Abundant Ever After with Cathy Heller

"The confidence comes after courage. Courage comes first. But what's more important than confidence is an open heart, love, generosity, enthusiasm. So when we have love, connection, enthusiasm, generosity, open heartedness, we don't even need confidence. But when you have that, and you take action, you do start to have confidence because confidence comes. It's acquired by doing something. The more we drive, the more we write, the more we parent, you get confidence. But what comes first is courage, and an open heart. And all the resources that matter more like enthusiasm, generosity, all of that stuff, which you have in spades." - Join the Quitter's Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter

How do you keep putting your best foot forward when you're constantly asked to prove yourself? Tara Strong, Emmy nominated actress (Loki, Powerpuff Girls, Fairly Oddparents, Teen Titans, Pretty Hard Cases)and podcast host always believed she would make her dream of acting come to life, and over the decades she has voiced iconic characters - but still, she never stops showing up. She shares what it takes to become a standout voice over actor, how to practice gratitude and resilience when you're facing disappointment, and why everyone is a hero that deserves to be celebrated. - Join our Free 3 day podcasting bootcamp, Sept. 20-22! https://cathyheller.com/bootcamp - Follow Tara on Instagram and Twitter @tarastrong - Watch the Ship-It Show Podcast on YouTube https://bit.ly/3zcMzCf - Thanks Amazon Music! Try Amazon Music Unlimited free for 30 days at Amazon.com/DREAMJOB30 - Thanks Skillshare! Skillshare.com/dreamjob for a one-month free trial of Premium Membership.

"Start looking for a lot of evidence of this little tiny crazy idea that's out of the box of your past beyond into the field and start looking for evidence. Is there somebody who is in reality right now making a living doing abstract art? Is there somebody who is cultivating a retreat center for all different kinds of spiritual healing modalities? Can you find evidence that that's happening? And if you can, how can you begin to move into inspired action by asking, what's the one tiniest, next little step I could take? And biggest, biggest, biggest permission slip for 'I surrender to a creative process. And I want to step into the unknown.'" - Join the Quitters Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter

What are the steps to uncover your passion and get paid to do work you love? Cathy shares this inspiring workshop about how to find your gifts, dream up the life you truly desire, identify what your calling could be, and turn your vision into a business that brings you joy, abundance, and purpose. - Join the Quitters Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter - Thanks GoodRX! Start saving up to 80% on your prescriptions today at GoodRX.com/DREAMJOB - Thanks Fiverr! Get 1 free year and save 10% on your purchase at Fiverr.com/business, code dreamjob10 - Thanks BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/dreamjob

"You're going to surrender caring about rejection. And the truth is, what you're going to get out of that is more than you're going to get out of the sale that you're going to make. Letting go of 'I need to be perfect.' Letting go of 'Everyone has to like me.' Letting go of 'What's my uncle going say when he sees my price?' Letting go of 'Oh my Gd, I'm an impostor. I don't have a degree in this.' We're ending that. We're making a decision today that that doesn't feel vibrationally matched. That's cost us too much. And it's time to set it down. And so we're going to start getting in the habit of showing up and opening our arms for abundance." - Join the Quitters Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter

"Just by you, dropping into this more effortless place, the place where you feel the most spontaneous, the most not in control - oh, the divine downloads you're going to get about your business or what to just do today because it felt good. Joe Dispenza says, 'If you know this feels so good, how can you be so busy that you don't make time to feel this good?' It's just the most incredibly simple question. And he goes, 'Because the biggest piece of the work with this is making the frickin time for it.'" - Join the free workshop on Tues. August 17th @ 8 pm ET! Sign up at http://cathyheller.com/workshop

How can art be a shining light in difficult times? Gray Malin, internationally renowned photographer and NYT bestselling author took the scary step of leaving his fancy corporate job to sell his prints at a flea market. Then as he began to bridge the art world with the digital space, his career soared. He shares how to listen to the feedback, why your art is needed in the world, and how to turn a moment of defeat into opportunity. - Join the free Dream Path Workshop on August 17th @ 8 pm EST! http://cathyheller.com/workshop - GrayMalin.com - Follow Gray Malin on Instagram @graymalin and @graymalinpersonal - Get your copy of Gray's book, Gray Malin: The Essential Collection https://amzn.to/3iIp1zj - Thanks Purple! Get 10% off any order of $200 or more at Purple.com/dreamjob10, promo code dreamjob10 - Thanks Indeed! Get a free $75 sponsored job credit at Indeed.com/dreamjob - Thanks Faherty! Get 20% off at Fahertybrand.com, promo code DREAMJOB

"Ask yourself this question: How would my life be different if I could tolerate rejection? How would my life be different if I was no longer codependent, I no longer made it my business what somebody's reaction was to me? How would my life be different if I lived life on my terms and said what I needed to say and did what I needed to do, and allowed other people to have their own reaction to it and let them own their reaction? How would my life be different if it was okay with me if not everyone likes me? How would my life be different if I started to repel the people who would never really be on my team, and I started to attract the people who were actually a higher quality of human for me, the person I actually needed? It's so much better to out yourself about whatever your feelings are or thoughts and let the people walk right out that door. Just let them go." - Join Cathy at the free Dream Path Workshop on Aug. 17th @ 8 pm ET http://cathyheller.com/workshop

How can you get out of your own way and do what you’re made to do? Cathy shares how to expand your capacity for happiness, and teaches you how to get into a state of mind and energy that’ll charge you forward and lead you to take bold, inspired action. - Join the free workshop on How to Find Your Dream Path, Aug. 17th @ 8 pm EDT! http://cathyheller.com/workshop - Thanks Bambee! Bambee.com/DREAMJOB to schedule your free HR audit.

"The difference between a hobby and a business is that if there's a business, it involves some kind of money. And that means somebody is giving you money, which means somebody needs or wants what you're making. So a business is about solving problems. It's about making something someone needs or wants. At the heart of successful business is radical empathy. Why are artists paid to do what they love? Because it's not about me, me, me, me, me. It's we, we, we, we. Together. It's not 'look at me.' It's 'come with me.'" Join the Quitters Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter

"It's amazing how we just will not release our resistance. We just will get in our way. But that vibration, fear, shame, guilt, doubt, all that stuff, it vibrates very slowly. It's low energy. So we don't move. It slows us down. When we get into enthusiasm, passion, imagination, we move super fast. If you want to collapse time and space and manifest the crap out of your life, change the energy. You just move through time. Think to yourself, 'What's the matching energy of where I want to be? I'm going to go in there.' It's 99% energy work and 1% the right action. And when you marry the right action with the energy, you just floor it." Join the Quitters Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter

How can you grow a business by giving something away for free? Cathy shares how to create an opt in that will make people excited to sign up for your email list, unlock the light within you, and step into the flow of abundance by being generous. - Join the Quitter's Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter - Thanks Ouai! TheOuai.com, code DREAMJOB to get 15% off your entire purchase. - Thanks Canva! Get a Free 45-day extended trial by going to Canva.me/dreamjob - Thanks Wordtune! Try Wordtune for free at Wordtune.com/dreamjob

"I want you to quit being perfect. I want you to quit being hard on yourself. I want you to quit working and living your life the way other people want you. I want you to quit over functioning. I want you to quit pleasing. I want you to quit worrying what other people think of you. I want you to quit so many things. And most importantly, I want you to quit anything that feels like a job. I don't want you to do a job. I want you to do your life's work. I want you to wake up and say, 'Gd gave me something. It's a something.' It doesn't have to be Beyonce something, it's your something. I want you to claim it wants you to fully embrace it. And I want you to take the Hansel and Gretel breadcrumbs, and start down the path of being willing to explore what that gift is. And then I want you to do that." - Join the Quitter's Club! https://cathyheller.com/quitter

"If you find yourself getting into fight or flight, that worry comes in, you start getting into that stress hormone, the cortisol starts pumping, ground yourself back in the moment. Put your hand on your heart and drop in. Drop into the feeling of where you want to be. And keep pulling that future self toward you. Keep feeling that future self. How does she walk? How does she smile? How does she vibrate? And it's not really as much about what you do. It's about who you are. And when you show up in your resonance is who you are. The doors of possibility just swing open, but you can only see the door and walk through it when you're not in your head." - Join the Quitter's Club! cathyheller.com/quitter

How can you bridge the gap from where you are and where you want to be? Cathy shares questions to ask yourself so you can discover what you desire in your future, gain clarity on which direction to take, uncover the answers already inside of you, and surrender to your inner knowing so you can start walking in the flow. - Join the Quitter's Club! cathyheller.com/quitter - Thanks Headspace! Headspace.com/dreamjob for a free one month trial

"When you put real love into the world, it's like 'This is what this is, and this is what this costs. And I'm charging you this because I actually want you to pay for the value. I don't really want to sell price because I'm not really interested today and having a conversation about numbers and price. I'm interested in having a conversation about what you actually need.' It's a non issue. We're just in our resistance and we want to move from resistance into something else. If you change your energy, you can do it all."

"When you turn toward a feeling that you're trying to escape, like anxiety or fear, or shame, or sadness, the more you turn toward it, that feeling changes. And you notice that there's actually something bigger than that feeling that's holding the feeling. And you realize you can be with it. It's not that it feels good. But there's a satisfaction in being with. And then all of a sudden, we become integrated." - Download the free Dream Goal Tracker Worksheet! http://cathyheller.com/dream

How can you align with your wildest, most wonderful dream self? Poppy Jamie, founder of Happy Not Perfect, author, entrepreneur, and podcaster was stuck in a cycle of workaholism, people pleasing, and chronic exhaustion until she finally decided to reevaluate her definition of happiness. She shares how to live with love instead of fear, get connected to yourself when you're overwhelmed, harness the power of pausing, and create a happy life. - Download the free Dream Goal Tracker Worksheet! http://cathyheller.com/dream - Follow Poppy on Instagram @poppyjamie - Read Poppy's book Happy Not Perfect https://poppyjamie.com/happy-not-perfect/ - Listen to Not Perfect Podcast with Poppy Jamie wherever you listen to podcasts! - Thanks Betterhelp! Get 10% off your first month at Betterhelp.com/dreamjob

"Start making lists of ways that you can be generous. When you make a list of ways that you can be generous today, you uncover gifts that you might be skipping over. I want you to think of three people who you could give to today. Maybe you send a card, maybe one of them loves your biscotti. Because the more you are available to be generous, the opportunities that come are going to blow your mind. You're going to be like, 'I can't believe that I was just offered this role or this job or this thing. All because I showed up.'" - Download the free Dream Goal Tracker Worksheet! http://cathyheller.com/dream

How can you be specific about your vision and actually make it happen? Cathy shares a coaching call where she walks you through the questions to help you gain clarity on what you really want, how to break down goals into manageable steps, and why being impressive is never as powerful as being yourself. - Join Cathy and Sheri for a free live workshop today July 29th @ 5 pm PST! https://cathyheller.com/sheri - Download the free Dream Goal Tracker Worksheet http://cathyheller.com/dream - Thanks Miro! Get 3 free white boards at Miro.com/dreamjob

"When we untangle the codependency stuff, and we just ground ourselves, we keep showing up for ourselves. We keep loving ourselves. We keep just being free to do what we do and setting an intention to have that freedom and that love. Just walking in your grace is like the most incredible healing and you'd be so surprised what happens." - Join Cathy and Sheri's free live workshop July 29th @ 5 pm PST! https://cathyheller.com/sheri

"We never buy things. We don't buy widgets. We don't buy stuff. What do we buy? Feelings. We buy feelings. We are not logical. We are not physical. We are biological. We are feeling beings. And it's all about energy. It's all energy." - Join Cathy and Sheri on July 29th @ 5 pm PST for the free live Do the Impossible Workshop https://cathyheller.com/sheri

How can you manifest the life of your dreams? Sheri Salata, author of The Beautiful No, former Executive Producer of The Oprah Winfrey Show, and former President of Harpo Studios and OWN returns to help you release the negative stories you tell yourself, summon the magic of your life, stir up the dream pot, and expand your capacity for happiness. - Join the free live workshop with Sheri and Cathy on July 29th @ 5 pm PST! https://cathyheller.com/sheri- Download the free workbook from this episode https://cathyheller.com/484 - Watch the episodes on video https://www.youtube.com/cathyheller - Follow Sheri on Instagram @sherisalata - Thanks Ouai! TheOuai.com, code DREAMJOB for 15% off your entire purchase. - Thanks Truebill! Truebill.com/dreamjob - it could save you hundreds a year.

"Selling price is a race to the bottom. How many times have I been talking about Made to Do This in the launch and somebody says something about price, and I'm thinking to myself, you just told me you can't afford it. And I'm trying to save you from wasting $500 on a DIY class, that's actually now expensive, because I'm certain you won't get what you want from it. People do not complete those programs. So I can make a race to the bottom, passive income it up and just make tons of money off of subscriptions and things that people get no transformation from. But I'm good with price and where are you really making a transformation. So it is about standing for value." - Join Cathy and Sheri Salata for a free live workshop July 29th @ 5 pm PST! https://cathyheller.com/sheri

What can we learn from legendary comedians like Mark Twain and Dave Chappelle? Wayne Federman, Emmy-nominated standup comedian, actor, author, writer, producer, and professor of standup comedy history (Curb Your Enthusiasm, Late Night with Jimmy Fallon) has spent most of his life studying how the masters of comedy rose to the top of their game, and put these valuable lessons into his book, The History of Stand-Up. He shares how to survive constant criticism and rejection, choose happiness, and enjoy all the challenges of the journey of answering to your calling. - Join Cathy and Wayne on Aug. 19th for a free Zoom hangout https://cathyheller.com/wayne - Get the free workbook from this episode! https://cathyheller.com/482 - Listen to Wayne's first episode on the podcast https://www.cathyheller.com/2017/02/wayne-federman/ - Join Cathy and Sheri Salata for the free Do the Impossible workshop https://cathyheller.com/sheri - Watch our episodes on video https://www.youtube.com/cathyheller - Get Wayne's book The History of Stand-Up: From Mark Twain to Dave Chappelle https://amzn.to/36PrH7v - Listen to Wayne's podcast The History of Standup wherever you listen to podcasts - Follow Wayne on Instagram @instafederman and Twitter @federman - Thanks Bambee! Get a Free HR audit at Bambee.com/DREAMJOB - Thanks BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at Betterhelp.com/dreamjob - Thanks Amazon Music! Try Amazon Music Unlimited free for 30 days at Amazon.com/DREAMJOB30. - Thanks MVMT! Enjoy 28% off at Mvmt.com/dreamjob

"Your most powerful rising - that's the most relatable you could ever be. Because all of us know that that part of us is inside of us dying to come out. And you're not ready, you're over ready. You are over ready, and you are looking for permission to be called up and to get into your assignment. And there's just so much of a limiting belief on how much joy is really a thing. I think we've seen our mothers just settle in codependency and people pleasing, and it's something that we then set as a standard. And this, my friends, this is the great unravelling."

How can you establish healthy boundaries as a high functioning codependent? Terri Cole, psychotherapist, relationship and empowerment expert, podcast host, and author realized that trying to be responsible for everyone else's life was sacrificing her mental and emotional wellbeing. She's here to share her wisdom on how to assert your non-negotiables, stop your compulsion to fix other people, become comfortable with intimacy, and allow yourself to receive love.- Join us for the free workshop on How to Find Your Dream Path http://cathyheller.com/workshop - Download the free worksheet from this episode https://cathyheller.com/479 - Watch this interview on video https://youtube.com/cathyheller - Get Terri's free download on codependency and boundaries https://boundaryboss.me/dreamjob - Read Terri's book Boundary Boss https://boundarybossbook.com/ - Follow Terri on Instagram @terricole and join her Real Love Revolution Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/RealLoveRevolution - Get on the waitlist for Terri's Boundary Bootcamp https://terricole.com/bb2021 - Thanks Skillshare! Skillshare.com/dreamjob and get a one-month free trial of Premium Membership. - Thanks ShipStation! Shipstation.com and code dreamjob for a 60-day free trial. - Thanks Purple! Get 10% off any order of $200 or more at Purple.com/dreamjob10, promo code dreamjob10 - Thanks Indeed! Get started with a free $75 sponsored job credit to upgrade your job post at Indeed.com/dreamjob

"We have a superpower. It's called there's a soul that has electricity, there is a soul that knows how to love another human. Love is so powerful, it's so strong, the energy of it is so fast. And when you can sustain that elevated state of love, compassion, gratitude, if you can sustain that for 10 minutes, it stays with you throughout the day. It changes the way you walk into a room. We can actually see people's energy at that point. It's bigger, it takes up more space in the room. It's powerful. It collapses time and space, and things will start to come into your life just so easily, so quickly." - Join our free workshop on How to Find Your Dream Path on July 21st @ 5 pm PST! http://cathyheller.com/workshop

How can you build a business from a love for creating content? Cathy helps an actress, Emma, who feels depleted from trying to coach others and wants to explore the creative side that she abandoned. Cathy shares advice on how Emma can monetize her dream of making a web series, foster a community that shares her passion, and meet her edge to reach a new breakthrough. - Download the free workbook for this episode at https://cathyheller.com/477 - Join Cathy July 21st @ 5 pm PST for the free workshop on How to Find Your Dream Path! https://cathyheller.com/workshop - Watch our episodes on video https://www.youtube.com/cathyheller - Follow Emma Bridges on Instagram and TikTok @emma.abridged - Listen to Emma's podcast Spark to Screen wherever you listen to podcasts! - Thanks Wordtune! Try Wordtune for free at Wordtune.com/dreamjob

"I will survive that rejection. What I won't survive is staying within a limitation. I will not survive that. Instead I learned how to be resilient. Some people were rude. So what? I learned to not take anything personally. And then what happens is you become like a redwood tree forest. You're taller, you're strong, you can help other people now because you learn what life is really about. We're telling ourselves this narrative all the time that we can't take risks, we can't handle certain things. Yes, we can handle it. And yes, we can take risks. And that's where all the magic lies." - Get the How to Ditch Your Day Job Workshop for just $27! https://cathyheller.com/freedom

"We are afraid to feel the feeling. It's the drama about resisting that feeling. When you do that work, you just come and take care of yourself, then the feeling doesn't take you out. It actually just makes you stronger. And then it's almost like you are then rewarded in your life for how much you can sit beside that river and hold how much you can just witness. That's when you get into alignment. Because there's the coherence, you're not resisting anything, which then allows you to be open to the coherence of everything else that needs to come in." - Get the How to Ditch Your Day Job Workshop! https://cathyheller.com/freedom

When you've lost yourself to other people's needs, how can you come back home to the truest version of you? Mark Groves, human connection specialist, podcaster, and founder of Create the Love discovered that having hard conversations was the path towards self reclamation and alignment with integrity. He shares how to heal yourself from shame and self sabotage, let your voice be heard, learn from the past versions of yourself, and find your flow so you live in your truth. - Get the Ditch Your Day Job Workshop! https://cathyheller.com/freedom - Download the free workbook for this episode https://cathyheller.com/474 - Watch this episode on video https://www.youtube.com/cathyheller - Listen to the Mark Groves Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts! https://omny.fm/shows/mark-groves - Get Mark's workshop, tools and resources at https://createthelove.com/ - Follow Mark on Instagram and Facebook @createthelove - Check out the Mine'd App and get expert-led, daily live, and on-demand emotional wellness sessions https://linktr.ee/Mined - Thanks GoodRx! Start saving up to 80% on your prescriptions at GoodRx.com/dreamjob - Thanks Faherty! Get 20% off at FahertyBrand.com, code DREAMJOB

"I want you to notice how you advocate for other things, and then how you step all the way in to describing how exciting it is that you invented this thing, this world, this value. You have to get that you want people to ultimately come away with this yummy, juicy, fun, empathetic, awesome experience called this thing that you made. And so we have to just decide that that's what we are going to be doing, and not apologize." - Get the Ditch Your Day Job Workshop! https://cathyheller.com/freedom

How can you confront your fears and build a thriving business that you love? Rebecca Minkoff, acclaimed fashion designer, author, and podcaster, and Ali Wyatt created the Female Founder Collective, a community to provide resources, mentorship and opportunities to women who are in the trenches of entrepreneurship together. These two powerhouse leaders share how to break through the fear of pricing, how to jump off the cliff of perfectionism, what skill every entrepreneur should have, and how to make your big dream goals achievable. - Get the Ditch Your Day Job Workshop! https://cathyheller.com/freedom - Download the free workbook for this episode! https://cathyheller.com/472 - Watch this episode on video https://www.youtube.com/cathyheller - Join the 10th House at https://www.femalefoundercollective.com/ - Follow Female Founder Collective on Instagram @thefemalefoundercollective and LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-female-founder-collective/ - Get Rebecca's book Fearless: The New Rules for Unlocking Creativity, Courage, and Success https://www.readfearless.com/ Email your receipt to [email protected] Tell her you're a fan of this show and you'll get $25 credit to her store! - Listen to Rebecca's podcast, Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff wherever you listen to podcasts! - Follow Rebecca on Instagram @rebeccaminkoff and Ali @alikwyatt7 - Thanks BetterHelp! Get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/dreamjob

"All those people you could potentially get sucked into comparing yourself to - they're on that road, they're sitting there trying to curate the feed and have it looked like it's got branded colors and thoughts and the avocado toast looks good. It really blends in with the noise. If you want to make something happen in this world, it's not trying to get vanity numbers, and it's not about going wide with thousands and millions. It's about going deep with a few. You will pierce through the noise by just saying something that's true, and being in a resonance and a vibration that's real and centered and aligned. And you won't need to keep up with all those other people who are just blending in with each other. Just do you." - Get the free Dream Goal Tracker worksheet! http://cathyheller.com/dream

"Leadership means that I lead my way through it. And people can see me because I'm standing out from the crowd. I'll probably make mistakes, and other people will make fun or call on me or criticize me - because I decided to lead. And I'm on the hook. There's a cost. I will allow the 14 people who start seeing my lemonade stand to talk about me. They might think I'm weird. That's okay. You can survive it. Your whole life is going to be ripped wide open and feel so liberating when it's okay that not everyone likes you." - Download the free Dream Goal Tracker worksheet! http://cathyheller.com/dream

How can you stop worrying about the outcome and make the most of each moment? Cheryl Hines, Emmy nominated actress, producer, director, and podcast host grew up knowing that her situation didn't define her, and that mindset has allowed her to step into life changing experiences and opportunities. She shares how releasing expectations helped her get her iconic role on Curb Your Enthusiasm, what it's like working with Larry David and his idiosyncrasies, how to free yourself from anxious thoughts, and how failure can lead you to success. - Download the free Dream Goal Tracker worksheet! http://cathyheller.com/dream - Watch our episodes on video at https://www.youtube.com/cathyheller - Listen to Tig and Cheryl: True Story wherever you listen to podcasts! - Follow Cheryl on instagram @_cherylhines - Thanks Canva! Get a free 45-day extended trial by going to Canva.me/dreamjob - Thanks Issuu! Issuu.com/podcast, promo code dreamjob for your FREE account or 50% off your premium account. - Thanks Skillshare! Skillshare.com/dreamjob for one-month free trial of Premium Membership.

"There's a buyer at every price. There's a buyer for every program. Certain people are going to say, 'Not the time commitment I want, not the money commitment, I'm not really ready to commit myself at that level,' and there's a portion who go, 'You still haven't convinced me. But I like you.' It's all good. So we have to reframe it. There are people right now who we can serve who we can uplift. If my listeners only knew the times where I could feel bulldozed over by rejection. But I'm here for the people who love this." - Download the free Dream Goal Tracker worksheet! http://cathyheller.com/dream

How can you break through your upper limit and step into your genius zone? Gay Hendricks, PhD, NYT bestselling author of The Big Leap is back to share the most empowering lessons from his new book, The Genius Zone. He shares how to stop being controlled by fear, commit to receive more, and find the portal to the full flow of abundance and creativity inside of you. - Watch this episode on video! https://www.youtube.com/cathyheller - Get your copy of Gay's book The Genius Zone! https://www.geniuszonebook.com/ - More of Gay and the Hendricks Institute https://hendricks.com/ - Follow Gay Hendricks on Instagram @hendricks.gay - Thanks Wondery! Listen to One Hundred Percent with Marcus Lemonis on Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or wherever you get your podcasts. - Thanks BetterHelp! BetterHelp.com/dreamjob for 10% off your first month

"This is not just about having empathy for your customer. This is about having empathy for yourself. And it's having empathy for your daughter and her daughter and the women around you who you're going to start to show a whole new model. You're saying, 'I'm going to do what I love. I'm going to do it from home. I'm going to do it with passion. I'm going to do it on my terms. And I'm not going to give up things that somebody else tells me I have to give up in order to be like somebody else.'"

"You are not separate from me. We are energetic. We're like pools of consciousness just sitting in bodies, we're all in a tide pool for the ocean. If you get joyful, you're doing that for everyone else. You are expanding on behalf of the collective. Your job in the world is not to look at each other and go, 'Let's go off in a treehouse and enjoy each other for its own sake.' Negatory. Be more whole, by being together. So you help to complete this world."

How can you find the courage to show up as yourself, when your entire career is so focused on being someone else? Busy Philipps (Freaks and Geeks, Cougar Town, Girls5Eva), actress, bestselling author, and podcaster was feeling trapped until she made the decision to stop impressing everyone and just be herself. She shares why trying is the most powerful thing you can do, how she almost missed Tina Fey's offer to be on Girls5Eva, how to be open to the possibilities of "what if", and how being yourself can unlock the door to more meaning, opportunities, and joy. - Watch our episodes on video! https://www.youtube.com/c/CathyHeller - Listen to Busy Philipps is Doing Her Best wherever you listen to podcasts! - Follow Busy on Instagram @busyphilipps - Read Busy's book This Will Only Hurt A Little https://bit.ly/3jjb4Zj - Thanks Bambee! Bambee.com/dreamjob to schedule your free HR audit. - Thanks GoodRx! Save 80% on your prescriptions at Goodrx.com/dreamjob

"A lot of people think that marketing at some point, it's just going to work. Being marketing driven doesn't work. Interrupting somebody watching Friends and saying, 'Buy Crest toothpaste' does not work. Paying money for Facebook ads and worrying about your marketing strategy doesn't work. What does work is being market driven, not marketing driven. Market driven. Person driven. Every one customer who loves you, who's evangelical about you will tell four other people. And the person who you're going to reach is you. So you're gonna talk to the person who gets you because she is you."

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"We have to shift into a place where we are signalling to yourself, 'I know this is here. I'm going in.' And then you go in. And now that next thing does manifest. It does appear. You have to make that decision energetically, because it's an energetic exchange. You have to be willing to go beyond the energy that you feel is what you receive and what you give and how it works. And you have to go up and out. I want you to buy yourself that jumpsuit that you're like, 'I would never spend $300 on a jumpsuit.' Watch how you feel when you do. Watch how you feel when you put it on. And you start to go, 'Oh, because this is telling me I'm different. My identity has shifted. My paradigm has shifted. And now I will start to act in accordance with who I tell myself that I am. And I will start to signal that to other people.'"

"We live in a vibrational universe. We live in a sea of energy more than anything else. So what happens is we want to manifest things. But at the same time, we also put in the world our resistance. We don't want to do it, because we'll only believe it when we see it. So we don't plant the seed because the seed is like, 'As soon as I plant the seed, what I'm also going to do is, I'm going to walk away. I don't even know if I'm actually going to water it. I don't even know if I'm going to show up for it, because I really can't see that end.' But in order to plant the seeds and get excited and make the crops really beautiful, you have to be able to see it before you see it."

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