
21st Century Dating Decoded!
Brad Peters, Chief Development Officer, Director, CEO of Speed Mingle · Brad Peters, CEO & CDO of Speed Mingle
Show overview
21st Century Dating Decoded! launched in 2025 and has put out 70 episodes in the time since. That works out to roughly 9 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a several-times-a-week cadence.
Episodes typically run under ten minutes — most land between 4 min and 11 min — with run-times ranging widely across the catalogue. None of the episodes are flagged explicit by the publisher. It is catalogued as a EN-language Society & Culture show.
The show is actively publishing — the most recent episode landed 5 days ago, with 19 episodes already out so far this year. The busiest year was 2025, with 51 episodes published. Published by Brad Peters, CEO & CDO of Speed Mingle.
From the publisher
Welcome to 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast! Dating today is an adventure—one that’s as confusing as it is exciting. Join your host, Don, and his crew for a weekly exploration of what it really takes to find your match. From mastering the art of the first impression to the deep work of commitment, we break down the walls of modern romance with a blend of humor, honesty, and professional insight.What you can expect from each episode: - Real Talk: Candid discussions about dating challenges and triumphs. - Expert Advice: Practical tips and strategies from relationship coaches and psychologists. - Success Stories: Inspiring tales from real people who found love. - Listener Q&A: Your burning dating questions, answered! Whether you're single and searching, in a new relationship, or simply curious about modern romance, "Dating Decoded" is your essential guide. Subscribe now and hit the notification bell so you don't miss out on new episodes every weekend! Follow us on social media for more dating tips and behind-the-scenes content: - Instagram: @TheSpeedMingle - Facebook: @TheSpeedMingle - TikTok: @TheSpeedMingle Listen to the full podcast on your favorite platforms: - YouTube: @TheSpeedMingleThe4MinuteDate For business inquiries, please contact Brad Peters at [email protected]. #DatingDecoded #SpeedMinglePodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipGoals #ModernDating #LoveLife #DatingTips #PodcastForSingles #FindLove #DatingJourney #SinglesLife #RelationshipAdvice #DatingCoach #PodcastCommunity #LoveAndDating #DatingShow #OnlineDating #FirstDates #DatingApps #MakingConnections #HealthyRelationships #DatingSuccess #PodcastLife #NewEpisode
Latest Episodes
View all 70 episodesThe "Wildflowering" Paradigm: Analyzing Gen Z’s Transition Toward Organic Relational Development
From Swipe to Seat: Decoding the Modern First Date
The 777 Rule: Establishing a Structured Paradigm for Sustained Relationship Maintenance.
The Monogamy Debate in 2026: Emerging Perspectives on Modern Relationship Boundaries

The Micro-Cheating Metric: Auditing Intimacy with Biometric Data
📉 Is Your Heartbeat Telling Secrets?In the age of smartwatches and digital transparency, where does "privacy" end and "infidelity" begin? On this week’s episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast, we’re diving deep into the data behind the drama.🎙️ New Episode: "The Micro-Cheating Metric"We explore the controversial rise of Auditing Intimacy with Biometric Data. From elevated heart rates during "innocent" DMs to sleep-tracking anomalies, we discuss whether wearable tech is the ultimate relationship-saver or a digital Pandora's box.What we’re breaking down:The Biometric Paper Trail: Can your physical data prove emotional betrayal?The Ethics of Auditing: Is monitoring your partner’s stats the new "checking their phone"?Defining the Metric: Where do we draw the line between healthy transparency and digital surveillance?🔗 Engage & SubscribeAre you prepared to formalize your participation? Follow and subscribe to ensure you do not miss any future segments at:👉 https://21stcenturydatingdecoded.riverside.com/🎧 Listen on our Podcast PlatformsLocate your preferred platform match on:Apple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeAmazon Music / AudibleiHeart RadioDeezer📺 Watch on the Speed Mingle TV NetworkPrefer the big screen? Access our content on:YouTubeRoku & Fire TV (Search “Speed Mingle TV Network” within the apps & games interface)HRB TV Network (Our parent company’s dedicated channel)#21stCenturyDating #MicroCheating #Biometrics #DatingDecoded #SpeedMingle #RelationshipTech #PodcastLaunch

Ep 4042026The Ghosting Ghostwriters: Delegated Dissolution via Algorithmic Intervention
👻 Ever felt like your breakup was written by a bot?In our latest episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast, we’re diving deep into the uncanny valley of modern rejection.🎙️ New Episode Alert:"The Ghosting Ghostwriters: Delegated Dissolution via Algorithmic Intervention"We explore the rise of outsourced breakups and the ethical quagmire of using AI to end human connections. Is automation saving us from awkwardness, or is it killing our capacity for empathy?🚀 Support the DiscourseShould you have valued this episode and deemed our discourse on the automation of heartbreak to be informative and thought-provoking, we request that you consider the following actions to support this program:Subscribe Now: Immediately activate the subscription button. This action ensures the uninterrupted receipt of future episodes containing essential dating intelligence.Rate Us: Submit a five-star review on your preferred podcast platform to assist other prospective listeners in discovering our program.The "Friend" Tax: Share this information with an acquaintance who persists in utilizing an antiquated, poorly lit headshot digitally enhanced with an expired filter. Forward the link; their future romantic prospects and our community will be appreciative.📺 Where to Watch & ListenListen on our Podcast Platforms: Locate your preferred platform match on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, Audible, iHeart Radio, or Deezer.Watch on the Speed Mingle TV Network: Access the complete podcast content, including video, on YouTube, Roku & Fire TV (search term: “Speed Mingle TV Network”), and the HRB TV Network.Don't miss a beat: Follow and subscribe at https://21stcenturydatingdecoded.riverside.com/#SpeedMingle #DatingDecoded #GhostingGhostwriters #ModernDating #PodcastLife #DatingIntelligence #RelationshipTech

Ep 3282026The "AI Wingman" Evolution: The Reassertion of Authenticity in Digital Romance
🚀 NEW EPISODE: The "AI Wingman" EvolutionIs AI your new best friend or the ultimate romance killer? In our latest episode, The "AI Wingman" Evolution: The Reassertion of Authenticity in Digital Romance, we dive deep into how 2026 technology is actually pushing us back toward being our most authentic selves.We explore the shift from "perfect" bot-generated bios to the "Analog Romance" movement. It’s time to stop hiding behind the algorithm and start using it to find real, human connection.📺 Where to Watch & ListenListen to the Podcast: Find us on all major platforms, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, Audible, iHeart Radio, or Deezer.Watch the Show: Stream our video content on YouTube or find the Speed Mingle TV Network on Roku and Fire TV. You can also catch us via the HRB TV Network.🔗 Stay ConnectedSubscribe: Ensure you receive all future segments and specialized insights at 21stcenturydatingdecoded.riverside.comFollow Us: Join us @TheSpeedMingle for exclusive behind-the-scenes content, advance announcements, and a look at our latest audience polling data.Support the Show: Submit a Five-Star Review! Your positive evaluation is crucial; it assists other thoughtful singles and modern romantics in discovering our program.#AIWingman #DatingTech2026 #SmartDating #DigitalRomance #AIInnovation #BumbleAI #ProfileOptimization #FutureOfDating #TechEnabledLove #AIAssisted #AuthenticDating #DatingDecoded #NoMoreFilters #HumanConnection #ModernRomance #DatingStrategy #IntentionalDating #SocialProof #MindfulDating #RealTalkDating #DopamineDetoxDate #OfflineDating #AnalogRomance #DateIdeas #ScreenFree #PresenceOverPixels #CreativeDating #AdventureDates #SlowDating #InRealLife #DatingTrends #RelationshipScience #Matchmaking2026 #IndustryAnalysis #DatingAppFatigue #ConsumerBehavior #DatingInsights #21stCenturyDating #TheSpeedMingle #DatingOptimization #21stCenturyDatingDecoded #TheSpeedMinglePodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipPodcast #ModernLove #DatingTips2026 #SpeedMingle #PodcastRecommendations #DatingVlog

Ep 3142026Disposable Relationships: The Defining Contradiction of Modern Courtship
🎙️ New Episode Alert: Is Modern Romance "Disposable"?In a world of infinite swipes and "thank u, next" energy, has the heart become a commodity? Our latest episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast is live, and we aren't holding back.💔 “Disposable Relationships: The Defining Contradiction of Modern Courtship”We’re diving deep into the "upgrade culture" of dating. Are we actually connecting, or are we just scrolling through a catalog of people? We explore why it feels easier to replace than to repair, and how to find depth in a shallow digital landscape.🎧 Where to ListenDon't miss a single beat! Follow and subscribe on your favorite platform for comprehensive access to all future episodes:Audio: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, iHeart Radio, or Deezer.Video: Catch the full experience on YouTube.📺 Watch on the Big ScreenPrefer to watch from the couch? We’ve got you covered on the Speed Mingle TV Network:Roku & Fire TV: Just search for “Speed Mingle TV Network.”HRB TV Network: Now streaming.Are we losing the art of the "slow burn"? Drop a 🚩 if you think dating has become too disposable, or a 💎 if you believe true connection is still thriving.#SpeedMingle #ModernDating #PodcastLife #DatingDecoded #RelationshipGoals #DisposableCulture #NewEpisode

Ep 3072026Friendfluence: The New Era of Dating
Published on Saturday, March 7, 2026Ready to rethink how you find "the one"? 🥂Our latest episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast is officially live, and we’re diving deep into a phenomenon that’s changing the game: "Friendfluence: The New Era of Dating."Stop swiping and start leveraging! In this episode, we explore how your social circle is your greatest untapped dating asset and why a friend's "stamp of approval" is the new ultimate green flag.🎧 How to ListenLocate us conveniently on all principal podcast platforms:Apple PodcastsSpotifyYouTubeAmazon Music & AudibleiHeart RadioDeezer📺 Watch on the New Speed Mingle TV NetworkPrefer to see the chemistry in action? Access our video content and complete episodes on:YouTubeRoku & Amazon Fire TV: Simply search for “Speed Mingle TV Network” within the apps & games interface.HRB TV Network: Our parent company's dedicated, premium channel.🚀 Join the RevolutionMaintain Connection: Follow us @TheSpeedMingle for daily dating insights, strategic advice, and behind-the-scenes looks at our community’s success stories.Join the Community: Your next "Friendfluence" success narrative could start tonight! Navigate to our official website immediately to register for your first virtual Speed Mingle event or find a live event in your area.#SpeedMingle #Friendfluence #ModernDating #DatingDecoded #RelationshipGoals

Ep 2282026The Metamorphosis of Modern Courtship: From Hyper-Curated Presentation to Radical Authenticity
🎙️ New Episode Alert: Is Your Dating Profile a Performance or a Portrait?Published on Saturday, February 28, 2025The digital age turned dating into a high-stakes branding exercise—but the pendulum is finally swinging back.This week on 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast, we’re diving deep into the shift that’s changing the game:The Metamorphosis of Modern Courtship: From Hyper-Curated Presentation to Radical AuthenticityAre we finally tired of the "Instagram-perfect" version of love? Join us as we explore:The "Curated" Trap: Why over-polished profiles are actually leading to fewer connections.The Rise of the Unfiltered: How radical authenticity is becoming the ultimate "green flag."Breaking the Script: Practical ways to show up as your real self (flaws and all) without the fear of the "swipe left."In a world of filters, the most attractive thing you can be is real.How to Tune In:🎧 Listen on Podcast Platforms: Find us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, Audible, iHeart Radio, or Deezer.📺 Watch on Speed Mingle TV Network:YouTubeRoku & Fire TV: Search “Speed Mingle TV Network” in Apps & Games.HRB TV Network: Our parent company’s dedicated channel.Join the Conversation: Have you ditched the "perfect" persona for something more real? Drop a 🙌 in the comments if you’re team Radical Authenticity!#DatingDecoded #SpeedMingle #ModernDating #AuthenticLove #RelationshipPodcast #DatingTrends2026

Ep 3272026Ocean Springs, MS Cocktails & Connections Speed Mingle (Events)
Ocean Springs, it’s time to stir things up! 🍸✨Ready for Cocktails & Connections? Join us for a Speed Mingle at Cypress Taphouse! Whether you're looking for a spark or just want to expand your Gulf Coast social circle, grab a drink and get ready for a night of fast-paced fun.📅 When: Friday, March 27th⏰ Time: 6:45 PM📍 Where: Cypress Taphouse, Ocean SpringsRegister at https://zurl.co/BiTZj Forget the apps—come make a real connection this Friday night! 🌊🍹#OceanSpringsMS #CypressTaphouse #MSCoastLife #SpeedMingle #CocktailsAndConnections #GulfCoastEvents

Ep 3252026Huntsville, AL Tap Small Talk & Big Pours Speed Mingle (Events)
Rocket City, are you ready to trade the small talk for some Big Pours? 🍻✨Join us in Huntsville for a Speed Mingle at Das Stahl Bierhaus! Whether you're looking for a connection or just a great mid-week vibe, grab a craft brew (or a coffee!) and get ready for a night of fast-paced fun.📅 When: Wednesday, March 25th⏰ Time: 6:45 PM📍 Where: Das Stahl Bierhaus & KaffeehausRegister at https://thespeedmingle.com/events/huntsville-al-tap-small-talk-big-pours-speed-mingle/Don't stay home—come see who’s tapping into the social scene! 🥨☕️#HuntsvilleAL #RocketCityEvents #DasStahlBierhaus #SpeedMingle #HSVLife #TapSmallTalk

Ep 2212026The Rise of "Choremance": The Modern Intimacy of Shared Domesticity
🧼 Is the Dishwasher the New Rose Petal?Published on February 21, 2026Welcome to the latest episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast! This week, we’re diving into a trend that’s cleaning up in the world of modern relationships: "Choremance." Forget grand gestures; we’re talking about the deep, modern intimacy found in folding laundry together and the absolute "spark" of a perfectly loaded dishwasher.Is shared domesticity the ultimate love language of 2026? Tune in to find out!🎧 Tune In & MingleReady to make it official? Follow and subscribe so you never miss a date with us. Find your perfect platform match on:Audio: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Audible, iHeart Radio, or Deezer.Video: Watch us on YouTube!TV Networks: Roku & Fire TV: Search “Speed Mingle TV Network” and “ HRB TV Network”🎟️ Secure Your SpotDon't just listen to the magic—experience it! Secure your spot at an upcoming Speed Mingle event near you at TheSpeedMingle.com. It’s time to take the lead, elevate your social portfolio, and Mix, Match, and Mingle in person.#SpeedMingle #Choremance #DatingDecoded #ModernLove #SharedDomesticity #RelationshipGoals #DatingWithPurpose

Ep 2072026An Essential Valentine's Day Strategy for Gentlemen: Emphasis on Effort over Expenditure
💘 Valentine’s Day: High Stakes or High Strategy?Published on February 7, 2026Gentlemen, let’s be honest—February 14th can feel like navigating a minefield. One wrong move and you’re in the doghouse; one right move and you’re the hero. But why leave it to chance?In our brand-new episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast, we’re breaking down the ultimate playbook for the big day.🎙️ Episode Title: "An Essential Valentine's Day Strategy for Gentlemen"Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, just started "situationship" territory, or heading out on a first date, this episode covers:The Blueprint: How to plan an evening that feels personal, not performative.The Gift Guide: Moving beyond the "grocery store flowers" cliché.The Mindset: Why the best strategy has nothing to do with your wallet and everything to do with your attention.Stop stressing and start strategizing. Level up your dating game before the clock strikes midnight!🎧 Listen and Subscribe Today!Ensure you do not miss an episode! Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your dating insights. 🔗 https://linktr.ee/21st_Century_Dating_Decoded#SpeedMingle #DatingDecoded #ValentinesDayStrategy #ModernDating #GentlemensGuide #PodcastAlert

Ep 1312026The Dawn of "Hot Take Dating": Redefining Modern Romance in 2026
Published on January 31, 2026Our latest episode is officially LIVE, and we’re diving deep into the trend that’s taking over 2026: "Hot Take Dating."Forget the small talk—we’re talking about leading with your boldest opinions to find a match that can actually handle the heat. 🌶️In this episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast, we explore:Why "The Scroll" is losing its soul.How to master the "Analog Approach" in a digital world.The rise of high-stakes, high-honesty dating.Stop guessing and start connecting. It’s time to redefine your modern romance.🎧 Listen and Subscribe Today! Ensure you do not miss an episode! Stream now via the provided link: 🔗 https://linktr.ee/21st_Century_Dating_Decoded#21stCenturyDating #HotTakeDating #AnalogRomance #SpeedMingle #Dating2026 #PodcastLife

Hedging Hearts: Why Modern Love in 2026 Looks Like Portfolio Management
Published - January 24, 2026📈 Is Your Love Life a Bull or Bear Market?In 2026, dating isn't just about "the spark"—it’s about diversification, risk assessment, and emotional ROI. Are you "holding" on a relationship that’s flatlining? Or are you "hedging" your bets by keeping three different rosters active just in case one crashes? 📉💖In our latest episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded, we’re breaking down why modern romance feels more like a high-stakes trading floor than a fairytale.What’s Inside This Episode:The "Benchwarmer" Strategy: Why we keep backups to mitigate heartbreak.Emotional Inflation: How the abundance of choice is devaluing deep connections.Portfolio Management vs. Presence: Learning to stop treating people like assets and start treating them like partners.It’s time to stop checking the "market value" of your partner and start investing in what matters.🎧 Listen & Subscribe Today! Don't miss a single episode! 👉 Stream now via the link: 🔗 https://linktr.ee/21st_Century_Dating_Decoded#21stCenturyDating #SpeedMinglePodcast #ModernLove2026 #DatingTrends #RelationshipAdvice #PortfolioManagement #LoveAndLogic #PodcastLife #DatingDecoded

The Chill Factor: Why Gen Z Men Are Hesitant to Date in 2026
Published on January 17, 2026Let's talk about the shift in modern dating. 🎙️Have you noticed the change? We're seeing a growing trend where Gen Z men are becoming increasingly hesitant to date. We call it "The Chill Factor." The podcast delves into the challenges faced by Gen Z men in traditional dating, exploring the impact of digital scrutiny, evolving social and gender norms, economic and mental health burdens, and prospective strategies for redefining connection in the 2026 dating landscape.TakeawaysChallenges of traditional datingImpact of digital scrutiny on datingEvolving social and gender normsEconomic and mental health burdens as confidence deterrenceProspective strategies for redefining connection🎧 Listen & Subscribe Today! Don't miss a single episode! 👉 Stream now via the link in our bio: 🔗 https://linktr.ee/21st_Century_Dating_Decoded#SpeedMingle #RealTalk #DatingPodcast #MalePerspective #GenZ #SocialDynamics #PodcastCommunity #DatingDecoded #ModernDating #TheChillFactor #2026Trends #MenAndDating #Relationships #PodcastNewEpisode #DatingTrends #GenZDating #SingleLife

Ep 1102026The Irreplaceable Nature of Human Connection: Why AI Cannot Substitute Real Relationships
Can You Code Chemistry?🤖 vs. ❤️: In a world of AI companions and perfectly curated algorithms, are we forgetting the messy, beautiful magic of real human connection?An AI can remember your birthday, but it can’t feel the excitement of celebrating it with you. It functions as an eloquent, passive mirror, not an active, co-experiencing companion.Join host Don as we get real about what technology can't do. Tune in to the latest episode of 21st Century Dating Decoded: The Official Speed Mingle Podcast! We’re discussing "The Irreplaceable Nature of Human Connection: Why AI Cannot Substitute Real Relationships."Listen & Subscribe Today! 🎧 Don't miss a single episode! 👉 https://linktr.ee/21st_Century_Dating_Decoded#SpeedMingle #DatingDecoded #HumanConnection #RealLove #PodcastLife #NoMoreBots #FaceToFace #DatingPodcast #LoveVsAI #ModernRomance

Ep 1032026The "Gray Revolution": A New Era of Later-Life Romance and Commitment
Who said romance has an expiration date? Love doesn't retire, and neither should your dating life. This week on 21st Century Dating Decoded, we are exploring a massive cultural shift: "The Gray Revolution."We’re moving past the stereotypes of quiet companionship to discuss the vibrant, passionate new era of later-life romance and real commitment. Whether you are 50+ or just interested in how the landscape of love is evolving, this episode is a must-listen.Tune in to The Official Speed Mingle Podcast and discover why the best chapter might just be the next one. TUNE IN NOW Listen & Subscribe Today! Don't miss a single episode! https://linktr.ee/21st_Century_Dating_DecodedFind and subscribe to 21st Century Dating Decoded wherever you get your podcasts—whether it's Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Google Podcasts, or Stitcher!#GrayRevolution #LaterLifeRomance #Over50Dating #ModernLove #DatingDecodedPodcast #SpeedMingle #SeniorDating #RomanceRedefined

Ep 12272025The Emergence of "Loud Looking": A Shift from Subtlety in Holiday Dating
🎄 Tired of playing it cool under the mistletoe? 🎄It’s time to turn up the volume on your dating life! This week on 21st Century Dating Decoded, we’re diving into the trend that’s taking over the holiday season: "Loud Looking."Forget playing hard to get or waiting for a "sign." From bold holiday outfits to making the first move at the office party, daters are officially ditching subtlety and making their intentions crystal clear.In this episode, we discuss:What exactly is "Loud Looking" and why it’s trending now.How to signal your interest without the holiday "cringe."Why the end-of-year rush is making us more honest about what we want.Don’t get left out in the cold—tune in and decode the holiday dating scene with us!🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! 👉 https://linktr.ee/21st_Century_Dating_Decoded#LoudLooking #HolidayDating #SpeedMingle #DatingPodcast #21stCenturyDating #DatingTrends2025.