (Sunny is teaching Podcasting for audience growth and revenue on 12/8/19) 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On ep 110 Mistress Justine Cross sorts out BDSM myths and facts. We begin by dissecting negative stereotypes the media feeds us about kink and sex work plus learn the reasons why we'll likely never see accurate representations in pop culture. Justine tells us about her clients, not only the ones that seek typical BDSM fare, but also those that desire self-improvement, home organization, and other seemingly not-having-to-do-with-sex things. Learn important tips for seeking community and attending your first dungeon party--from proper etiquette to what to wear. She also addresses recent legislation & online censorship making sex work dangerous and responds to the all too common question, "how can I learn to be a Pro Domme?" Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 110 Links Mistress Justine Cross Website http://LosAngelesDominatrix.com Mistress Justine Cross Instagram http://instagram.com/TheJustineCross Mistress Justine Cross Twitter: http://twitter.com/justineplays Dungeon West http://dungeonlosangeles.com/ Dungeon East http://dtladungeon.com/ "New Mental Health Trend: Ditching the Therapist for a Dominatrix" article https://futurism.com/neoscope/mental-health-trend-therapist-dominatrix Fetlife fetish social networking website http://fetlife.com Mistress Justine cross Bonus Story https://www.patreon.com/posts/mistress-justine-31471681 American Sex SESTA FOSTA Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Bawdy Storytelling Podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 110 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

I'm excited to share a new audio drama with you - it's called Artemis. Artemis is a lesbian retelling of the Greek myth of Artemis, the Goddess of the hunt. To listen to the entire story, simply download the Himalaya app in your app store, search Artemis, and enter promo code A-R-T-E-M-I-S to get all 16 parts, FREE.

On ep 109 we explore the parallels between the kink and gaming cultures with Shanna Germain. It turns out these groups can learn a lot from each other-- especially along the lines of negotiation, consent, and aftercare. Shanna is doing her part to facilitate consent in RPGs (role-playing games) and offers a free resource for gamers. On the same token, those in the BDSM world can expand their horizons by embracing the spirit of play and roleplay gaming principles. We talk about misogyny in the gaming world and what's being done to create room for diversity plus Shanna gives tips and guidelines to gamers that want to consensually include more adult themes in their games as well as for sex-positive folks that want to give gaming a try. She also talks about authoring many fantasy erotica books and we learn about 'cozy games' that facilitate emotional intimacy, vulnerability and sexy times between consenting adults. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 109 Links Shanna Germain website http://shannagermain.com Monte Cook Games http://montecookgames.com Shanna Germain Twitter https://twitter.com/ShannaGermain Shanna Germain Facebook https://facebook.com/ShannaGermain Free Consent in Gaming PDF https://www.montecookgames.com/consent-in-gaming/ The coupon code "americansexpodcast" gets you $5 off in the MCG shop https://www.montecookgames.com/store/ TIP: Many titles like Love and Sex in the Ninth World are $3, so you can get those for free with the coupon! American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 109 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Lee Harrington joins us for a discussion about sacred kink on episode 108 of American Sex Podcast. If sacred sexuality, ritual, and sex magic aren't your cup of tea, hold up. Lee explains how the altered states of consciousness and profound emotional shifts experienced during adult play are universal. He teaches us to translate language about these experiences to fit our own personal belief systems. We discuss viewing the sacred through the lens of technology, how to pervert spirituality & identify when that's appropriate, the practical reality of sex magic we all can benefit from, reconciling your religious beliefs with your kinky desires, feminism and BDSM, combating the "one twue way" thinking in both kink and organized religion, and so much more. Lee makes spiritual concepts mind-blowingly accessible even to those that regard themselves as more science-minded. This episode is not to be missed! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 108 Lee Harrington website http://www.PassionAndSoul.com Lee Harrington Twitter http://twitter.com/PassionAndSoul Lee harrington YouTube http://www.youtube.com/user/passionandsoul Lee Harrington LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-harrington-79346651/ Passion And Soul Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122 On Starry Thighs: Sacred and Sensual Poetry https://www.amazon.com/Starry-Thighs-Sensual-Sacred-Poetry/dp/B07ZG6YJQM/ Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Kink-Eightfold-Paths-Beyond/dp/1942733909/ Wintersong Tashlin https://wintertashlin.com/ Drumspyder music https://www.drumspyder.com/ Kink Magic: Sex Magic Beyond Vanilla by Taylor Elwood & Lupa https://www.amazon.com/Kink-Magic-Taylor-Ellwood/dp/1905713118 What a Shaman Sees in a Mental Hospital http://themindunleashed.com/2014/08/shaman-sees-mental-hospital.html Raven Kaldera 8 Fold Path to Altered States Of Conciousness http://www.northernshamanism.org/the-eightfold-path-to-altered-states-of-consciousness.html American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 108 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On episode 107 sex blogger Lizet (aka @SexologyBae) tells us about how she unlearned the sexual shame instilled in her from her Southern Christian upbringing. She describes teenage purity ceremonies she attended, how being taught to value virginity above all else negatively impacted her developing sexuality, and the consequences of religious oppression not only on her own life but on society as a whole. We also get into political and cultural stereotypes about the south, how people with marginalized identities can unknowingly replicate and reinforce oppression, unpacking privilege, and what all of those things have to do with sex and sexuality. Lizet also kicks off a pleasure product giveaway on her blog for American Sex listeners. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 107 Links SexologyBae Website https://www.sexologybae.com/ SexologyBae Twitter https://twitter.com/sexologybae SexoogyBae Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologybae/ SexologyBae Sex Toy Giveaway (ends 10/31!) bit.ly/35Iqflu Scarleteen sex ed for teens https://www.scarleteen.com/ American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 107 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On episode 106 Callie Wright of the Queersplaining Podcast has a candid conversation with us about her experience with bottom surgery. She shares a snapshot at life leading up to surgery including establishing her trans identity. Then Callie takes us step-by-step through the physical & mental prep, recovery, and the procedure itself. During the two years that followed, Callie learned that reclaiming her sexuality with her new vagina was multi-layered--it affected her marriage, her relationship with her body, and sex from a psychological perspective. Although it isn't typical (or expected) for trans folks to openly talk about their genitals, having these conversations is important to Callie. This information can be reaffirming and necessary for those that opt for bottom surgery and are rediscovering their sexuality. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 106 Links Callie Wright Twitter https://twitter.com/calliegetsit Queersplaining Podcast Twitter https://twitter.com/queersplaining Callie Wright Instagram https://www.instagram.com/calliegetsit/ Queersplaining Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/queersplaining_/ Queersplaining Podcast website http://www.queersplaining.com/ Queerspalining Patreon https://www.patreon.com/queersplaining Callie Wright bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/callie-wright-30706572 "My friends, I've found it" Queersplaining episode http://www.queersplaining.com/foundit/ GLAAD https://www.glaad.org/ Trans What? http://transwhat.org/ MtF Bottom Surgery video animation https://youtu.be/l_T13su6iKQ American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 106 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Episode 105 is about everything wet! Luna Matatas explores the question, "why do we eroticize certain bodily fluids but consider others disgusting?" Then we really dive into a pool of the slimy, juicy, splashy stuff! Find out once and for all if squirt is really pee plus learn the secrets of vaginal ejaculation & creative ideas for squirt play. Luna tells us about golden showers-- what's the appeal? Humiliation? Dominance? Something else? Learn how to explore piss play safely and discover some surprising things about diaper play (no, they aren't just for adult babies). We also talk spit, tears, sweat, lactation, snot jobs, and more! Find out which common body fluid squicks Sunny out and how to negotiate playing with fluids your partner might find hot but you don't. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 105 Links Luna Matatas Twitter https://twitter.com/lunamatatas Luna Matatas Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lunamatatas Luna Matatas Facebook https://www.facebook.com/heylunamatatas Luna Matatas Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEgfj60hPEMo0sGo79efZsQ Luna Matatas website http://lunamatatas.com Peg The Patriarchy shirts & more merch https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/GlitterGiftsByLuna Luna Matatas bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/luna-matadas-30499392 About squirting https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like Diagram showing Skene's Glands https://o.quizlet.com/CBkZ4fhP-MCfFYlWckQNfg.png Breastfeeding Simulator https://laerdalglobalhealth.com/products/mamabreast/ Human tears under a microscope https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/the-microscopic-structures-of-dried-human-tears-180947766/ Who the heck is Cliff Claven? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cliff_Clavin American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 105 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Swingset Takes Desire trip at the number one swing resort, Desire Resort Riviera Maya. 11/2-11/9 swingsetdesire.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Episode 104 is officially going down in the annals of American Sex history as the go-to butt play guide. Tristan Taormino tells us everything we've always wanted to know more about backdoor play. We bust anal sex myths that keep us ashamed and afraid to experiment. Tristan gets to the bottom of the notion that anal is the riskiest kind of sex--find out if that's really true and why. You'll learn essential anal anatomy, the best lube for your behind, enema do's and dont's, the benefits of anal masturbation, specific step-by-step guidelines for givers and receivers to maximize your odds of having a painless & pleasurable experience, the best positions for anal (including pegging), the real story on gaping, anal training & buttplugs, and a butt-load more (ha!). Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 104 Links Tristan Taormino Twitter https://twitter.com/TristanTaormino Tristan Taormino Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tristantaormino/ Tristan Taormino Facebook https://www.facebook.com/AskTristan/ Tristan Taormino SFW website http://tristantaormino.com/ Tristan Taormino NSFW website https://puckerup.com/ Sex Out Loud podcast https://www.voiceamerica.com/show/2096/sex-out-loud Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X/ The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, 2nd Edition https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Anal-Sex-Women/dp/1573442216 Tristan Taormino Patreon https://www.patreon.com/tristantaormino Tristan Taormino's bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/30122979 Former Podcast with Ruby Ryder on Pegging http://sunnymegatron.com/ruby-ryder-pegging-paradise/ Amberly Rothfield Twitter Video (CAUTION: On a NSFW tube site) https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5d7d8fc6c1fef American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 104 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

This week's episode is a personal one. We talk to Sunny's 91-year-old Uncle George. He tells us what it was like growing up as a gay man in Chicago in the 1940s. This was when being 'homosexual' was illegal and frequenting gay bars and meeting places could result in jail time. George traveled to dozens of countries throughout the mid 20th century, some more accepting than the US and others downright dangerous for gay travelers. An incident in South Africa almost landed him in prison for murder! George recounts living through the AIDS crisis and losing dear friends, how acting conservative with those he was out to ensured his security, the pain of having to hide his lifestyle & partners from family, the very first pride parades, his opinion on LGBTQ+ issues today, the struggles gay elderly people face, brushes with gay celebrities in the golden age of Hollywood, and more. Oh, and he has some choice words for our president too. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 103 Links Uncle George does not have social media accounts so comments can be directed to @SunnyMegatron & will be passed on to him (unless you're a jerk, he doesn't want to hear that) My tweet delivering Uncle George's tweet to Trump https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron/status/1100070958583304192 Stonewall Riots http://www.columbia.edu/cu/lweb/eresources/exhibitions/sw25/case1.html The AIDS crisis of the 1980s https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/lgbtq-history-month-early-days-america-s-aids-crisis-n919701#targetText=The%20first%20official%20government%20report,hospitals%20in%20Los%20Angeles%2C%20California.. IML/International Mister Leather https://www.imrl.com/ Swasarnt Nerf's Gay Guides for 1949, View online: https://books.google.com/books?id=pK0ZAgAAQBAJ&lpg=PA119&ots=_-Qyao6VqW&dq=%22shoreline%20seven%22%20chicago%20gay%20bar&pg=PA111#v=onepage&q=%22shoreline%20seven%22%20chicago%20gay%20bar&f=false Buy: https://www.amazon.com/Swasarnt-Nerfs-Gay-Guides-1949/dp/0615360246 LGBTQ+ & Aging Resources https://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/resources/areamore.cfm Chicago Gay History https://www.chicagogayhistory.com/ This 90-year-old man talks about being gay and cruising in the 1940s https://www.queerty.com/90-year-old-man-talks-gay-cruising-1940s-20190517 Cassandra Perry's Accountability Resource master spreadsheet bit.ly/AccountabilityResourceIndex (You can find them at http://cassandrajperry.com, https://twitter.com/cazkilljoy or https://www.instagram.com/cazkilljoy/ People doing accountability work + additional resources (list curated by Nick Fu Entes of https://www.modernpath.net/ & https://www.facebook.com/modernpathcounseling/) Victor Salmon https://www.patreon.com/victorsalmon/overview Aida Manduley http://aidamanduley.com/ Andy Izenson https://dianaadamslaw.net/andy-izenson%2C-associate Bay Area Transformative Justice Collective https://batjc.wordpress.com/ Samantha Manewitz https://www.beyondsafewords.com/sample-page/ Zach Budd https://www.consentwarrior.com/ Justice Moving https://justicemoving.vpweb.com/?fbclid=IwAR2S0u8pIgp-ZRmJ58G08eq3cowMVc7EDj_g7V5NYtNYfvkFa0c_MSVP2jA Diminuendo Movie https://www.amazon.com/Diminuendo-Dykstra-Robinson-Rebecca-Calvert/dp/B07XFQWHNZ/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 103 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 1 free month of Audible Escape http://audible.com/sunny – Access the entire library of 18,000+ love stories and romance audiobooks! 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Humans crave belonging, it's even smack dab in the middle of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This week, Dixie De La Tour of Bawdy Storytelling tells us about her years of building community. We learn how acknowledging your authentic self through community changes your self-perception; self-talk transforms from "it was all my fault, I'm a horrible person" to "I'm ok, I did the best I could, I'm not alone." We touch on the power of vulnerability, cultivating empathy, and finding the courage to tell the stories people really want and need to hear. You'll learn how to find community in unlikely places no matter where or how you live and why connecting with others in a non-sexual way is essential in sexual subcommunities. A supportive community is not only life-changing, it can also be lifesaving. Dixie also shares a powerful story about how the community she built and her use of the word "vagina" in that community not only healed trauma for an entire family but stopped a habitual abuser from continuing to commit unthinkable crimes. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 102 Links Bawdy Website: www.BawdyStorytelling.com Listen to the Bawdy Storytelling podcast at http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast Support Bawdy on Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Twitter http://twittercom/Bawdy Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bawdystorytelling/ Facebook www.Facebook.com/BawdyStorytelling YouTube http://bit.ly/BawdyTV The Bawdy Storytelling Podcast is ON TOUR! Tickets now available: Seattle http://bit.ly/BawdySEALiveSept2019 San Francisco http://bit.ly/BawdyFolsom2019 Los Angeles http://bit.ly/BawdyLA Chicago http://bit.ly/BawdyChicago New York http://bit.ly/BawdyNYC VOTE for your city to be our next destination at https://bawdystorytelling.com/testtickle Kevin Patterson Love's Not Colorblind Book about building inclusive sex-positive spaces https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp_t2_DiNUzbMDAA9EW Kevin Patterson episode http://sunnymegatron.com/kevin-patterson-loves-not-color-blind-american-sex-podcast/ Kinky Salon https://www.kinkysalon.com/ The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown free on Audible with 30-day trial http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast Diminuendo Movie https://www.amazon.com/Diminuendo-Dykstra-Robinson-Rebecca-Calvert/dp/B07XFQWHNZ/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 102 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On ep 101 of American Sex, we talk swinging with Dee and Laydee Vee. They answer common questions about the lifestyle-- how do you meet people, what's the etiquette of attending parties, what do all the acronyms mean, how do you combat jealousy, what are the best ways to start exploring opening your relationship, what are the differences between being a swinger/open/polyamory and do folks that identify differently play well together? We discuss the nuances of swinging in the African American community-- what's up with the swing lifestyle being so overwhelmingly white, in what areas is that different, and why? Is it true that bias against bisexual men in the lifestyle is more pronounced in black spaces? Dee and Vee also dive into one of their favorite activities, facesitting-- what it's about smothering, cunnilingus or both? What's the psychology behind it? What's the proper preparation and technique for the act? Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 101 Links Instagram: http://instagram.com/dvpassion Twitter http://twitter.com/dvpassionlove Website http://dvpassion.com SDC https://www.sdc.com/ SLS https://www.swinglifestyle.com/ Adult Friend Finder https://adultfriendfinder.com/ Swinging on Eventbrite https://www.eventbrite.com (searching "lifestyle" "swinging" "swing parties" etc) Sex Down South Sexuality Conference https://www.sexdownsouth.com/ Exxxotica https://exxxoticaexpo.com/ Striking Vipers Black Mirror Episode https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Striking_Vipers Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 101 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com RopeFlix.com, just like Netflix, but for Japanese erotic rope bondage! 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Amp Somers from Watts The Safe Word discusses sex-positive content creation. We talk: the rewards & difficulties of being a Youtuber, why demonetization and censorship have snowballed, and how the mark of Youtube success has changed over the years. Amp discusses other platforms too-- how people are bullying adult creators on Instagram under the guise of 'indecency', the age-old question of where to draw the line between art and pornography, plus SESTA/FOSTA and other factors creating the perfect storm of internet censorship across platforms like Patreon, Twitter, etc. We also learn what we can do to personally combat internet censorship (yes, you can make an impact!). Amp also tells us the secrets of finding kick-ass BDSM gear on websites like Wish and Amazon while avoiding shoddy products that could set your genitals on fire. Over on Patreon Amp tells a story about his first time on a porn set and it has a very unexpected twist https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-story-amp-29399083! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 100 Links Watts the Safeword Website http://www.wattsthesafeword.com/ Watts The Safeword YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCokRyLsHxh-NykvT4uA6n2g Watts the Safeword Twitter https://twitter.com/WattsTheSafewrd Amp Somers Twitter https://twitter.com/Pup_Amp Watts the Safeword Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wattsthesafeword/ Watts the Safeword Facebook https://www.facebook.com/WattsTheSafeword/ We're Suing Google/YouTube and Here's Why Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jOqBm-e7Ns&t=4s CNN Google/YouTube story: https://www.cnn.com/2019/08/15/tech/youtube-lawsuit-lgbtq/index.html YouTube sued for allegedly discriminating against LGBTQ community https://www.cnn.com/2019/08/15/tech/youtube-lawsuit-lgbtq/index.html LGBTQ Creators Sue YouTube Over Alleged Discrimination https://variety.com/2019/digital/news/lgbtq-youtube-lawsuit-1203302184/ My catfish Horror Story Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXLl0ry2Smk Kinky Wish Shopping Haul Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ppk9Ms1SflE Kinky Wish Shopping Haul 2 Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8c9oXDCDuYc Kinky Amazon Shopping Haul video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTItZdYDfC4&t=8s Amp's bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-story-amp-29399083 Sunny Megatron's article about counterfeit sex toys: http://sunnymegatron.com/counterfeit-vibrators-hitachi-magic-wand-fake/ American Sex podcast SESTA/FOSTA episode http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny Bawdy Storytelling Podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast Cat wine https://www.etsy.com/listing/637424420/pinot-meow-cat-wine-wine-cat-lady-cats (we have no referral relationship with them but please tell them we sent you!) American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 100 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Off The Cuffs: A Kink & BDSM Podcast https://www.offthecuffs.org/ 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Nicole Prause, Ph.D. gives us an eye-opening view into the world of a sex researcher. We learn about the latest sexuality research like brain hacking to normalize sexual desire, scientific sex product research, and the very specific laboratory definition of an orgasm that surprisingly fails to line up with what many of us experience in the bedroom. We get into the internal clitoris, vasocongestion, skene's glands, the mystery of sexual vaginal lubrication, and the most sensitive areas of the clitoral glans. Have you heard that men are more sexually visual, orgasms are different based on gender, or the more testosterone someone has the stronger their sex drive is? Dr. Prause tells us why these and other sexual "facts" aren't true at all. This episode has so much fascinating information, it's a sex geek's wet dream! We also tell you about a free upcoming learning resource for existing and aspiring sexuality educators. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 99 Links Liberos Website https://liberoscenter.com/ Nicole Prause Twitter https://twitter.com/NicoleRPrause Liberos Facebook https://www.facebook.com/LiberosCenter/ Nicole Prause Episode art photo credit Tom Bassett http://tombassett.com/ More about the internal clitoris http://centerforeroticintelligence.org/internal-clitoris/ Sex Educator Skill Share Conference http://sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close-- less than 100 to go!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 99 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 1 free month of Audible Escape http://audible.com/sunny - Access the entire library of 18,000+ love stories and romance audiobooks! 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bedhttp://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

It's legal in the majority of the US for medical students to perform educational pelvic exams on anesthetized patients without their knowledge. Amy Jo Goddard has been working for years to put a stop to this practice and is producing a documentary on the issue called At Your Cervix. In this conversation, she tells us how unbelievably prevalent this practice is. She also gives accounts from women this has happened to and from medical students uncomfortable with this requirement but afraid to jeopardize their grades by refusing. We also learn about the dark history of gynecology, the work Amy Jo has done to help make these exams illegal in certain parts of the US, how Gynecological Teaching Assistants can give better training to students, plus she gives tips on how we can protect ourselves when we're in the care of medical professionals. (Content note: If you're a survivor of sexual assault-- especially in a medical context or someone who has had prior medical procedures under anesthesia, some of what we discuss may be difficult to hear. I want you to know that before listening and reassure you that even if you're a die-hard American Sex fan & never miss an episode, it's fine to sit this one out. Your well being is important us ❤️ )⁣ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 98 Links Amy Jo Goddard Website http://amyjogoddard.com/ Amy Jo Goddard Twitter https://twitter.com/AmyJoGoddard Amy Jo Goddard Instagram http://instagram.com/sexualempowerment Amy Jo Goddard Facebook https://www.facebook.com/amyjogoddard.coach/ At Your Cervix movie https://www.atyourcervixmovie.com/ Fire Woman Retreat http://firewomanretreat.com/sunny Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 98 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bedhttp://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Level up your dating game with Shannon Boodram! Screw those dating books filled with pick up artist techniques to trick potential mates. Shan's dating advice is more like "dating therapy"… and you need it! We talk about the importance of addressing emotional intelligence before you start swiping on Tinder. Shan tells us why knowing you and your partner's attachment style and apology style is so important. We also learn why risky behavior is integral to your brain's development and bonding with a partner, how to handle things if your partner isn't as committed to doing self-work as you are, flirting tips for those that aren't great with non-verbal cues, and more. No matter your relationship style, sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or gender, Shan's info is just as valuable to new partners as to those who have been together for decades. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 97 Links Shannon Boodram's Website: https://www.shanboodram.com/ The Game of Desire book website https://www.thegameofdesire.com/ Shannon Boodram Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/ Shannon Boodram youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/shannontboodram Shan's OkCupid Video https://youtu.be/EHMF2faG7WA Giddy https://getmegiddy.com Shan's Bonus audio https://www.patreon.com/posts/28838987 Ep 61 - Empowerment & Healing in Trying Times w/ Amy Jo Goddard http://sunnymegatron.com/amy-jo-goddard-womens-sexual-empowerment/ @Sheisthe_t/Tenishia on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sheisthe_t/?hl=en Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 97 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Fire Woman Retreat http://amyjogoddard.com/firewomanretreat Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bedhttp://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Episode 96 of American Sex podcast is all about pubic hair. The societal messages we receive about our genital hair cause us a great deal of turmoil. Should we trim? Shave completely? Or let it grow free? What do our grooming preferences say about us and how do the people we're intimate with feel about that? On this episode, we examine your personal stories, difficulties, and strategies for caring for your garden down below. We also speak with Lyndsey Craig, an anthropology doctoral candidate studying cross-cultural pubic hair grooming practices. They say that our modern preference for genital baldness is primarily influenced by pornography & the media. Will Lyndsey's pubic detective work throughout history tell us otherwise? You may be surprised at what you'll learn! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 96 Links Lyndsey Craig Twitter https://twitter.com/lyndseykcraig Participate in Lyndsey's next study: Women's Romantic Strategies in Long-Term Relationships: bit.ly/2Kp8FfQ We are looking for US women aged 25-45 who are in committed, heterosexual relationships to participate in a new research study about women's choice in romance from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. The only survey will take about 20-30 minutes to complete, and you will have an option to enter for a chance to win one of three $50 Amazon gift cards. What Do Women Want book http://danielbergner.com/what-do-women-want Playboy Magazine Study https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19916105 Folklore & hair https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Christian_Bromberger/publication/30441655_On_the_symbolism_of_hair_in_Islamic_societies_An_analysis_of_approaches_Anthropology_of_the_Middle_East_vol_1_n_2_winter_2006_pp_72-88/links/57168ff308ae377f0bd617ee/On-the-symbolism-of-hair-in-Islamic-societies-An-analysis-of-approaches-Anthropology-of-the-Middle-East-vol-1-n-2-winter-2006-pp-72-88.pdf Pubic hair removal among Saudi women https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-018-0661-6 eHRAF World Cultures https://ehrafworldcultures.yale.edu/ehrafe/ Sugaring article https://www.byrdie.com/sugaring-hair-removal-101-1717097 Pubic hair feedback on Twitter https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron/status/1155193610255495168 Pubic hair feedback on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SunnyMegatron/posts/2521643911214768? Pubic hair feedback on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/p/B0bj4m6hzfW/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Pubic hair feedback on Instastories highlight https://www.instagram.com/s/aGlnaGxpZ2h0OjE4MDA4NjY0MDY0MjI2Mjg3?igshid=1fhl43c9hh18k&story_media_id=2097423461579667355_30660739 My 2012 blog post about pubic hair http://sunnymegatron.com/pubic-hair-to-shave-or-not-to-shave/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast p.s. Dear internet/social media police, the hairy background for the cover art is NOT actual pubic hair. It's actually a man's chest hair (heaven forbid it's a woman's chest hair cuz that would never be allowed :roll eyes: ) from this wiki commons photo: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Category:Chest_hair#/media/File:Brusthaare.JPG Episode 96 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

BDSM educator, Casey Carter, welcomes us back from our summer hiatus on episode 95 of American Sex podcast. Casey tells us about diving into the kink & leather world after the age of 40 when an unexpected divorce forced her to reexamine a sexual part of herself he had abandoned years before. She gives us important tips about exploring kink and tells us why understanding what's behind our reluctance to talk to partners about fantasies is crucial for a satisfying sex life. We discuss the upsides and downsides of being one of the few black, dominant, female BDSM educators in our field plus Casey gives us ideas for pervertibles you have right in your own home that you can use tonight. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 95 Links Casey Carter Twitter (Home of Casey@Night-- weekly Twitter/Periscope show Wednesday 10pm EST) https://twitter.com/ReadCaseyCarter Casey Carter Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thecaseycarterexperience/ Casey Carter Website http://casey-carter.com/ Casey Carter's Erotic Short Stories https://www.amazon.com/Casey-Carter/e/B0142Z1XWW/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1?qid=1538519018&sr=8-1 Casey Carter's Patreon Bonus Story https://www.patreon.com/posts/28545978 Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 95 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off your first order of Native with code SUNNY at http://nativedeodorant.com Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 ⁣

This week we revisit an enlightening conversation with John C. Luna about urethral sounding. Get ready to have all your questions answered-- What exactly is urethral sounding? Why do people do it? How do people do it? Is it safe? Does it hurt? Why does it scare the bejeezus out of me? Why does it also sound hot AF? And what exactly do urethras even sound like anyway? We also discuss advanced play with tuning forks and electricity, what to do if you're scarred from kidney stones, plus John shares a few cringey urethral sounding mishap stories and tells us about some of the most unbelievable, extreme urethral play he's seen. Sunny also clears up some pervasive misinformation about silicone lube and lube/condom compatibility. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 94 Links John C. Luna Facebook https://www.facebook.com/JohnCalvinLuna John C. Luna Twitter https://twitter.com/johncluna Living a Sex Positive Life Podcast https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/living-a-sex-positive-life/id1197124228?mt=2 John's Bonus Story, "The $9k Cockring" https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-story-john-18327923 Episode 70 How to choose the perfect sex toy (silicone lube w/silicone toys discussion) http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ John's appearance in Playboy talking about urethral sounding https://www.playboy.com/read/an-introduction-to-sounding Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 94 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Dr. Liz Powell is an open relationship expert. Find out when you should and shouldn't open your relationship, how partnerships change after they become non-monogamous, how to emotionally prepare for opening up, the pitfalls of unicorn hunting, the different types of non-monogamous relationship styles and how to figure out what's best for you, and how to manage jealousy. Surprisingly, much of Dr. Liz's advice applies to any type of relationship--from monogamous romantic ones to relationships with friends, family, or co-workers. She tells us how avoidance reinforces negative emotions, techniques for establishing healthy boundaries, the challenges of wanting to change someone's negative behavior, and more. No matter what kind of relationship you are in or you desire, this episode has excellent resources for your happiness. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 93 Links Building Open Relationships http://buildingopenrelationsips Dr. Liz Powell Facebook http://facebook.com/sexpositivepsych Dr. Liz Powell Twitter http://twitter.com/sexpospsych Dr. Liz Powell Youtube http://youtube.com/c/sexpositivepsych Dr. Liz Powell Instagram http://instagram.com/drlizpowell The Dance of Anger Book https://www.amazon.com/Dance-Anger-Changing-Patterns-Relationships/dp/0062319043/ Photo used in episode art credit @badasswomenphotos Regina Felice Garcia Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 93 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your first week of online/tech based therapy with Talkspace FREE by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit Aug 15-18, 2019 https://www.woodhullfoundation.org/ Tantric Massage Set Giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/win-a-tantric-massage-set-worth-200-from-karma-tantric/ Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Amberly Rothfield, the go-to resource on the business of phone sex, is back! She gives us the do's and don'ts of online domination-- what to do when fantasy meshes with reality, when to walk away from a client, how to assert your boundaries as a provider, talking dirty & mastering sexual improv, what mistakes she's made in her 13 years as a PSO & how to avoid them, plus more goodies from her new book "Financial Domination: Tales from an Online Mistress". We talk about the increasing demand of erotic audio, where to sell it, and how to market it. Amberly covers the ethics of online domination including how to find financial doms that won't take non-consensual advantage. She also shares some of the incredible success stories from women that followed her business advice in her first book, "How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator"-- an emotional part of the conversation that illuminates why sex work can be so liberating and empowering for marginalized people. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 92 Links Amberly Rothfield Twitter www.twitter.com/amberlypso Amberly Rothfield Model Blueprint Website www.amberlyrothfield.com How I made $10,000 a Month as a Phone Sex Operator Free Digital Book https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-i-made-10000-a-month-as-a-phone-sex-operator-amberly-rothfield/1129216659?ean=2940161904374 Financial Domination: Tales from an Online Mistress https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SMVD4DW Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 92 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your FREE birth control prescription delivered to your door from Simple Health — go to http://simplehealth.com/SUNNY or enter the code SUNNY at checkout Tantric Massage Set Giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/win-a-tantric-massage-set-worth-200-from-karma-tantric/ Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Ruby Ryder tells us how she discovered her joy for pegging at the age of 50 and became the go-to expert. She addresses pegging apprehension that stems from the societal notion that it's a threat to masculinity. We learn how to talk to your partner about your interest in pegging; how to have pegging induced multiple and full body orgasms; the difference between prostate, anal, and penile orgasms; plus the striking similarities between the g-spot and the p-spot. Ruby also covers concerns for givers including building stamina with exercises designed for better thrusting in the bedroom. We go over the best toys and harnesses, the myth of the strapless strap-on, why orgasms for givers aren't always desirable, how to determine the sensitivity of your prostate and why it's important, pegging for people that don't have prostates, and more. Whether that scene in Deadpool simply piqued your interest or if you're an old pro looking for new inspiration, this episode has it all! Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 91 Links Pegging Paradise Podcast iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ruby-ryders-pegging-paradise/id569410141 Stitcher https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/ruby-ryders-pegging-paradise Ruby Ryder Patreon - Support Ruby's Work http://patreon.com/RubyRyder Luxury Sex Toys - Support Ruby's Work https://www.enticeme.co/s/rubyryder/ Pegging Paradise http://peggingparadise.com/ Pegging 101 http://pegging101.com/ Email [email protected] Ruby Ryder Instagram https://www.instagram.com/therubyryder/ Ruby Ryder Twitter https://twitter.com/Ruby_Ryder Ruby Ryder MeWe https://mewe.com/join/rubyryderspeggingparadise Ruby Ryder FetLife https://fetlife.com/users/365662 Ruby Ryder Reddit https://www.reddit.com/user/RubyRyder/ Ruby Ryder Facebook https://www.facebook.com/PeggingParadise/ Ryan Reynolds Pegging Video https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2016/06/ryan-reynolds-you-rascal/ Pegging Paradise Podcast #102 – All About Equipment https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/04/podcast-102/ Pegging Paradise Podcast #112 – For the Ladies https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2015/09/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/ Hard Times At The Hotel Erotic Story https://peggingparadise.com/blog/2011/02/hard-times-at-the-hotel/ Tantus doubles/strapless strapon article https://www.tantusinc.com/blogs/sexed/33853700-the-truth-about-strapless-strap-ons-ruby-ryder American Sex Sounding Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/urethral-sounding-john-c-luna-podcast/ American Sex Sex Toys for Vulvas Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ Njoy Pure Wand (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=9030 We-Vibe Rave (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=34852 We-Vibe Sync (navigate/search through this link for 15% off http://bit.ly/lovehoney15) https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=36858 Lelo Mona 2 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHjs Lelo Mona Wave 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHju Lelo Gigi 2 15% off with code Sunny http://lip.go2cloud.org/SHjo Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast (come on by & start a g-spot thread!) **Some of the above links are affiliate links Episode 91 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny Tantric Massage Set Giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/win-a-tantric-massage-set-worth-200-from-karma-tantric/ Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Our access to safe and legal abortion is being threatened with the recent anti-choice bills passed in a number of states. Reproductive justice expert, Bianca Laureano, gives us a deeper look at abortion policy & procedure in the US. In this conversation, she helps us understand harmful ways lawmakers have chipped away access to abortion and quality reproductive care with things like parental consent, approval waiting period, and the myth of the partial-birth abortion. We learn what goes into an abortion procedure and how to provide care for those going through it. Bianca breaks down the differences between the reproductive rights movement, the reproductive justice movement, and the reproductive health movement and why their differences matter. We discuss why the gendered language of the reproductive rights movement is harmful and how to be more inclusive, the real motivations behind the pro-life movement including these recent restrictive bills & laws (spoiler: it's not about preserving life), and much more. This is an important and timely conversation. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 90 Links Bianca Laureano website http://BiancaLaureano.com Bianca Laureano sex ed certification http://AnteUpPD.com Bianca Laureano Twitter https://twitter.com/LatinoSexuality Bianca Laureano Instagram https://www.instagram.com/latinegrasexologist/ Bianca Laureano Facebook https://www.facebook.com/BiancaILaureano/ Abortion In the US: Realities, Laws & Healing (20% off with code ANTEUP) https://www.eventbrite.com/e/abortion-in-the-us-realities-laws-healing-tickets-61596492768 National Advocates For Pregnant Women http://www.advocatesforpregnantwomen.org/ National Network of Abortion Funds https://abortionfunds.org/ Sister Song https://www.sistersong.net/ 13th documentary on Netflix https://www.netflix.com/title/80091741 The Daily Podcast, A Direct Challenge to Roe v. Wade in Alabama https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-direct-challenge-to-roe-v-wade-in-alabama/id1200361736?i=1000438322081 Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 90 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny Tantric Massage Set Giveaway http://sunnymegatron.com/win-a-tantric-massage-set-worth-200-from-karma-tantric/ Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Grab a pen because this episode is jam-packed with valuable info! For the first time, Sunny Megatron publicly divulges all of her long-distance sexytime tools. We've never seen such a comprehensive list of apps, programs, techniques, and creative ideas for keeping your LDR hot and fresh. This information can be used for ongoing dom/sub relationships, one-off BDSM scenes, cam performers and online pro-doms, cybersex with strangers online, or getting it on with yourself online. Although quite a bit of it is related to kink-- these resources aren't only for people into BDSM. Many of these tools and techniques can be used by folks that fall more on the vanilla end of the spectrum too. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 89 Links Reddit thread for sharing more tools and suggestions: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast/comments/bo427m/long_distance_bdsm_cyber_sex_websites_apps_tools/ Bawdy Storytelling podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcast Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Kink Academy podcast on long distance kink https://erotication.libsyn.com/long-distance-kink Exploring BDSM Episode 80 American Sex http://sunnymegatron.com/exploring-bdsm-podcast/ SESTA/FOSTA Episode 36 ASP http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Teamviewer https://www.teamviewer.com/ Rabb.it https://www.rabb.it/ The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/ Orgasm Control guide written by Sunny Megatron for Kinkly (includes orgasm games) https://www.kinkly.com/14/16957/sex-tips/everything-you-need-to-know-about-orgasm-denial Emlalock https://emlalock.com/#/ ChastiKey app https://www.chastikey.com/ Real Estate Lock Box https://www.amazon.com/Master-Lock-5400D-Combination-Portable/dp/B0002YP1VC/ Kitchen Timer Box https://www.amazon.com/Kitchen-Safe-Mini-Locking-Container/dp/B00JGFQRN4/ Writeforme.org https://writeforme.org/ Self-Bondage Safety https://www.selfbound.net/tech/safety.html Literotica http://literotica.com/ Onesubmissiveact.com https://onesubmissiveact.com/ Faproulette.com https://www.faproulette.co/8903/risky-door-fap/ Fapinstructor.com https://fapinstructor.com Milovana https://milovana.com Sex Scripts https://ss.deviatenow.com/scripts.php Signal https://signal.org/ MarcoPolo https://www.marcopolo.me/ Violet Blue https://www.tinynibbles.com/ Lovense toys https://store.castlemegastore.com/departments/lovense-sex-toys-226.html We-Vibe toys http://shrsl.com/1lngm We-Vibe Moxie remote panty vibe http://shrsl.com/1lngn Why you should never buy sex toys on Amazon http://sunnymegatron.com/counterfeit-vibrators-hitachi-magic-wand-fake/ O.School https://www.o.school/ Fetlife http://fetlife.com/ Online orgy resource http://sunnymegatron.com/find-online-orgy-websites-seen-sex-sunny-megatron/ Sex with Sunny Megatron Episode 5 "The More The Merrier" https://www.sho.com/sex-with-sunny-megatron Kasidie http://www.kasidie.com/ SLS http://www.swinglifestyle.com/?signup=AFF977100913 SwingerZoneCentral http://swingerzonecentral.com/affiliates/aw.aspx?A=1313&Task=Click *some of the above links may be affiliate links Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 89 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $5 off the newly released season 2 of OMGYes by visiting OMGYes.com/sunny 25% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Andrew Gurza is back and it's his birthday (happy birthday, Andrew!). He talks with us about his viral hashtag, #DiablesPeopleAreHot, and how it became a worldwide movement. Andrew also tells us how his relationship with his mother changed when he told her that he hires sex workers regularly. We discuss why the concept of enthusiastic consent is ableist, how we can all better combat our personal "isms" and learn to be better allies, plus the harsh realities of dating when you're disabled. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 88 Links Andrew Gurza website andrewgurza.com Andrew Gurza Twitter http://twitter.com/theandrewgurza Andrew Gurza Instagram http://instagram.com/theandrewgurza Andrew Gurza Patreon https://www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark Disability After Dark Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disability-after-dark/id1151890990 #DisabledPeopleAreHot Merch https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hot Episode 55 American Sex Podcast with Andrew Gurza http://sunnymegatron.com/andrew-gurza-sex-disability-ep-55-american-sex-podcast/ Shameless Sex Podcast https://www.shamelesssex.com/ Purple Panties by Zane Podcast bonus quickie/trailer http://americansex.libsyn.com/website/bonus-introducing-purple-panties-by-zane Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 88 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your first week of online/tech based therapy with Talkspace FREE by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Adult star, Larkin Love, is our guest on ep 87 of American Sex podcast. Ken has a few red-cheeked fan-boy moments and Larkin delves into quite a few important topics: the psychology of mommy domming; the taboo nature of incest play and her insecurities when first exploring that part of herself; the censorship of taboo fetishes on adult sites and how she and other performers are dealing with it; the business behind establishing an online fetish identity & marketing yourself; body shaming and dealing with overly critical fans and followers; her incredibly creative and amazingly bizarre custom clips like the classic "Epic Space Wank" and more. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 87 Links Larkin Love Twitter http://twitter.com/larkinlovexxx Larkin Love Instagram http://instagram.com/larkinloverules Larkin Love Official website: http://larkinlove.com Larkin Love Tumblr: http://larkinlovexxx.tumblr.com/ Larkin Love SextPanther: http://callqueenlarkin.com Larkin Love Verified Call: https://verifiedcall.com/profiles/larkinlove. Larkin Love ManyVids: http://larkinlove.manyvids.com and Larkin Love Clips4Sale: http://QueenBitchLarkin.com. Larkin Love MV Crush: https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/562290/Larkin-Love/ Larkin Love Premium Snapchat: http://SnapWithLarkin.com Larkin Love Pornhub Channel: http://larkinlovetube.com Sex out loud with Tristan Taormino https://www.voiceamerica.com/show/2096/sex-out-loud-with-tristan-taormino Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 87 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On episode 86 of American Sex podcast, get a peek at what goes on behind the scenes at a brothel. Dena is the madam of Sheri's Ranch. She tells us about what it's like for brothel employees-- how they are hired, the training and shadowing process, and the various techniques for discrete DC (that's industry talk for 'dick check'), and more. We learn about the ranch itself and which surprising amenities you're welcome to enjoy even if you're not there for sexy time. We go over what's it like to be a client-- what to expect when you go to a brothel and the essential etiquette you need to know. Dena also tells us how she unexpectedly fell into the brothel business after visiting it with her mother in law! Sunny also discusses the latest blow to the sex ed industry due to increased online censorship both in the US and the UK. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 86 Links Sheri's Ranch Website https://www.sherisranch.com/ Sheri's Ranch Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SherisRanch/ Sheri's Ranch Twitter: https://twitter.com/SherisBrothel Dena's Twitter: https://twitter.com/RanchMamaDena Selling Luxury Book https://www.amazon.com/Selling-Luxury-Customers-Experiences-Impeccable/dp/0470457996/ Episode 36 SESTA FOSTA: http://sunnymegatron.com/kitty-stryker-sesta-fosta-consent-juggalos/ Reddit censorship post https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast/comments/begocs/censorship_on_reddit_adult_sites_in_the_uk_on/ Sex Talk with My Mom Podcast http://www.sextalkwithmymom.com/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 86 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 25% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

Cuckolding: it seems everyone's doing it but no one's talking about it! On episode 85 Dr. Justin Lehmiller shares the science and research about this taboo fetish. You'll learn how cuckolding has roots in evolutionary biology; the surprising correlation between the conservative lifestyle and cuckolding; gay cuckolding vs hetero scenarios; complimentary fetishes like forced bi, chastity, feminization & cross-dressing; how to tell your partner about your cuckold fantasies and incorporate them into your sex life; and the alt-right adaptation of "cuck" & how it's affected shame and confusion about this fetish. We also answer a listener question about cross-dressing and mismatched libido plus Justin tells us about his latest research on dick pics-- specifically who sends them and what motivates these folks to keep sending them. Over on Patreon Justin tells us a story about an unexpected encounter he had at a vanilla professional event. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 85 Links Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/ Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life https://amzn.to/2STirXD Dr. Justin Lehmiller upcoming events including May 2019 appearances in Chicago, L.A. & New York https://www.lehmiller.com/public-speaking Dr. Justin Lehmiller Twitter https://twitter.com/JustinLehmiller Dr. Justin Lehmiller Facebook https://www.facebook.com/psychologyofsex Dr. Justin Lehmiller Reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/psychologyofsex Dr. Justin Lehmiller Instagram https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/ Dr. Justin Lehmiller YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm8JQt7it3re8SypKf-mT2Q Dr Justin Lehmiller American sex Podcast episode 74 about the science of sexual fantasy http://sunnymegatron.com/justin-lehmiller-sexual-fantasy-podcast/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 85 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get $45 off your first month of online/tech based therapy with Talkspace by using code SUNNY at http://talkspace.com CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% on BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom's daily deal (there's a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01

On episode 84 of American Sex Podcast, you're a fly on the wall during a candid conversation between Dirty Lola, Jimanekia Eborn & Sunny Megatron. What started as a twitter debate opened the door to a much larger, systemic issue in both the sex ed community and the world at large. We examine what happens when our well-meaning feminist activism leads way to paternalism, savior complexes, and intersectionality that's more of a buzzword than something that's widely understood. We touch on performative allyship vs being an accomplice, when it's appropriate to speak up on issues affecting marginalized communities and when "stay in your lane" applies, how anti-blackness rears its head even in the most liberal communities, and more. Take a deep breath, listeners, there's a lot to unpack in this episode. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 84 Links Jimanekia Eborn Website: https://traumaqueen.love/ Jimanekia EbornInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/ Jimanekia Eborn Kink Kit The Art of Healing Box: http://bit.ly/HealingQueen Dirty Lola Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dirtylola/ Dirty Lola Twitter https://twitter.com/dirtylola?lang=en To book Lola for workshops, bachelorette parties or her infamously funny and educational Sex Ed A Go-Go send requests to [email protected] Dirty Lola's "Dirty Loladex" aka Twitter list of marginalized Sex Educators you should be following https://twitter.com/DirtyLola/lists/the-dirty-loladex/members Dirty Lola's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion https://twitter.com/DirtyLola/status/1113078814932963329 Jimanekia's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion https://twitter.com/Jimanekia/status/1113552797478219776 Sunny's tweet thread mentioned in this discussion https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron/status/1112847630076268544 Episode 70 of American Sex Podcast about Sex Toys http://sunnymegatron.com/how-to-choose-the-best-sex-toy-podcast/ Our upcoming "Proud American Fucker" merch design: https://www.instagram.com/p/BvwaWfIhuwl/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 84 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get your FREE birth control prescription delivered to your door from Simple Health -- go to http://simplehealth.com/SUNNY or enter the code SUNNY at checkout CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Adult Star Lance Hart is our guest on episode 83 of American Sex Podcast. If you're a straight-identified guy that's been curious about dipping your toes into the bi pool, you're going to enjoy Lance's account of the first time he bonded sexually with another man. If you're in the adult industry and geek out about the business side of things, you're going to get a ton of practical information out of this episode. If you're interested in what's behind the porn you see-- how people get into it, how performers stay hard for 8 hour shoots, how pornstars can consider themselves monogamous, and how consent works (and doesn't work) on set-- then this episode is a must listen! Sunny & Ken also kick off a mega-giveaway for the month of April. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 83 Links Lance Hart Twitter http://twitter.com/lancehartfetish Lance Hart Instagram http://instagram.com/lancehartandcats Sweet Femdom https://sweetfemdom.com Man Up Films https://manupfilms.com Lance Hart OnlyFans https://onlyfans.com/630143/lancehartfetish Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 83 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 25% off a Calm Premium subscription at http://calm.com/sunny CalExotics Instagram giveaway (ends 4/26/2018) https://www.instagram.com/p/BvsyuR8hc4R/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Ashley Manta joins us on the SXSW podcast stage for our very first live taping. We talk about how to mindfully combine sex and cannabis to enhance intimacy. Ashley blows Ken's mind when she tells us what Indica and Sativa really mean and Sunny reports in throughout the episode on the effects of CBD lube she slathered on just before going on stage. Ashley breaks down the differences between the CBD from dispensaries vs. what's available in all 50 states, how to comfortably consume THC if you don't like feeling high, plus she tells us the secret antidote that brings you down from an intense buzz. We cover the best dosages, delivery methods, and strains for sex + so much more. Ashley jam packs this hour with so much useful information that it's a great primer for those looking to explore cannabis for any reason. We wrap up with audience Q&A. ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 82 Links Ashley's Manta's Website www.cannasexual.com Ashley's Manta's Instagram www.instagram.com/cannasexual Ashley's Manta's Twitter www.twitter.com/ashleymanta Ashley's Facebook www.facebook.com/ashleymanta Norml Action Center (find out how to participate in cannabis restorative justice in your state) https://norml.org/act Racial Disparities Evident in New York City Arrest Data for Marijuana Possession https://www.innocenceproject.org/racial-disparities-in-nyc-arrest-data-marijuana-possession/ Even as states legalize marijuana, racial disparities in weed arrests persist https://www.vox.com/identities/2018/4/20/17262276/marijuana-arrests-420-day-african-americans-arrests-disparity ACLU Report: The War on Marijuana in Black and White https://www.aclu.org/report/report-war-marijuana-black-and-white?redirect=criminal-law-reform/war-marijuana-black-and-white Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Foria http://bit.ly/2HHKDe4 coupon code CANNASEX saves you 10%. Sliquid https://sliquid.com/?ref=54 coupon code CANNASEX saves you 10% Episode 82 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info 50% off your first month of personalized Care/of vitamins at takecareof.com with code SUNNY50 XTaxPros.com specializing in taxes for the adult industry & more https://xtaxpros.com/ or (702) 253-7499 Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Nevada is the only state in the US where full-service sex work is legal, but how much do most of us really know about the brothel ecosystem? This week we talk to Dr. Sarah Blythe, co-author of Sex and Stigma: Stories of Everyday Life in Nevada's Legal Brothels, a book that highlights stories of brothel employees. We talk about what her research uncovered--the positives of consensual sex work in Nevada and it's juxtaposition with outdated rules and laws that encourage unfair labor practices, discrimination, and perpetuate stigma about sex work. We discuss lockdown policies & curfews, the hypocritical nature of towns that rely on brothel revenue but treat sex workers like second class citizens, and the importance of co-authoring this research with a graduate student who is also a legal courtesan. ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 81 Links Dr. Sarah Blythe Twitter https://twitter.com/ProfessorSJB Sex and Stigma: Stories of Everyday Life in Nevada's Legal Brothels https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Stigma-Stories-Everyday-Brothels/dp/1479820709/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 81 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info XTaxPros.com specializing in taxes for the adult industry & more https://xtaxpros.com/ or (702) 253-7499 Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

This BDSM episode is a perfect primer for those dipping their toes into the kinky pool for the first time or for experienced kinksters looking for a little renewed inspiration. Ken & Sunny's approach to kink is quite different than what's typically depicted. Nearly every stereotype, archetype, and "rule" you thought applied to BDSM is about to be broken. In this episode Sunny talks with Lexi Sylver of the Seek, Discover, Create podcast about all things BDSM. They cover: the roles of a dominant and submissive, how to start communicating and experimenting with your partner to discover what your kinks are, tips for playing safely, the importance of consent and safe words, what "aftercare" is really all about and how it works, the potentially therapeutic benefits of BDSM play, and more. Get ready for a new spin on a popular subject! ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 80 Links Seek Discover Create Podcast with Lexi Sylver https://bit.ly/SDCRadioLexi Lexi Sylver Website https://lexisylver.com Lexi Sylver Facebook https://www.facebook.com/getlexual Lexi Sylver Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lexisylver/ Lexi Sylver Twitter https://twitter.com/lexisylver Lexi Sylver Youtube https://www.youtube.com/user/TheSylverScreen SDC.com Twitter https://twitter.com/sdcmedia SDC.com https://www.sdc.com/ Ken & Sunny on Dan Savage's Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/episodes/600#.XIKDmohKg2w Ken & Sunny on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/sex-out-loud/e/49169668?autoplay=true Ken & Sunny on The Sex with Emily podcast http://sexwithemily.com/kinky-fun-sex/ Ken & Sunny on A Touch Of Flavor https://atouchofflavor.com/how-to-execute-an-interrogation-scene-with-sunny-megatron-and-ken/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Clown Sex episode https://nerdist.com/2013/05/sex-nerd-sandra-92-clown-sex/ Ken & Sunny on Sex Nerd Sandra, Golden Showers episode https://archive.nerdist.com/sex-nerd-sandra-146-golden-showers-with-ken-melvoin-berg-sunny-megatron-and-damon-holzum/ Yes/No/Maybe & ROUGH BS Scene Negotiation tool http://bit.ly/bdsmynm Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 80 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info XTaxPros.com specializing in taxes for the adult industry & more https://xtaxpros.com/ or (702) 253-7499 Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Sunny & Ken dip into their virtual mailbag to answer listener sex questions on their second Q&A episode! They cover painful sex after menopause, exploring BDSM, being ghosted in non-monogamous relationships, erotic humiliation, tips for keeping lube from drying up and more. If you have a question you'd like answered anonymously in a future episode, send it to [email protected]. Sunny & Ken also dive into the hottest twitter thread this week-- Unpopular Opinion: Sex Edition. They even confess a few things they routinely do that contradict their own sex education advice! 😲😬 ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 79 Links Unpopular opinion sex edition twitter thread https://twitter.com/almondmilkhunni/status/1101163764387377152 Kink Academy Erotic Humiliation course http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Midori American Sex Podcast Episode about Role Play http://sunnymegatron.com/midori-erotic-roleplay-finding-your-dominance/ Yes/No/Maybe & ROUGH BS Scene Negotiation tool http://bit.ly/bdsmynm Joan Price American Sex Podcast Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/joan-price-sex-aging-american-sex-podcast/ Ashley Manta American Sex Podcast Episode http://sunnymegatron.com/ashley-manta-cannasexual-enhancing-sex-with-cannabis/ Article about the reporter drinking an entire bottle of weed lube https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/53nx9k/what-happens-when-you-drink-an-entire-bottle-of-weed-lube Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features! We're sooooo close! ) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 79 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info XTaxPros.com specializing in taxes for the adult industry & more https://xtaxpros.com/ or (702) 253-7499 Masala Jones scripted podcast about the first Asian-American male porn star dropping 3/10/19 https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/masala-jones/id1448433037?mt=2 Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

On ep 78 we speak with Zoe Ligon of the SuperDeluxe web series, Sex Stuff, and owner of Spectrum Boutique. She tells us about the larger forces in her life that affect her relationships, identity, and sexuality--namely, healing from childhood trauma after the death of her father. Some of what we touch on: emotional incest, covert sexual assault, PTSD, loving someone that hurts you, identifying and recovering from subtle recurring abuse, rehabilitating vs. excommunicating abusers, shedding the performative parts of ourselves, consent & abuse, reconciling feminism and BDSM, therapeutic kink + more. Zoe also tells us a hilarious bonus story over on Patreon about an awkward discovery in an unexpected place that can't be blamed on the cat! 😹 ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 78 Links Zoe Ligon Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thongria/ Zoe Ligon Twitter https://twitter.com/thongria Spectrum Boutique spectrumboutique.com Contact Zoe by email [email protected] Sex Stuff episode with Midori https://youtu.be/E1iFNXkJhuA Silently Seduced book By Kenneth Adams https://www.amazon.com/Silently-Seduced-Parents-Children-Partners/dp/0757315879/ Chemistry Eases The Pain Indiegogo https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/chemistry-eases-the-pain-by-shine-louise-houston Kink Academy Humiliation courses http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 78 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

Queer porn producer, writer & director, Shine Louise Houston, is our guest on episode 77 of American Sex Podcast. We talk about pay inequities in porn and her progressive pay structure for talent, what it means to be queer, her upcoming movie "Chemistry Eases the Pain" which is a "straight curious" adventure-- that leads to a discussion of identity policing in the queer community and the all too common problem of being ridiculed for doing something or someone that isn't "queer enough." We also discuss the challenges of being a queer woman of color in the industry, crowdfunding adult films, why it's important to pay for your porn, and more. We also celebrate Shine's birthday! ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 77 Links Chemistry Eases The Pain Indiegogo https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/chemistry-eases-the-pain-by-shine-louise-houston Pink Label TV https://www.pinklabel.tv Crash Pad https://crashpadseries.com/ Shine Louise Houston Twitter http://twitter.com/shinelouise & http://twitter.com/pinkandwhite (also http://twitter.com/crashpadseries & http://twitter.com/pinklabeltv Shine Louise Houston Instagram http://instagram.com/shinelouise & http://instagram.com/PinkAndWhiteProductions (also http://instagram.com/CrashPadSeries & http://instagram.com/PinkLabelTV) Shine Louise Huston Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShineLouise/ & https://www.facebook.com/pinkwhiteproductions/ (also https://www.facebook.com/crashpadseries/ & https://www.facebook.com/PinkLabelTV/ ) Kink Academy Humiliation courses http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation Porn Star Karaoke Las Vegas https://www.facebook.com/karaokeXvegas/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 77 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY

Get ready for a memorable blast from the past. We revisit an early American Sex podcast guest conversation with Davecat. Davecat's wife, Sidore, is a doll– meaning, she's not just a sweetie, she's actually synthetic! Happily coupled for 17 years, they also live with their mistress Elena and her partner Miss Winter. Davecat considers himself an iDollator because all three women in his life are dolls. You may have seen him on My Strange Addiction, the BBC Documentary Guys and Dolls, or other shows. Davecat sat down with us to give us a peek into his very unusual but seemingly average polyamorous life. We find out the real reason behind Davecat's preference for Synthetik partners, what day to day life is like in their household, how his family and friends feel about his lifestyle, his beautiful plans for his dolls after his death, and more. ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 76 Links Shouting to Hear the Echoes, Davecat's blog http://www.kuroneko-chan.com/ echoes/ Synthetik week-end http://synthetikweekend. tumblr.com/ Davecat Twitter @Davecat Sidore Twitter @leahtype Elena Twitter @ElenaVostrikova Miss Winter Twitter @snowblind1980 Love and Sex with Robots, by David Levy http://a.co/668NO1z The Sex Doll: A History, by Anthony Ferguson http://a.co/eFzzTjI FastCompany Digisexual article https://www.fastcompany.com/90303947/digisexuality-is-stepping-out-of-the-closet-keep-an-open-mind Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 76 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more)http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY

On episode 75 Sunny & Lola's reflection on the Surviving R. Kelly docuseries prompts an impromptu conversation about America's long history of sexualizing teens. We're all shocked by the R. Kelly story but remember back in high school when it was "cool" to date a college-aged person? Remember when adults in your life didn't bat an eye at you dating a legal adult when you were underage? We break this complicated situation down by reflecting on our own experiences. Some of what we touched on: hitting puberty early, the over-sexualization of girls of color, how being sexually objectified as a teen shapes one's sexuality, Mary Kay Letourneau, the negative impacts of marrying young, the cultural normalization of teens dating adults, equating sex with love, why people stay in abusive situations & more. ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 75 Links Dirty Lola Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dirtylola/ Dirty Lola Twitter https://twitter.com/dirtylola?lang=en To book Lola for workshops, bachelorette parties or her infamously funny and educational Sex Ed A Go-Go send requests to [email protected] Mary Kay Letourneau 20/20 episode https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_ek0kBJSho Article about Paul Walker & Jared Fogle https://therooster.com/blog/jared-fogle-and-paul-walker-have-lot-common Facebook post & article about being preyed upon when underage https://www.facebook.com/SunnyMegatron/posts/2173056569406839?__tn__=-R Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 75 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

This episode might just change your life-- especially if you've ever wondered if your sexual fantasies are too "weird." Dr. Justin Lehmiller surveyed over 4,000 Americans about their fantasies and what he discovered is absolutely fascinating and reassuring. It turns out all of our sexual fantasies fall into seven major categories. Dr. Lehmiller tells us which are the most popular and why, if people of different genders fantasize differently, why suppressing our sexual fantasies can be damaging, why group sex is so appealing, why Republicans tend to have more taboo sexual fantasies, and how to use the information he uncovered to make your own sex life better. He even tells us a few things from his study that didn't make it into his latest book, Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 74 Links Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Blog https://www.lehmiller.com/ Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life https://amzn.to/2STirXD Dr. Justin Lehmiller Twitter https://twitter.com/JustinLehmiller Dr. Justin Lehmiller Facebook https://www.facebook.com/psychologyofsex Dr. Justin Lehmiller Reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/psychologyofsex Dr. Justin Lehmiller Instagram https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/ Dr. Justin Lehmiller YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCm8JQt7it3re8SypKf-mT2Q Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 74 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed

American Sex Podcast is back after holiday hiatus! Ken & Sunny speak with sex therapist Dr. Hernando Chaves about what affects the health of our sex lives. He discusses the heavy impact stress has in the bedroom and tells us how we can use mindfulness techniques to combat it, how to find common ground with a partner when your sexual interests don't seem compatible, the current political climate & its effects on gender power dynamics in relationships, and support for men in the age of #MeToo. We also talk sex-positive parenting and raising children that are questioning their gender and sexual orientation. As a bonus, Dr. Chavez gives us prostate play tips and tells us about the best new toy for p-spot play. ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you'll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 73 Links Dr. Hernando Chaves Twitter https://twitter.com/Hernando_Chaves Dr. Hernando Chaves https://www.instagram.com/Hernando_Chaves Dr. Hernando Chaves website http://www.drhernandochaves.com/ Calm app https://www.calm.com/ Headspace app https://www.headspace.com/ Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast new subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast Episode 73 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed