Pillow Talk with Emma Austin

Send us Fan MailThis week, we sat in the closet and recorded our most casual conversation yet. We cover sex in our new house, how Emma embarrasses easily and how Jake uses that to his advantage during sex, and how our first couples bath in a long-ass time was a total fail. If you're into informal ramblings and wish our blooper reels were a lot longer, this is the episode for you.If you want some creative, quality porn to help you get through isolation and social distancing, we recommend Adult Time. Use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on your 30-day membership. Relevant links: How to Give Her a Sensual MassageThe Best Trick for Pleasuring a Sensitive Clit12 Different Types of Orgasms (Including My Weirdest One)All About My Husband's Dick (Phimosis, Delayed Ejaculation, and Death Grip)***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailCan you enjoy being tied up, spanked, and choked if you're not into pain and punishment?You can if you practice sensual domination. This week, we talk about how we discovered sensual domination, what makes it different from other kinds of BDSM, and how it's become a very big part of our sex life. If you want to play around with sensual domination, I recommend starting with a bondage kit. Get one from Betty's Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on anything you order.Relevant links: What Is Sensual Domination?I Blindfolded My Husband and It Didn't Go So WellHow Forced Dirty Talk Is Helping Me Find My VoiceI Didn't Have a Safeword - Turns Out I Needed One***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailDo I want to peg my husband?How did Jake handle his insecurities when I started flirting with other men?What's the right way to be there for your partner when you open up a relationship?This week, we're answering questions that our listeners have submitted and things get raw and vulnerable.If you have any questions you'd like us to answer on the podcast, send them our way! All the different ways you can reach us are listed below.Relevant links: My Husband Likes Watching Me Flirt with Another ManHe Called Me Boring After SexMy First Time with a Woman Was Super AwkwardThe Only Porn I Kept From My Husband***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailDoes your partner know you watch porn?For a while, we kept our porn habits a secret from each other. Now, we've found a much better way.This week, we talk about how to make porn a part of your relationship, our favorite types of porn, why porn privacy is better than porn secrecy, that time I caught Jake watching porn (and the reason he never caught me!)If you're looking for great porn to watch alone or as a couple, we recommend Adult Time. Use the code LOVEEMMA when you sign up and get 20% off your 30-day membership.Relevant links: True Lesbian by Adult TimeWhy You Should Give Animated Porn a ChanceI Cured My VaginismusHow to Use Pornhub EthicallyWhy Are We Still Weird About Masturbation in Marriage***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailHow well do you know your partner's fantasies and desires?This week, we tried a game called Pillow Talk. It's designed to get couples (or groups of very open minded adults) talking about their sex life and what they want out of it. It gets us talking about everything from foot stuff and gang bangs to scalp massage foreplay.And it's got the same name as the podcast, so we sort of had to.If you want to try Pillow Talk for yourself, you can get it from Betty's Toy Box - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout for 10% off your order.We're also aware that the audio quality in this episode isn't as good as it normally is. We'll be fixing those issues before the next one!Relevant links: Pillow Talk cards on my InstagramMy Method for Getting into (Almost) Any Kind of SexI Let My Husband See My Real Masturbation Style***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailWhere would you even store a sex doll?That's a question we ask and never fully answer, but we'll have to figure it out sooner or later because it's probably only a matter of time before I get one.This week, we talk about the appeal of sex dolls, why I really want one, and how we ended up almost buying two sets of Pussy Tits. Relevant links: Pussy Tits!Future Darkly on Adult Time (use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)My review of the Mini Teddy Thruster (get it from Betty's Toy Box and use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)See the Thruster in actionThis Year, I'm Celebrating Sexmas***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailEver wish the Sims were just a little... sexier?I did, so I got WickedWhims. It's a Sims 4 mod that jazzes up the game with plenty of hardcore sex. In this episode, we perv over the game and its surprisingly arousing animations. We talk about bootjobs and physically improbable sex positions. We go over our plans for backyard sex. And I discover that no matter how hard I try to open up my marriage, I always end up just fucking my husband - even in a video game.Relevant links: WickedWhimsHow to Give a Handjob He'll Always RememberHow to Fuckboi-Proof YourselfHow to Get Face Fucked Like a ChampWhat Stuck Porn Taught Me About Dubious Consent***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailI write a lot of confessional stuff on my blog. I spill the details about my sex life and my relationships. But I don't talk a lot about the work itself. In this episode, I go over how I went from being a bored stay-at-home mom to a full-time sex blogger. Along the way, we talk about reinvigorating our sex life, struggling to tell my mom what I do, and we prove that we couldn't end an episode smoothly to save our lives.Relevant links: Sex Sells (But Who's Buying?)My Misadventure in PolyamoryFind Someone Who Matches Your Sexual EnergyMy Father Is a NarcissistWhy I Wrote Confessional Erotica (And You Should, Too)***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailWhat would you do if you had a hundred bucks to spare? We can't resist a good surprise, so we spent it on a mystery box of sex toys.This week, we unbox more than 20 sex toys, featuring lots of bondage gear and a few items that push us out of our comfort zone. But hey, we're willing to try everything once (and sometimes twice!) Relevant links: Mysterious Box of Toys by SportsheetsAll the contents of our Epic Mysterious Box on InstagramMy one-year anniversary post on InstagramSex Sells (But Who's Buying?) - The first blog post I ever publishedHow to Give Head When He's Too Big***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailDoes the size of your dick make a difference? Well, yes and no.This week, we talk about size insecurities, why big dicks don't always make for better sex, and Jake tells an embarrassing story about giving his old pal a handjob (twice!) Relevant articles: Size Doesn't Matter As Much As You ThinkI Was an Actual Size QueenHow to Give Head When He's Too BigMy Misadventure in Polyamory (And What I Learned from It)I've Never Received a Dick PicThe Best One Night Stand of My Life***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailI write about sex and relationships, and some of my most popular articles have been about my husband's junk.So, I guess this is me giving my followers, readers, and listeners what they want: a whole episode about what my husband's got going on between his legs. Specifically, the challenges he's had because of it. This week, I ask Jake to tell me about his experience as a man with phimosis, a delayed ejaculator, and someone who is working to overcome death grip.Relevant articles: I Married a Delayed EjaculatorI Married a Man with PhimosisHow to Give a Blowjob He'll Never ForgetThe Benefits of Mutual MasturbationThis Year, I'm Celebrating Sexmas***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailYou would know if you squirted, right? Well, maybe not. I did it for years without even realizing it.In this episode, we talk about how I managed to be so clueless about my own squirting, how I discovered I could squirt, and we go over the technique Jake uses to make me squirt. If you want to watch some hot squirting porn (and support the show), check out Adult Time's squirting videos! Use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on your 30-day membership! Relevant articles: Why Should A Hetero Orgasm Be All About The P in V by Shannon AshleyAn Introduction to Female Performance Anxiety by Octavia MorrisonI Got a Pussy Massage and It Rocked My Socks OffMy Method for Getting into (Almost) Any Kind of SexBloopers Make Me Horny***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Bellesa Films (for hot, dirty, high-quality porn entirely created by women!)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailHow many different ways do you come? I made a list of my different types of orgasm and I counted 12 in total. In this episode, we go over each of them. Some are your standard, ordinary types. Others, though, are a little more unusual.I almost couldn't bring myself to upload this one because it includes an audio clip of me having my weirdest type of orgasm. But it's just too strange not to share.Relevant articles: Laughing Orgasms Are Weird But AwesomeI Asked to Be Spanked 1,000 TimesI Had Phone Sex Without Saying a WordI Married a Delayed EjaculatorHow to Come Better***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailWhat's your first sex toy? In this episode, we talk about our first sex toys. I share my most embarrassing sex story, I explain why I kept breaking my vibrators, and Jake talks about overcoming his sex toy insecurities. Relevant articles:I Used a Sex Toy on My HusbandThe Benefits of Mutual Masturbation(Note: This episode was recorded before Christmas. Since then, I got a gorgeous popsicle dildo as a gift! Check it out here!)***If listening to this inspired you to get sexy, check out some of my affiliate links. I've used and personally recommend all of these. If you click on one and sign up or make a purchase, I earn a small commission and you will be supporting the podcast:Betty's Toy Box (for a great selection of sex toys - use the code LOVEEMMA at checkout to save 10% on your order)Adult Time (for fans of mainstream porn - use the code LOVEEMMA to save 20% on a 30-day membership)***I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/Follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832Check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Subscribe to my newsletter to stay up to date on everything I'm doing: https://emmaaustin.substack.com/p/welcome-to-my-newsletterFollow Mr. Austin on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MisterAustin1Business or other inquiries: [email protected]*** Music from https://filmmusic.io"Deadly Roulette" by Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com)License: CC BY (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) Support the show

Send us Fan MailIs it a good idea to publish a bunch of outtakes from our test recording session? What if I told you I spent the whole recording time vaping?Well, it's done. It's here. Enjoy it if you can. And if not, be assured that a properly edited, full-length episode is coming in just one week!I write about sex and relationships here: https://medium.com/@emma.austin.writerAnd on my personal blog: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/You can follow me on Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmmaAus27418832And check me out on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveemmaaustin/Support the show