A Gay and A NonGay

Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5? --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live! -- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike? --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn't think so. --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay! --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we're hanging out with mates? Dan is triggered. -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues... 😞 -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A NonGay & A Grandaddy! The boys chat about our shared LGBTQ+ history, Trans rights, Stonewall 50 and err 'bumming'. We kick off our first ever Pride Tour this weekend, see you this Saturday 8th June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live We're playing Dublin (23rd) and Belfast (24th) this month too & return to the Edinburgh Fringe 2019 this August. Tap on gaynongay.com/live for info. -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS. Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special. -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at gaynongay.com/live --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there's A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex and child abuse. Today's episode celebrates Digital Pride: the online movement, created by Gay Star News so you can take part in pride whoever and wherever you are. This year Digital Pride is tackling loneliness and isolation, find out more at gaystarnews.com We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete? -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com Get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand what it means to be Non-Binary, how to be a better ally and how gender identity can be confusing no matter how you feel. Listen to Caitlin & co-host Amrou’s NB podcast on BBC Sounds for more. & A Non Binary is the second in our series learning more about other identities and sexualities. You can listen to our previous episode & A Trans. --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com Mug someone off at our shop and get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it's okay to 'mug someone off' if you've invited them back for sex? --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London. --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into... Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan's advice on how to come out. For more advice on coming out listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and invite us to the Whale of the Year Awards at [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks and the latest on homophobic protests outside a school in Birmingham. Plus NonGay Eye's back and our listener Mason wants to know if he's missing out on the fun of his 20s whilst being in a gay relationship? We've taken loads of your wonderful messages to our favourite advice podcast! Listen to our brand new series with Radio 1's Life Hacks podcast via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0738blz. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new LGBT Education action plan -- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers. -- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean? --- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it? We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Find out more about The Trevor Project's 50 Bills 50 States, or the podcast UnErased to understand more about conversion therapy in the US. Check out The Rainbow Project in Northern Ireland, promoting the health and wellbeing of LGBT+ people and their families. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story. For support and information about HIV we recommend Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK and in the US Greater Than Aids. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson from our special episode A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans, and highlights from our 100th Episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their singing. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just 'podcast content'? Please remember to get regularly tested at your local sexual health clinic - find out more at ASHA or the NHS or your local clinic. Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection. Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic. Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your doctor or we recommend these resources: Terrence Higgins Trust Greater Than Aids I Want Prep Now The Aids Memorial on instagram tells stories of love, loss and remembrance. ❤️ -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection. Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic. Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your doctor or we recommend these resources: Terrence Higgins Trust Greater Than Aids I Want Prep Now The Aids Memorial on instagram tells stories of love, loss and remembrance. ❤️ -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE and hitting people for 'entertainment' just another display of toxic masculinity? And is all male BOYLESQUE basically just porn? And if you want to impress Dan, don’t get your dick out. Order pizza. 25 of them. Support the boys in this weekend's 10K #RedRun in aid of Positive East on Worlds Aids Day. If you're in London, get tickets for Briefs Close Encounters at Christmas. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating. Podcasters anonymous - tell us your woes: [email protected] -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There's also some admin and both A Gay and A NonGay clearly know absolutely nothing about vaginas. Read the full LGBT in Health Report online. - A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn't even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed - A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be 'mugged off' before you've been ghosted and is ghosting the right thing to do if someone you don't fancy keeps getting in touch? Top tip : don't have a nap if someone is waiting on a reply. Plus love and solidarity with all our LGBTQ+ Brazilian family. --- This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide. James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat Loaf lyrics . Plus how do you know when it’s time to go exclusive in a gay relationship. --- This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts Complex in 2003. What more could you want? A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne's new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there's a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Ernie. Plus some important information on the Gender Reform Act - please find out more and submit to the consultation here: https://www.stonewall.org.uk/gender-recognition-act A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled? A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy 101st! It's business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It's a long way from 'Hello' and NonHat wearers. Listen to our centenary episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode! Rule No. 1: Don't sexualise a banana 🍌 Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email [email protected] or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices