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Agree to Disagree About Gender

Agree to Disagree About Gender

Laura T and Yvette N

25 episodesENserial

Show overview

Agree to Disagree About Gender launched in 2025 and has put out 25 episodes in the time since. That works out to roughly 35 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a weekly cadence.

Episodes typically run an hour to ninety minutes — most land between 1h 13m and 1h 37m — and the run-time is fairly consistent across the catalogue. It is catalogued as a EN-language Society & Culture show.

The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 5 days ago, with 24 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2026, with 24 episodes published. Published by Laura T and Yvette N.

Episodes
25
Running
2025–2026 · 1y
Median length
1h 27m
Cadence
Weekly

From the publisher

Laura is an integrated trans woman. Yvette is gender critical. They disagree on a lot when it comes to sex and gender, but agree it's better to talk about their differences and try to understand each other's perspective, rather than to assume the worst about each other. Every week, they will have an open and civil discussion about current events pertaining to sex, gender and trans issues, and will have a civil and respectful discussion about contentious areas of disagreement

Latest Episodes

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Episode 25 - Maia Poet - Autism and Gender Dysphoria Part 1

Jun 25, 20261h 41m

Episode 24 - Karleigh Chardonnay Webb - Trans Women in Adult Recreational Sport

Jun 18, 20261h 27m

Episode 23 - Sasha Ayad - Avoiding Estrangement From Your Trans Child

Jun 12, 20261h 30m

Episode 22 - Jonni Skinner - Controversy and Compassion About Detransition Part 2

Jun 5, 202657 min

Episode 21 - Jonni Skinner - Controversy and Compassion About Detransition Part 1

May 30, 20261h 7m

Episode 20 - Jamie Paul - How The Trans Rights Movement Lost its Way

May 24, 20261h 10m

Episode 19 - Dr Kinnon MacKinnon - The Many Faces of Detransition

May 18, 20261h 25m

Episode 18 - Zander Keig - A Meditation on Masculinity Among FTMs

May 13, 20261h 26m

Episode 17 - Ray Alex Williams - The Spectrum of Gender Expression

May 6, 20261h 45m

Episode 16 - Julie Rei Goldstein - Detransitioners and The Law

Apr 29, 20261h 59m

Episode 15 - Karleen Gribble - Sex and Gender Based Language in Health Care

Apr 18, 20261h 26m

Episode 14 - Dr. Quentin Van Meter - Natural Puberty and Healthy Development

Apr 11, 20261h 29m

Episode 13 - Jennifer Lahl - Ethics of Fertility Preservation in Young People with Gender Dysphoria

Apr 5, 20261h 0m

S1 Ep 12Episode 12 - Dr. Melanie Crites Bachert - A Pelvic Surgeon's Concerns About The Risks of Gender Care

In our 12th episode, Laura and Yvette bring on Dr. Melanie Crites Bachert (prounounced BUCK-ert), a pelvic reconstructive surgical specialist whose practice has been primarily centered on women's pelvic health, and on repairing congenital abnormalities of the kidneys and the bladder. However, in recent years, she has become more vocal about what she sees as the unacceptable high incidence of urinary and vaginal complications experienced by trans men (natal women) on testosterone, who find their way into her Oregon practice. She expressed concern about hormone prescribers not appropriately counselling their patients about the consequences of hormone therapy, and on what she believes is an abdication of responsibility in managing adverse effects associated with therapy Dr. Laura and Dr. Crites Bachert engage in some vigourous but respectful argument about the benefits of gender care, how we engage with medical uncertainty, and on the the amount of weight we put onto the pain and the consequences of living with dysphoria

Mar 31, 20261h 17m

S1 Ep 11Episode 11 - The Ethical Case FOR Pediatric Gender Transition - Dr. Ian Wolfe

In our 11th episode, Laura and Yvette are joined by pediatric bioethicist Dr. Ian Wolfe, of the University of Minnesota. Dr. Wolfe believes that young people with gender dysphoria should be able to access care to medically facilitate a gender transition, and that there is a well-established ethical framework to support it. Dr. Wolfe shares his rebuttal to common concerns raised by gender critical advocates, while also acknowledging some of the limitations and missteps in pediatric medical transition. Dr. Wolfe also discusses his critique of the HHS report and the restrictive legislation that has been justified by the conclusion of the report, and the challenges with learning clarifying information where even research into the subject is considered unethical

Mar 21, 20261h 32m

S1 Ep 2Episode 2 - Pediatric Medical Transition

In their second episode, Laura and Yvette have a heartfelt conversation about their concerns about pediatric medical transition. Laura is a trans woman who believes that access to medical transition can rescue some children from the horrors of dysphoria. Yvette has grave concerns about transition being a false promise of salvation from difficult and complicated childhoods. We have created this podcast because we believe it is important for well-meaning and empathic people who have arrived at different positions on contentious issues regarding gender to be able to have open and honest dialogue, and even more important for curious and caring people to hear

Mar 13, 20261h 26m

S1 Ep 3Episode 3 - Trans Sports and The Supreme Court

In their third episode, Laura and Yvette dig deep on Little vs Hecox, and West Virginia vs BPJ, two cases that will be argued in front of the Supreme Court today. Laura is a trans woman who believes that trans women should be allowed to play on teams with their female peers under certain conditions whereas Yvette believes women's team are the domain of biologic women. We also discuss the broader implications of these cases beyond the playing field, both in terms of how sex and gender are defined under the law, and the potential that this decision could be a gateway to broader restrictions on the trans community We have created this podcast because we believe it is important for well-meaning and empathic people who have arrived at different positions on contentious issues regarding gender to be able to have open and honest dialogue, and even more important for curious and caring people to hear

Mar 13, 20261h 12m

S1 Ep 4Episode 4 - Alex Byrne - The Trouble with Gender

In this week's episode, Laura and Yvette sit down with Dr. Alex Byrne, the Laurance S. Rockefeller Professor of Philosophy at MIT. His most recent book is Trouble with Gender: Sex Facts, Gender Fictions. In that book, he provides a philosophical underpinning on a narrow definition of "man" and "woman", as well as justification for discarding the concept of gender. He is also one of the 9 authors of the controversial HHS Report "Treatment for Pediatric Gender Dysphoria: Review of Evidence and Best Practices", which supports the complete banning of access to medical and surgical therapies for children and adolescents with gender dysphoria, and even more contentiously recommends against any further research evaluating the potential efficacy of medical interventions. In this conversation, we discuss the challenges with applying a narrow definition of male/female and man/woman in the real world, whether this precludes treating trans people with respect, and what responsibilitis academics have when their positions are likely to be weaponized. In the second half, we shift our focus to the HHS report, talking about his hesitations with getting involved with the Trump and Kennedy-led HHS, on the secrecy surrounding the authorship, and on why he believes that further research in this area is unethical to pursue

Mar 13, 20261h 36m

S1 Ep 5Episode 5 - The PATHWAYS Trial

Laura wants more data about the effectiveness of puberty blockers. Yvette has seen enough They disagree about most things, but they've agreed to talk about it In this episode, they do a comprehensive review of the recently launched UK Pathways Trial, which seeks to determine if puberty blockers have a role to play in the management of young people with gender incongruence. However, many question have been raised about its design, whether it is ethical, or whether it is even necessary. Plus stay tuned to the end for a special Easter Egg!

Mar 13, 20261h 3m

S1 Ep 6Episode 6 - A Conversation with Ben Ryan

In Episode 6. Laura and Yvette sit down with investigative reporter Ben Ryan to hear his perspectives on pediatric gender medicine, his coverage of the 1st medical malpractice trial where a regretful detransitioner prevailed against her care team, and his sympathies towards the trans community.

Mar 13, 20261h 36m