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What if you stopped trying to do motherhood “right”… and just let it be easy? In this episode, I’m sharing what it’s looked like to recalibrate our week as my husband has been working longer hours and I'm solo parenting a few nights per week. Letting things be easy doesn’t mean lowering your standards. It doesn’t mean giving up. It doesn’t mean you’re ruining your kids. Sometimes it just means creating space — space to breathe, space to connect, space to actually enjoy the life God has given you… even when it’s messy. If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, overcommitted, or quietly burned out, this episode is your permission slip. What’s one thing you can tweak this week to let it be easy? Come tell me inside the Facebook group or leave a review — I’d love to hear. If you’re craving community with other adoptive moms who truly get it, join the waitlist for The Adoptive Mom Circle. It’s a faith-based space for encouragement, coaching, prayer, and honest conversation — like sitting around a table with coffee and women who see your story. 👉 Join the waitlist here Or go to bit.ly/AMLcircle You were never meant to do adoption alone. Book a Coaching Call -> HERE Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

Adoptive mama, bio mama, foster mama? This is for all mamas and wives! We're talking about L-O-V-E, how we show it and how we receive it. We all love our kids — but are we loving them in a way they actually understand? In this Valentine’s-season episode, we talk about the 5 Love Languages and how they show up in real family life with your kids and your spouse. From quality time and words of affirmation to acts of service, gifts, and physical touch, you’ll learn how to notice what fills your child’s heart instead of just giving love the way you prefer to give it. If connection feels off, distant, or confusing right now, this episode will help you reset, slow down, and start speaking love in a language your family can truly receive. If you’re craving community with other adoptive moms who truly get it, join the waitlist for The Adoptive Mom Circle. It’s a faith-based space for encouragement, coaching, prayer, and honest conversation — like sitting around a table with coffee and women who see your story. 👉 Join the waitlist here Or go to bit.ly/AMLcircle You were never meant to do adoption alone. Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider

Adoption can feel lonely in ways no one prepares you for. Even when you’re surrounded by people, playdates, church, and activities, there’s often a quiet ache of feeling unseen, misunderstood, or like you don’t quite belong. In this episode, we explore loneliness as an epidemic among ALL mothers — and then we look at what makes loneliness even more complex for adoptive moms. We talk about identity shifts, unmet expectations, trauma-informed parenting, advocating for your child, navigating birth family relationships, and the invisible emotional load adoptive families carry every day. You’ll hear research around motherhood and isolation, along with real-life examples from the adoptive mom experience that make many of us think, “Why do I still feel alone when my life looks full?” This episode is an invitation start finding real, safe connection with likeminded mamas. It's time to find your village! If you’re craving community with other adoptive moms who truly get it, join the waitlist for The Adoptive Mom Circle. It’s a faith-based space for encouragement, coaching, prayer, and honest conversation — like sitting around a table with coffee and women who see your story. 👉 Join the waitlist here Or go to bit.ly/AMLcircle You were never meant to do adoption alone. Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

Preparing to bring home a new puppy surprised me in ways I didn’t expect. As we count down to welcoming “Mr. Green,” I noticed familiar emotions rising in my heart — the excitement, the nerves, the planning, the what-ifs, and the deep need to trust God before something precious comes home. While adopting a puppy is not the same as adopting a child at all, the emotional posture of waiting for any big change in your life can stir up very similar emotions. In this episode, we talk about the heart of preparation, surrender, and faith during seasons of anticipation. We’ll walk through four common phases many adoptive moms-to-be experience while waiting: Phase 1: The Excitement Phase Phase 2: The Fear & What-If Phase Phase 3: The Control Trap Phase 4: Surrender & Rest If you’re waiting to adopt, or simply holding something precious in hope, this episode will encourage you to prepare with peace and to trust God with the parts you can’t control. Book a Coaching Call -> HERE Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Book a one-on-one coaching call here.

As a new year begins, goal setting can feel both exciting and overwhelming—especially for Christian moms. Do we need a word for the year? Do we seek to become a completely new person on January 1st? Do we need to work out 5 days a week to move the needle? Is any of this striving even Godly or wise? Friends, there is a better way. You’ll be encouraged to shift the question from “What do I want to accomplish?” to “Who do I want to become?”— and then create small, actionable weekly goals that align with the woman and mother God is shaping you to be. Goal setting isn’t “bad” or “wrong.” The key is to keep God at the center and remember that, ultimately, He establishes our steps. Who is God inviting you to become in this season—and what’s one small step you can take this week in response? Make sure to join the Facebook group to continue the conversation! Book a Coaching Call -> HERE Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Book a one-on-one coaching call here.

Welcome to week 4, our final week, of our Advent for Adoptive Moms series — a four-week journey through Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love designed to help your heart slow down and meet God in the middle of your unique motherhood story (even among the holiday chaos). In this week’s (Christmas Eve!) episode, we’re talking about loving our kids in the same way God pours His love out on us. You’ll hear encouragement, scripture reflections, and simple ways to center your heart on Jesus right where you are. This episode reminds us that His love is sufficient for us. When our well runs dry, His never does. We can receive His love and give it abundantly to our kids (and all of our loved ones!). Be sure to follow along in the free printable guide as we explore some thought-provoking questions together. Download the FREE devotional I’ve created to go along with this four-part series: Bit.ly/AMLadvent Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Coaching -> Book a Call Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Schedule your one-on-one coaching session, from one adoptive mama to another here.

Welcome to week three of our Advent for Adoptive Moms series — a four-week journey through Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love designed to help your heart slow down and meet God in the middle of your unique motherhood story (even among the holiday chaos). In this week’s episode, we’re talking about joy as we hold space for grief. You’ll hear biblical encouragement, personal stories, scripture reflections, and simple ways to center your heart on Jesus right where you are. This episode reminds us that joy and sorrow can coexist, and God can still meet you where you are. Be sure to follow along in the free printable guide as we explore some thought-provoking questions together. Download the FREE devotional I’ve created to go along with this four-part series: Bit.ly/AMLadvent Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Coaching -> Book a Call Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Schedule your one-on-one coaching session, from one adoptive mama to another here.

Welcome to week two of our Advent for Adoptive Moms series — a four-week journey through Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love designed to help your heart slow down and meet God in the middle of your unique motherhood story (even among the holiday chaos). In this week’s episode, we’re talking about finding peace when everything feels messy. You’ll hear gentle truth, personal stories, biblical encouragement, and simple ways to center your heart on Jesus right where you are. Advent reminds us that, even in the middle of the chaos of the Christmas season, our homes and our emotions, Jesus brings peace. We just need to invite Him in. Be sure to follow along in the free printable guide as we explore some thought-provoking questions together. Download the FREE devotional I’ve created to go along with this four-part series: Bit.ly/AMLadvent Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Coaching -> Book a Call Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Schedule your one-on-one coaching session, from one adoptive mama to another here.

Welcome to week one of our Advent for Adoptive Moms series — a four-week journey through Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love designed to help your heart slow down and meet God in the middle of your unique motherhood story (even among the holiday chaos). In this week’s episode, we’re talking about HOPE and ways to find hope in a waiting season. You’ll hear gentle truth, personal stories, scripture reflections, and simple ways to center your heart on Jesus right where you are. Advent reminds us that even in the middle of the waiting, the wondering, and the striving, Jesus came near, and He still comes near today. Be sure to follow along in the free printable guide as we explore some thought-provoking questions together. Download the FREE devotional I’ve created to go along with this four-part series: Bit.ly/AMLadvent Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Coaching -> Book a Call Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Schedule your one-on-one coaching session, from one adoptive mama to another here.

As we head into Thanksgiving, today’s episode is all about preparing our heart posture for gratitude. Whether you’re excited to gather with family, feeling conflicted about plans, or navigating the unique layers of adoptive motherhood during the holidays — this conversation is for you. In today’s episode, we discuss: Why gratitude rewires your brain and reduces stress The spiritual side of thankfulness and how it recenters your heart Five simple gratitude habits you can start today (no extra time required!) Your Thanksgiving doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Messy, quiet, chaotic, emotional, or simple — it’s okay. God is with you in your season, and there is always something to be thankful for right here, right now. Happy Thanksgiving to all of my lovely mamas out there! Snag your FREE devotional for our advent series beginning December 3rd! Book a Coaching Call -> HERE Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Book a one-on-one coaching call here.

Holiday traditions — what memories do they spark for you? Was it your grandmother’s famous pumpkin pie at Thanksgiving, Christmas caroling with your family, matching jammies on Christmas Eve, driving around to see lights, or the candlelight service at church? Traditions and rituals are an important part of every family’s unique bond. As adoptive families, they are equally — if not even more — important for creating a sense of belonging. In today’s episode, I’m sharing some of my favorite holiday traditions from my own family and the ones we’ve carried forward with our children. I also invite you to reflect: what are your favorite traditions, and how have you incorporated them into your children’s lives to keep them alive? Snag your FREE devotional for our advent series beginning December 3rd! Book a Coaching Call -> HERE Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Book a one-on-one coaching call here.

Ready or not, it’s that time of year again — time for holiday shopping! Do you send Christmas gifts to your child’s birth mom or birth family? In today’s episode, we’re talking about heartfelt, personal gift ideas for your child’s biological family — from simple, thoughtful gestures to more meaningful presents they’re sure to enjoy. Whether you have an open adoption with ongoing contact or very little connection right now, this episode isn’t about creating pressure or obligation. It’s simply a chance to think through some intentional, grace-filled ways to let your child’s birth family know they’re remembered and cared for this Christmas. Book a Coaching Call -> HERE Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Book a one-on-one coaching call here.

November is National Adoption Month, a time to raise awareness for children still waiting for families and to honor the stories of those already formed through adoption. But as adoptive moms, this month can stir up a lot of mixed emotions — gratitude, grief, and everything in between. In this episode, I’m sharing how I’m holding space for both the beautiful and the broken parts of my kids’ stories — and how you can, too. From the history behind National Adoption Month to the sacred, everyday work of being your child’s safe place, we’ll reflect on what this season really means for those living adoption from the inside out. If you’ve ever felt torn between celebration and sorrow this time of year, this one’s for you. Book a Coaching Call -> HERE Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Book a one-on-one coaching call here.

Every adoptive parent wrestles with the same questions... How do I share my child’s adoption story without saying too much or too little? How do I even approach such a thing? How do I know if they’re old enough to handle it? In this episode, I walk you through what it looks like to share your child’s adoption story with honesty, discernment, and most importantly, God’s leading. If you’ve ever second-guessed your words or worried about “getting it wrong” when sharing your child’s story with them, this one’s for you. ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️ LIVE workshop registration link HERE! October 28th! Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

How do you know if your adopted child’s behavior is normal… or rooted in trauma? This is a question I hear from adoptive moms all the time! In this episode, I chat with Jeanette Yoffe — adoptee, therapist, author, speaker, and founder of Celia Center and Yoffe Therapy — about how to parent with connection and compassion. Here's what we talk about: How to spot when behaviors are trauma-related Simple tools and interventions to help kids process their complex stories The PACE model for attachment-focused parenting Why minimizing struggles amplifies them — and how connection diffuses them Using Sad Bags, Anger Bags, and Shame-wiches Tune in for Part II today, and go back and listen to Part I if you missed it! Ways to reach Jeanette: Main website: www.JeanetteYoffe.com YouTube Channel: Jeanette-icallySpeaking The Traumatized & At-Risk Youth Toolbox Book Psychology Today: Inner Life of Foster Care Book and body socks on Amazon: Jeanette's Book Body Sock FREE live workshop on October 28th. Register here! Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

How do you know if your adopted child’s behavior is normal… or rooted in trauma? This is a question I hear from adoptive moms all the time! In this episode, I chat with Jeanette Yoffe — adoptee, therapist, author, speaker, and founder of Celia Center and Yoffe Therapy — about how to parent with connection and compassion. We cover: How to spot when behaviors are trauma-related Simple tools and interventions to help kids process their complex stories The PACE model for attachment-focused parenting Why minimizing struggles amplifies them — and how connection diffuses them Tune in for Part I today, and don’t miss Part II next week as we continue this essential conversation. Ways to reach Jeanette: Main website: www.JeanetteYoffe.com YouTube Channel: Jeanette-icallySpeaking The Traumatized & At-Risk Youth Toolbox Book Psychology Today: Inner Life of Foster Care Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

Have you ever caught yourself running on autopilot—snapping at your family, juggling endless tasks, and realizing you’re stuck in survival mode? As moms of adopted children, those heavy, chaotic weeks can leave us feeling drained and defeated. In this episode, I share a simple reset you can use anytime, anywhere, to calm your mind, steady your heart, and step back into presence with your kids. It’s practical, faith-filled, and designed to remind you that you don’t have to stay stuck in survival mode—you can move forward with peace, one small step at a time. And, I have some exciting news to share next week! Make sure you’re on the email list and in the Facebook group so you can be the first to know. Hint: it’s designed just for you as adoptive moms. Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

Are you drowning in screen time struggles with your kids? After a long, hot summer where screens slowly shifted from an ‘extra’ to the default, I knew it was time to try something different. I came across a simple reward system from a first grade teacher, and it’s been a game-changer for our family. As moms, we know too much screen time can impact our children’s brains, development, and attention spans. And as adoptive moms, we often feel an added responsibility to guide our kids toward becoming confident, balanced, and well-rounded little humans. While not all screen time is bad—and not every reward system will fit every family—I hope this episode encourages you to take an honest look at the role screens play in your home. If something feels ‘off,’ I pray that you feel equipped and empowered to make small changes that bring more balance to your family. Articles referenced from PubMed here and here. Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

Ever feel like you’re stuck in survival mode as an adoptive mom? In the second half of this two-part episode, I’m joined by Keli Tondre, adoptive mom, trauma therapist, and founder of Tondre Therapeutics. Keli shares both her personal adoption journey and her professional expertise to help us understand trauma, regulate our nervous systems, and find hope in the hard places. We talk about: Why adoption always carries trauma (even in the best situations) What Polyvagal Theory + Internal Family Systems mean for adoptive parent Simple ways to know when you are dysregulated—and how to reset The importance of co-regulation in parenting our kids Keli also shares her program, the Adoptive and Foster Parent Trauma Transformation, which offers online teaching, group coaching, and community for parents who want to move from surviving to thriving. Resources Mentioned: No Bad Parts by Dr. Richard Schwartz Altogether You by Jenna Riemersma The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog by Bruce D Perry How We Feel app Be sure to go back and listen to PART I of this eye-opening conversation. Connect with Keli: tondretherapeutics.com To book a call: tondretherapeutics.com/call To view masterclass: tondretherapeutics.com/webinar **Use referral code CARLYGRACE for a program BONUS! Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

Ever feel like you’re stuck in survival mode as an adoptive mom? In this episode, I’m joined by Keli Tondre, adoptive mom, trauma therapist, and founder of Tondre Therapeutics. Keli shares both her personal adoption journey and her professional expertise to help us understand trauma, regulate our nervous systems, and find hope in the hard places. We talk about: Why adoption always carries trauma (even in the best situations) What Polyvagal Theory + Internal Family Systems mean for adoptive parent Simple ways to know when you are dysregulated—and how to reset The importance of co-regulation in parenting our kids Keli also shares her program, the Adoptive and Foster Parent Trauma Transformation, which offers online teaching, group coaching, and community for parents who want to move from surviving to thriving. Resources Mentioned: No Bad Parts by Dr. Richard Schwartz Altogether You by Jenna Riemersma The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog by Bruce D Perry How We Feel app Be sure to tune in next week for PART 2 of this eye-opening conversation. Connect with Keli: tondretherapeutics.com To book a call: tondretherapeutics.com/call To view masterclass: tondretherapeutics.com/webinar **Use referral code CARLYGRACE for a program BONUS! Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

“I just want to know that my child is going to be okay.” If you’ve ever whispered those words, you’re not alone. As adoptive moms, our deepest desire is for our children to feel fully known, fully loved, secure in their identity, and at peace with their story. But sometimes, fear of the future sneaks in and quietly begins shaping the way we parent. In this episode, we’re unpacking: Why fear-based parenting shows up so often for adoptive moms How fears about birth family history, not being “enough,” or our child feeling different can shift how we show up The impact this has on our kids (and on us!) A better way forward—parenting from presence, connection, and trust in God What if instead of trying to control outcomes, we could meet our child right where they are today? What if we could release the fear and surrender their future to the God who already chose us to be their parent? Let's keep this conversation going! If this episode resonates with you, book your coaching call with me today. FREE coaching call application -> bit.ly/AMLcoaching (**limited time only**) Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider

It’s that time of year again….back to school! Back-to-school season can feel like a whirlwind — new routines, new teachers, new anxieties… and that’s just for us moms! ;) For our adopted kids, this time of year can bring extra layers of worry, big feelings, and tricky transitions that other families might not experience. But here’s the good news — we don’t have to just survive this season, we can actually create a smoother, more peaceful start to the school year, which creates a more peaceful home year-round. So today, I’m sharing my best tips for helping your child feel prepared, starting them on the right foot each morning, partnering with their teachers, and keeping the peace at home when the school day is done. Grab your coffee, friend, and let’s jump in. FREE coaching call application -> bit.ly/AMLcoaching (**limited time only**) Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Get more personalized support with a Coffee & Connection Coaching Call. A 60-minute clarity call with me, Carly, to uncover your greatest pain points and get to the next level in your adoptive parenting journey. Fill out the intake form here: bit.ly/AMLcoaching

On today's episode, we're reflecting back on summertime with our adopted kids. How did it feel? Was it relaxing, jam-packed, or slow and steady? Did you intentionally spend time connecting as a family? If you're wrapping up summer and have just a week or two left, how can you spend it best? What kind of lasting memories do you want to leave your kids with? Let's brainstorm together in this episode and come up with a few small but impactful ways to go out with a bang. FREE coaching call application -> bit.ly/AMLcoaching (**limited time only**) Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Get more personalized support with a Coffee & Connection Coaching Call. A 60-minute clarity call with me, Carly, to uncover your greatest pain points and get to the next level in your adoptive parenting journey. Fill out the intake form here: bit.ly/AMLcoaching

Summer is a great time for snuggling up and watching family movies together. There are SO many family-friendly movies that have subtle adoption and foster themes, while others are clearly adoption-centered. Some are heartwarming and contain deep and valuable insight about love, belonging and overcoming hardships, while others miss the mark or cause more confusion than clarity. On today’s episode, we’re talking about a handful of family-friendly movies with foster and adoption themes AND potential triggers that I want you moms to be in-the-know about as you consider watching them with your kids. **We’re celebrating the podcast’s ONE YEAR anniversary with a giveaway! Simply leave us a review, take a screenshot and email me the screenshot to get your entry! You could be the winner of a $25 Amazon gift card to buy or rent your own movie for your next family movie night!** Drawing ends August 6, 2025. FREE coaching call application -> bit.ly/AMLcoaching (**limited time only**) Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Get more personalized support with a Coffee & Connection Coaching Call. A 60-minute clarity call with me, Carly, to uncover your greatest pain points and get to the next level in your adoptive parenting journey. Fill out the intake form here: bit.ly/AMLcoaching

Being in community with one another is ALL over the bible. Friends, I don’t think living alongside other believers is a bonus, I think it’s part of God’s bigger picture for our lives -- for being the moms He has called us to be when He assigned us these beautiful humans to care for, shepherd and love. If fear of all the unknowns of parenting adopted kids has held you back for too long, let me come alongside you. Let me hold space for you. Let me cheer you on and encourage you with faith-based strategies. Click the link below to fill out an application for a FREE 60-minute coaching session. For a short time only, I have space for FIVE mamas. Let’s have coffee and connection time, adoptive mom to adoptive mom. I’ll see you on the other side! FREE coaching call application -> bit.ly/AMLcoaching (**limited time only**) Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Get more personalized support with a Coffee & Connection Coaching Call. A 60-minute clarity call with me, Carly, to uncover your greatest pain points and get to the next level in your adoptive parenting journey. bit.ly/AMLcoaching

Do you have a group of people you’re doing life with, or are you sitting on the other side wishing you had a group of people to do life with as an adoptive parent? Friends, what if I told you it wasn’t just “nice to have” but also biblical to live in community with likeminded people? What if I told you it would bring down your stress levels, improve the lens in which you view inevitable challenges in life, and increase your resilience to whatever adoptive parenting throws your way? If you’re lacking a support system or other moms who just get it, stick around because we’re going to talk about 6 ways to develop a support system and community as an adoptive mom! Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider Next Steps: Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life. Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here. Step 3: Get more personalized support with a Coffee & Connection Coaching Call. A 60-minute clarity call with me, Carly, to uncover your greatest pain points and get to the next level in your adoptive parenting journey. Email me at [email protected].

Our adopted children’s journey began long before we held them—and it’s sacred. It includes grief and beauty, pain and redemption. Some of it belongs only to them and the Lord. In this episode, I dive into why we, as adoptive parents, share, and how we can be more mindful in what we share about our child’s story. I also give you 4 “heart check” questions to ask yourself before sharing something that feels conflicting. If you’re a Christian adoptive mom who wants to advocate for your child while honoring their privacy, integrity, and dignity…this episode is for you! Contact - > [email protected] Podcast -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast Private FB Group -＞ bit.ly/adoptivemomlife Become an Insider - > AMLInsider

Are you an adoptive mom who feels weary? Do you try to juggle everything only to be left feeling depleted? On today’s episode, I’m giving you tips for refilling your empty cup so you can pour into your children and be the mom God has called you to be. Email Me: [email protected] Join our private community on Facebook: bit.ly/adoptivemomlife

Welcome back to Adoptive Mom Life! If you’ve been feeling a little disconnected from your child lately — especially as an adoptive parent — you are not alone. Summer can be this open stretch of relaxing free time, but it can also bring up emotions, boredom, tricky behaviors, or dysregulation. And sometimes, summer can unintentionally be filled with too much solo time or screen time for your child. As moms, we sometimes wonder, “Am I doing enough?” “Are we connected?” “Are there more ways I can truly connect with my child?” On today’s episode, we’re diving into 5 fun, easy ways to connect with your child this summer — all through the lens of building trust, joy, and attachment. These tips are designed to help you feel more bonded, laugh more, and create moments that really become memories down the road for you and your child. And what’s more? They’re so simple! Let’s get into it. Email Me: [email protected] Join our private community on Facebook: bit.ly/adoptivemomlife

Hey mama! If you've ever felt the whisper that you're not enough, this episode is for you! Does that mom guilt creep in more often than you’d like? From the small things, like feeding them too many chicken nuggets and not enough veggies, to the BIG stuff, like being fully responsible for their relationship with their birth families as they grow up. As a mom, it can feel impossible to do it all sometimes and meet the needs of everyone in the home, but it can also feel like we’re simply not enough. As an adoptive mom, sometimes the guilt or the weight is just a little bit heavier. Well friends, feeling like you aren’t enough is a lie from the enemy. Today, I want to give you some biblical truth straight from the Word to combat the lies about your worth as a mama. Let’s dive in! Email Me: [email protected] Join our private Facebook community: Adoptive Mom Life

It’s summertime! Maybe your kids are out of school for summer, or they’re about to be! This is when either excitement or panic sets in for you, mama! For all of you work-at-home moms, how do you navigate a peaceful summer where they have fun, but you’re able to get actual work done, too? How can you balance your need for vocation and vacation? Your must-dos and your want-tos? Your needs and their needs? Whether you work at home or you’re a SAHM, we’re all trying to create fun, lasting summer memories while our kids are still at home – and time with our kids living at home is fleeting! But how do we create that illusive BALANCE during summer? On today’s episode, I share 10 fantastic tips for juggling WAHM life with kids and summertime! Until next time, friends. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Welcome to Part Two of our episode on how to support a friend who’s waiting to adopt a child. This can be a difficult journey to navigate. The waiting, the hoping, the milestones, the holidays, baby showers, and getting your heart and home ready to welcome a child. If you’re here, I can imagine you want to support them with love and grace, but you’re not sure how! Go back and listen to Episode 41 (as well as this one) and take some notes. There’s a lot to unpack between these two episodes. I pray you gain new insight and wisdom to better support your loved one on this adoption journey. Kudos to you for being here for them and doing what it takes to understand the road they’re on. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Do you have a friend or loved one who’s adopting a child? If so, this two-part episode is exactly what you need to show up with wisdom and kindness and support them in an intentional way. The fact that you’re here today says a lot about how much you love your person, so first and foremost, THANK YOU for taking the time to better understand the world of adoption. Please share this episode with friends and family who might find it helpful! As always, leave me a review so I can reach more women who are in a season of waiting to adopt or raising adopted kids. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Would you consider yourself an introvert? If so, you’re in the right place! On today’s episode, I’m talking about parenting adopted kids as an introverted mom. While it can be very challenging on the nervous system, it can absolutely be done. I’ll share some common burnout triggers for adoptive moms, along with ways to create boundaries and create time for recovery. Believe it or not, introverted moms have so many gifts to offer their kids. We just need to find ways to charge our battery while also loving our families well. This takes intention and sometimes planning ahead. Remember, mama, you aren’t broken. The need for alone time isn’t selfish. For the introverted mom, it’s actually survival! Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Today’s episode is all about open adoption and ways to stay connected with a child’s birth family. I talk about different methods for maintaining contact with your child’s birth family, and how each scenario is completely unique according to everyone’s preferences. Whether you’re hoping to adopt and plan to have an open adoption, or you’re raising children and need to hear from someone who just GETS it, I’m here to share what our open adoptions look like in real life. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

It’s time for another R.E.N.E.W. episode, and this time, it’s for April. April means spring, and spring is ALL about renewal, so I can’t think of a better time to renew ourselves on this motherhood and adoption journey. Whether you’re waiting for your family to grow or raising little ones like I am, we must keep our minds, bodies, and spirits nourished and cared for. Sometimes, that means educating ourselves and leaning into a different method of parenting, and sometimes, it simply means relaxing a bit and doing something enjoyable. I hope you enjoy all the fun tips I have for reading, educating, nourishing, enjoying, and writing (R.E.N.E.W.). See you next week! Mentioned in today's episode: Horacio Printing The Self-Driven Child The Calm Parenting Podcast Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Inspired by a book and a podcast interview, I wanted to have a conversation around giving kids more control over their lives within safe and loving boundaries. Moms, what if I told you that all kids’ and teens’ mental health issues revolve around one central theme: a low sense of control. Clearly, there may be other factors involved, like genetics, trauma, and neurodiversity, and each child is uniquely their own person. And if you’re raising kids by adoption, there are, arguably, so many more variables. But with today’s moms becoming more and more micromanagers and helicopter moms, it’s no wonder our kids are lacking in confidence and self-motivation. Where can you offer more autonomy to your child today? We can start small! What can they decide for themselves within appropriate boundaries? Let’s pray over our kids, their choices, and our hearts as we let go juuuust a little. They may fail, they may fall, but they will undoubtedly be stronger for it and learn invaluable life skills. The Self-Driven Child book The Gift of Failure book Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our PRIVATE community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

In this fun, two-part series, I chat with my husband about infertility and adoption from a “his and hers” perspective. We share some very candid moments, offer advice for couples dealing with infertility and advice for couples as they transition into pursuing adoption to grow their families. I hope you learn something new, share a few laughs with us, and reach out to ask us follow up questions. We absolutely love sharing our infertility and adoption story with others that are walking the path we walked several years ago. And most importantly, God is in the details, friends, so I hope you hold on to that truth today. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

In this fun, two-part series, I chat with my husband about infertility and adoption from a “his and hers” perspective. We share some very candid moments, offer advice for couples dealing with infertility and advice for couples as they transition into pursuing adoption to grow their families. I hope you learn something new, share a few laughs with us, and reach out to ask us follow up questions. We absolutely love sharing our infertility and adoption story with others that are walking the path we walked several years ago. And most importantly, God is in the details, friends, so I hope you hold on to that truth today. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

What’s the one thing we, as a society, all have in common right now? It’s a lack of time! I get it. You don’t have time for self-care and you don’t have time to be still or mindful. But what if I told you that your future kids really depend on you to be a whole, healthy person? Whether you’re waiting to adopt a child, or raising your adopted children, this episode is for you. On today’s episode, I want to share with you 3 things that will move the needle in your mind, body, and spirit, when all other forms of indulgent things just aren’t possible. These 3 things don’t require much time, they don’t require any money, and they can be done in the tiny pockets of your busy day. They’re also jam-packed with research-backed benefits. Friends, you can’t afford to not do these 3 things! Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

On this (sometimes teary-eyed – sorry!) episode, we’re talking about finding beauty from ashes. Sometimes we face difficult things. Sometimes it’s a minor health setback or car troubles. Sometimes it’s a failed adoption match or another negative pregnancy test. And other times, it’s losing someone you love. These setbacks and heartbreaks are inevitable in life on this side of heaven. But we can still find gratitude, even in the hard seasons. I want to encourage you to see things through a different lens this week. Friends, I hope this helps you find perspective during a season of waiting for your adopted child to come. If you’re raising Heartgrown littles, I hope this lifts you up during a time when parenting and life feels heavy. Praying for you and rooting for you as you journey through your season. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Hey friends! On today’s episode of the Heartgrown Mama podcast, we’re talking about the word R.E.N.E.W. and how we can apply this acronym in our motherhood season. Today, I’ll talk about what we’re reading, educating ourselves with, nourishing our bodies with, enjoying, and writing about. Join us each month as we record another R.E.N.E.W. episode, where I’ll share things that I’m loving, learning about, and applying to mothering my children. I hope this blesses you! A few mentions from this episode: Neurofit App Calm App Wild Yam Cream Write the Word journal Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Today we’re talking about infertility leading to adoption. This isn’t always the order of things, but it is seen fairly often. Does one always lead to the other? Absolutely not! On today’s episode, we’re going to dive deeper into infertility and how, at least in my story, it was the stepping stone that led me to God’s plan for our family, which was adoption. And while I never saw that plan coming, I think God knew it years before we did. Buckle up as I share some ways to proceed with caution if you’re considering adoption after infertility. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our PRIVATE community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

On our third and final episode of our Love Series, we talk about ways to show love to your child (adopted or not!) and, spoiler alert: one of those ways involves showing love and respect to their birth families. Just like in previous episodes, most of these ideas cost you nothing but time. Time well spent is what we will all remember years down the road. At the end of the day, your children just want YOU! Now I challenge you, mamas, to put your phone down, learn their love language, and get into their world. You’ll start to see who they are as little humans, and they will feel seen, known, and loved. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

How can we love and honor ourselves while we wait to adopt a child? In this sometimes fragile season of waiting, how can we care for ourselves as we would a good friend? Are there things we can say “no” to, and boundaries we can set? Who are you surrounding yourself with? What things can you be doing to spark joy? Stay tuned for five (mostly FREE!) ways to show love and kindness to yourself. Praying for you and your family today. <3 Stay tuned, because our next episode will follow a similar theme! Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

How can we better show our love to our spouses while waiting to adopt a child? This is a really unique season, but also a time where you can pour into one another and build a strong foundation for your future family. In today’s episode, I’m sharing 5 simple ways to show love to your spouse (and most of them cost NOTHING)! I can’t think of a better time to share tips for loving your spouse than when Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Stay tuned, because the next two episodes will follow a similar theme! Mentioned in this Episode: The 5 Love Languages Quiz Connection Cards for Couples Heartgrown Mama Episode 13 Marriage Conference: Get $100 OFF using group name: HEARTGROWNMAMA Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Do you have a picky eater in your home? Are things too green, too squishy, too spicy, too stringy, too bitter, or too sour? I have a child who has become a very picky eater and won’t eat many (if any) fruits or veggies. So, I created a one-week challenge to eat the rainbow and earn a super fun reward. So far, the kids are LOVING it and we’ve seen some massive improvement in willingness to try new foods! You can do this in your home, too! Find a food item that feels like a struggle (fish, green veggies, beans, etc.), come up with a clever name for your challenge, and help them work toward a reward that is motivating. Remember, better nutritional habits won’t be fully cured overnight, but exposure to different foods (with no drama) will slowly create the changes you wish to see. Let me know if you try this and how it’s working for your family! Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mamas: Thriving in the Wait Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Are the what-ifs swirling in your mind about your child’s future? Do you lose sleep over worry or anxiety about it? As an adoptive mom, I understand this very well. Today, we will use the acrostic, L.O.V.E. to form healthier thought patterns around these intrusive thoughts. L: Love O: Openness V: Validation E: Education Let’s reframe our mind when these thoughts come creeping in, and lead with love. Let’s replace our what-ifs with we-cans! Remember, we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. Tune in to hear more. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mamas: Thriving in the Wait Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

In the final episode of our three-part series on self-care, we discuss whether self-care is biblical or if it has selfish implications. I think it can go either way, depending on how it’s being done. Too much of a good thing isn’t always a good thing! We discuss a handful of scriptures as they pertain to self-care. The Bible doesn’t explicitly mention self-care, but there are some verses that speak to caring for our bodies, minds, and spirits. As adoptive moms (or moms who are waiting to adopt a child), practicing self-care is an integral part of meeting our own needs so we can meet the needs of our families. But more importantly, if we can view self-care as a means to be in relationship with our Creator, and not being alone for the sake of being alone, then I think we’re on the right track! What do you think about self-care? How do you feel after having listened to this episode? Important note: I'm not a pastor or theologian, these are just *my* personal opinions and perceptions of scripture. Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Our private community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mamas: Thriving in the Wait Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/

Taking care of yourself as an adoptive mom is vital for your well-being and your family’s health. By prioritizing your own needs, you'll be better able to support your child and your family in the long run. In the second episode of a three-part series, we explore the ways mamas-by-adoption can take some solo time to fill their cups, from coffee with a friend, to perusing the library alone, to counseling, to prayer walks. We are all moms, and we face many of the same challenges, but as adoptive moms, there may be some unique situations that arise in our motherhood journeys. Tell me…what is your favorite form of self-care? Are you going to implement anything new from today’s episode? Email Me: [email protected] Check out the blog: heartgrownmama.com Find our community on Facebook: Heartgrown Mama Check out our digital adoption journal: https://heartgrownmama.com/waiting-well-journal/